I'm Anglican, so I'm diet-Catholic. There is a lot I don't agree with that the Catholics do, but there is a lot I don't agree with that everybody else does, too. If I hated everyone who didn't do things they way I thought they should be done, I'd spend all my time hating...which...again...like ruling the world...does not leave me without enough sleep time.
Unfortunately, a lot of people who hate Catholics have never actually set foot in a Catholic church or done any sort of research with a normal Joe who attends Mass. I think a lot of people would be suprised to go to a Catholic Mass and see that it was singing, praying, a sermon, more singing and praying, communion, followed by singing and praying...which, oddly enough sounds like the same thing I do in EVERY other church I've been to, only with more kneeling and some body crossing arm exercises.