I personally prefer to not endulge in worldly tradictions, because I rather please God as much as I am able, when He tell me from His Holy Word that something is wrong.... I stay away from it no matter what other say, or how they try to make excuses to why it is okay..... everything that is formed, invented, created for the worship of unclean spirits... I will not use it or touch it......
Now, lets use the wisdom God has given us..... now if you use a candle to light your house, or to entertain your spouse, and not say it is for anything else other than something Godly... I believe that is okay..... I had a bath set given to me.... it was the soap, the salt and the shower gel... lavender.... every time I took a shower I felt the need to get rid of it ( it was pretty in it's case so I used it for decoration) so one day I said let me see why I keep getting a bad feeling about this stuff, so I read what it said, and it was supposed to be used to heal, and mental restoration, and it was supposed to bring wealth and prosperity..... If I soak in the salt, and bathe with the soap, and let the candle fragrance enter my body and all these thing was to come to me..... you should have saw how fast that crap went into the garbage and out of my house and I told every foul spirit that was sent with it to go........