Slain in the Spirit?

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Yeah but, that story isn't about my aunt. Lol.

Our own effort is not enough, only through Christ can we make any progress.
None of us knows how much crying and begging another person does at night, alone in their bed. Nor do we know why God doesn't deal with each of us identically.
 

BillG

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Back to Corinthians. Has anyone, (including you), told her that's not what God wants? Has anyone reminder her of her weakness in such a way that she would call on the Lord?

Addict here -- I still remember how hard it is to quit an addiction, because I'm still stuck with one. I sympathize with your aunt. I feel horrible if no one has told her the truth though, because either they're busy thinking she's fine or busy judging her. The least of her problems is going down after having hands laid on her. I'm much more concerned about her than her floor time.
Hi addict there.

Its a sad state of affairs where in the church there are people who just write others off because they struggle with an addiction(s)

Yet they have no desire to come alongside in love to understand why.
Behind every addiction is a cause that causes the effect.

What is the biggest addiction in the world today?

Its sin, whatever one wants to define as to what sin is.

Thruth is believers will struggle with addiction and believers need to realise this.
Those who do let’s not write them off. Come alongside and walk with them.
If they have a desire to be released then God knows that and sees that.
Little steps at a time
 

Innerfire89

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Back to Corinthians. Has anyone, (including you), told her that's not what God wants? Has anyone reminder her of her weakness in such a way that she would call on the Lord?

Addict here -- I still remember how hard it is to quit an addiction, because I'm still stuck with one. I sympathize with your aunt. I feel horrible if no one has told her the truth though, because either they're busy thinking she's fine or busy judging her. The least of her problems is going down after having hands laid on her. I'm much more concerned about her than her floor time.
So the people who laid hands on her, should they not have told her? Was it my responsibility when I was a child being driven insane by all the durken fighting to tell her? I have no clue if she's even alive anymore, I lost contact with her years ago, but she was still going to church and still an alcoholic the last time we spoke.
These churches give people the idea that their filled with the Holy Spirit while at the same time their being destroyed by sin. That seems like a problem to me.
 

BillG

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None of us knows how much crying and begging another person does at night, alone in their bed. Nor do we know why God doesn't deal with each of us identically.
Like me with my gambling addiction every night for 20 years.

My fears woke me up every night at the same time.
I got so tired and got to the stage of asking God to take my life, even considered doing it myself.
Afterall he would look after my wife and 4 young kids.

As you can see neither happened and I have been free of gambling now for 6 years.

Praise God.
I thank him that he knows what he is doing
 
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So the people who laid hands on her, should they not have told her? Was it my responsibility when I was a child being driven insane by all the durken fighting to tell her? I have no clue if she's even alive anymore, I lost contact with her years ago, but she was still going to church and still an alcoholic the last time we spoke.
These churches give people the idea that their filled with the Holy Spirit while at the same time their being destroyed by sin. That seems like a problem to me.
You were a child for no more than a couple of decades, and much of that time you weren't yet saved. You blame that church. You are the Church! What about you now?

I have been saved for 45 years. My blood family still isn't. I'm not blame "church." I've been letting them know for decades now with no success. (I'm the nut in the family. Go figure.) I've been praying. What other thing can I do?

But I can give you this much. My husband was outs with his family for several years. No one was saved, even him, when they family divided. But he returned because he wasn't the only one saved while he was gone. His older brother was too. Stuff happens to people. Considering you and your aunt have much in common, why not see how she is doing, if she is still doing? You've got quite the testimony for her. Wouldn't that be something?
 

Innerfire89

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Since a person is born again and their soul is saved and they know they have Jesus and they have been sealed with the Holy Spirit of Promise....,, shouldn't that change their lives too? Of course!! but we have this treasure in earthen vessels. And the Lord knows our physical frame that we are but dust. Yet the Holy Spirit is always with us despite our many stupid actions to the contrary. He has patience to teach us, lead us and and conform us and comfort us all through the process.

That is why we should not be looking at people according to the flesh. No more than we should be looking at ourselves according to the flesh. Emphasis on verse 16***** 2 Cor.5:14-21


[SUP]14 [/SUP]For the love of Christ controls and urges and impels us, because we are of the opinion and conviction that [if] One died for all, then all died;
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15 [/SUP]And He died for all, so that all those who live might live no longer to and for themselves, but to and for Him Who died and was raised again for their sake.
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16 [/SUP]Consequently, from now on we estimate and regard no one from a [purely] human point of view [in terms of natural standards of value]. [No] even though we once did estimate Christ from a human viewpoint and as a man, yet now [we have such knowledge of Him that] we know Him no longer [in terms of the flesh].
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17 [/SUP]Therefore if any person is [ingrafted] in Christ (the Messiah) he is a new creation (a new creature altogether); the old [previous moral and spiritual condition] has passed away. Behold, the fresh and new has come!
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18 [/SUP]But all things are from God, Who through Jesus Christ reconciled us to Himself [received us into favor, brought us into harmony with Himself] and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation [that by word and deed we might aim to bring others into harmony with Him].
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19 [/SUP]It was God [personally present] in Christ, reconciling and restoring the world to favor with Himself, not counting up and holding against [men] their trespasses [but cancelling them], and committing to us the message of reconciliation (of the restoration to favor).
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20 [/SUP]So we are Christ’s ambassadors, God making His appeal as it were through us. We [as Christ’s personal representatives] beg you for His sake to lay hold of the divine favor [now offered you] and be reconciled to God.
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21 [/SUP]For our sake He made Christ [virtually] to be sin Who knew no sin, so that in and through Him we might become [[SUP][a][/SUP]endued with, viewed as being in, and examples of] the righteousness of God [what we ought to be, approved and acceptable and in right relationship with Him, by His goodness].


We should be endeavoring each day to see ourselves and others as God sees us. Loved and Righteous IN Christ. Especially our brothers and sisters in Christ who are going through trials and endeavoring to share what they have been learning.

We don't automatically know how to walk in the power of the Holy Spirit. This is a learned process we go through all through our lives. It's like expecting every man in the family to have a full grown beard when they are young. They need time to age. Often times there are believers who cut their brothers and sisters off at the knees with expectations of perfection in their flesh when they have yet to learn how to walk consistently in the Spirit.

The renewing of our minds takes time. We have been given a new mind but it takes time to work it out by faith.
Putting off the old manner of life and putting on the new manner of life is a process. Some Christians are further along than others. Some have not gotten the teaching. Some are still babies in Christ at the age of 50 because they have yet to successfully put off the old manner of living. Many are still condemning themselves for their old lives and don't know that there is no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.

So we should be reminding one another of these truths and assisting the Holy Spirit by repeating the truth of the Bible.

It's not looking at the flesh to judge a person by their fruits. Its not about our efforts, just our willeningness to obey. Our efforts get us nowhere.

God conforms us into the likeness of Christ. Romans 8:28-30.
 

Innerfire89

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You were a child for no more than a couple of decades, and much of that time you weren't yet saved. You blame that church. You are the Church! What about you now?

I have been saved for 45 years. My blood family still isn't. I'm not blame "church." I've been letting them know for decades now with no success. (I'm the nut in the family. Go figure.) I've been praying. What other thing can I do?

But I can give you this much. My husband was outs with his family for several years. No one was saved, even him, when they family divided. But he returned because he wasn't the only one saved while he was gone. His older brother was too. Stuff happens to people. Considering you and your aunt have much in common, why not see how she is doing, if she is still doing? You've got quite the testimony for her. Wouldn't that be something?
I lost contact with her years ago, as I said before.

You say that her having hands laid on her and falling down is not her real problem, should that church instead confront her about her sin, or should they lays hand on her?
 

Innerfire89

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I'd be cautious saying an unsaved person is "filled with the devil" brother.

However, many people today have been hoodwinked, via easy believe-ism, that there is no evidence of conversion. Scripture of course teaches the contrary. :)
That's not what I'm saying, I'm saying she acts like it.
 

joaniemarie

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It's not looking at the flesh to judge a person by their fruits. Its not about our efforts, just our willeningness to obey. Our efforts get us nowhere.

God conforms us into the likeness of Christ. Romans 8:28-30.

The only thing us humans can see is the outside and the fruits. We do not have the ability to see hearts. For years I went to church 2 times on Sunday and every Wednesday night for prayer mtg. On the outside it was all a bunch of so called good fruit., all looked great., we were the perfect family. Respected in our community.

But at home where no one else could see our lives were a mess.

******The fruit of the Spirit is not the fruit of the flesh.*******

Believers need to understand this better. All that glitters is not gold. Only God knows what's inside the hearts of each of us. And each one of us has to decide for ourselves based on how the Lord is dealing with us how we should deal with other people.

 

FlSnookman7

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That's not what I'm saying, I'm saying she acts like it.
It sounds like you had the very unfortunate experience of attending some not good churches when you were young and that has carried over into your adulthood. As a person who was taken to catholic mass as a child I can understand. That experience along with my own disobedience and a couple other factors kept me from accepting Jesus as my Lord until I was 40 years old.

I still sometimes wonder what might have been but then I realize that had I not lived the life I lived (addiction, crime etc) that I would not be as equipped as I am to help others in that life who are still lost learn about God.

I have never been slain in the spirit but I am blessed to have a pretty amazing relationship with God, one where He actively communicates with me a number of different ways. I am finding that as I mature in Christ it does no good to call people fakes or advise them that they are being fooled by a certain church or doctrine. Instead I am learning to let people know about the freedom and peace I have found and am still finding as a result of my coming to know God and His Gospel.

I am still learning that and sometimes, especially here, I fall short when I see people still trapped in bondage to religion. I pray you find a good bible based church and that God heals any past hurts you have associated with Him. :)
 

Innerfire89

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The only thing us humans can see is the outside and the fruits. We do not have the ability to see hearts. For years I went to church 2 times on Sunday and every Wednesday night for prayer mtg. On the outside it was all a bunch of so called good fruit., all looked great., we were the perfect family. Respected in our community.

But at home where no one else could see our lives were a mess.

******The fruit of the Spirit is not the fruit of the flesh.*******

Believers need to understand this better. All that glitters is not gold. Only God knows what's inside the hearts of each of us. And each one of us has to decide for ourselves based on how the Lord is dealing with us how we should deal with other people.

Judging outward appearance means to judge based on looks. An example: that guy had prison tattoos, so he's a sinner.
That would be wrong.

But how do we know that someone is born again? If they obey, Christians sin, but they don't sin like they're a lost sinner.

1 John 2:28-29 And now, dear children, continue in him, so that when he appears we may be confident and unashamed before Him at His coming.
If you know that he is rightieous, you know that everyone who does what is right has been born of him.

Of course it would be a poor judgment to only look at how someone behaves in church, like when ordaining second or elders, their family and home life must be looked at.
 
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When I was saved as a teen it was into the Pentecostal movement. We had a big time preacher guest at our church and invited people to come up for healing. I went up.
I had never been "knocked down" Hinn style. Wasn't convinced it was a godly thing.
So I approached determined that I was not going down. As i watched the line of people ahead of me going down like dominoes I was ready.
He got to me, and before his hand touched me I blacked out. I woke up a few seconds later not feeling a thing. In fact nothing had changed at all. But I was confused as to why I went down.
I was at first upset at God, then felt guilty that it was my fault nothing happened.
Once I got away from church I began wondering why did I go down if God did nothing? Why did I not "feel God" afterward. It was a bizarre experience I've never been able to explain. Something tool me down, but it wasn't God.
Eventually I left that entire belief system behind after so many negative experiences within the Pentecostal/charismatic church.
I don't doubt your word because I've heard other stories like this. But I must ask how do you know it wasn't of God? You were already a christian and if it wasn't of God you would have sensed the presense of evil wouldn't you? It's either of God or satan, not a magician's trick.
 

graceNpeace

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Judging outward appearance means to judge based on looks. An example: that guy had prison tattoos, so he's a sinner.
That would be wrong.
Any judgement you make with respect to someone spiritually can only be an outward judgement.
You have absolutely no clue what may actually be going on between a person and God irrespective of their looks or their behaviour.
Based on the fact that you account yourself righteous before God and not your Aunt according to the criteria that you yourself wrote leads me to question, in turn, not only your judgment, but your theology.