Quarrelsome nagging

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A quarrelsome wife is as annoying
as constant dripping on a rainy day.
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Quarrelsome nagging, a steady stream of unwanted advice, is a form of torture. People nag because they think they're not getting through, but nagging hinders communication more than it helps. When tempted to engage in this destructive habit, stop and examine your motives. Are you more concerned about yourself-getting your way, being right-than about the person you are pretending to help? If you are truly concerned about other people, think of a more effective way to get through to them. Surprise them with words of patience and love, and see what happens.
 
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Yeah, women are so annoying. If only they would shut up like they have been commanded and leave all the clever stuff to us men.....

"Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." (I Timothy 2:11-14)

 
zone

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sloppy3 said:
Yeah, women are so annoying. If only they would shut up like they have been commanded and leave all the clever stuff to us men.....

"Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." (I Timothy 2:11-14)
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perhaps a suggestion to the forum owners:

two Bible Discussion Forums:

MEN ONLY

WOMEN ONLY

i'd happily leave the clever stuff to the men.
when can you start?

(that verse means in church. this ain't church).
 
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sloppy3

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zone said:
perhaps a suggestion to the forum owners:

two Bible Discussion Forums:

MEN ONLY

WOMEN ONLY

i'd happily leave the clever stuff to the men.
when can you start?

(that verse means in church. this ain't church).
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Oh, so women are only inferior within the walls of a church?
 
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sloppy3 said:
Yeah, women are so annoying. If only they would shut up like they have been commanded and leave all the clever stuff to us men.....

"Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." (I Timothy 2:11-14)
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Congatulations, you just won a trip to my ignore bin. Have a nice day
 
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sloppy3 said:
Oh, so women are only inferior within the walls of a church?
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yuck.
glad i don't know you personally.
pity any woman you trick into marrying you.
 
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sloppy3 said:
Yeah, women are so annoying. If only they would shut up like they have been commanded and leave all the clever stuff to us men.....

"Let the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." (I Timothy 2:11-14)
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Get out of here woman hater. God is no respecter of persons.
 
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sloppy3

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loveschild said:
Get out of here woman hater. God is no respecter of persons.
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I was being ironic - perhaps a little too subtly for you all........

What do you mean God is no respecter of persons??????
 
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unclefester

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zone said:
perhaps a suggestion to the forum owners:

two Bible Discussion Forums:

MEN ONLY

WOMEN ONLY

i'd happily leave the clever stuff to the men.
when can you start?

(that verse means in church. this ain't church).
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If that happens, I'm going pink :cool:
 
biggiestomp

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This wasn't posted to point out women. It was pointing at quarrelsome nagging people. Quarrelsome nagging, a steady stream of unwanted advice, is a form of torture. People nag because they think they're not getting through, but nagging hinders communication more than it helps. This could be both men and women.
 
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sloppy3

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No. sorry. Your quote definitely singled out women for criticism of nagging......
 
biggiestomp

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sloppy3 said:
No. sorry. Your quote definitely singled out women for criticism of nagging......
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That was the scripture i used. But what was said under, was not signaling out anyone. So please dont try drawing me into your mess...lol​
 
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sloppy3

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biggiestomp said:
That was the scripture i used. But what was said under, was not signaling out anyone. So please dont try drawing me into your mess...lol​
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What? You quoted a scripture and then try to distance yourself from it because it is clearly immoral?

What are you doing?
 
biggiestomp

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Here is an example of how we might take God's word out of context, or just taken part of whats talked about in trying to make a point.

Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them (Colossians 3:18-19).

As I've notice from this verse, to submit is also to love. So many men have taken this out of context not understanding we too must submit. Even if it meant submitting to our Lord. Which is also in loving your wife.

It was a scripture I've used, but the context was on quarrelsome and nagging. Which is not something that's just on women. In that scripture it was addressing the wife. But in whole aren't we all the bride of Christ? Just saying!
 
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sloppy3

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Sorry - still don't accept your defense.

You say that to submit to christ is exactly what is says - to obey unfailingly


But the same word appled to a woman only means that she must love her husband. And that she must not necessarly obey him?????


You're making this up as you go, methinks.
 
biggiestomp

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sloppy3 said:
What? You quoted a scripture and then try to distance yourself from it because it is clearly immoral?

What are you doing?
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nothing is immoral about God's word. what you directed it to, was not my point in the post.
 
biggiestomp

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sloppy3 said:
Sorry - still don't accept your defense.

You say that to submit to christ is exactly what is says - to obey unfailingly


But the same word appled to a woman only means that she must love her husband. And that she must not necessarly obey him?????


You're making this up as you go, methinks.
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Nor do i care if you accept my defense....lol i wasn't the one who point out women other then using God's word. The added comments were from you! But in any case brother, misery loves company....lol Like right now, you and I are becoming like what i posted....lol Which one is the wife...lol
 
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Brother Biggie pay no attention to SloppyJoe, hes a perfect example of the point you were trying to make.
 
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Biggiestomp, your avatar makes you look young for being 44 years of age. Maybe the camera takes of ten pounds?
 
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