LittleBit, my phone is acting weird so I can't send it to you that way but God is telling me to send you and Phil these verses:
Matthew 5:4
Blessed are those who mourn,
For they shall be comforted.
Matthew 11:25-30
[SUP]25 [/SUP]At that time Jesus answered and said, “I thank You, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise and prudent and have revealed them to babes. [SUP]26 [/SUP]Even so, Father, for so it seemed good in Your sight. [SUP]27 [/SUP]All things have been delivered to Me by My Father, and no one knows the Son except the Father. Nor does anyone know the Father except the Son, and the one to whom the Son wills to reveal Him. [SUP]28 [/SUP]Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. [SUP]29 [/SUP]Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. [SUP]30 [/SUP]For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
I hope these help comfort you, I know they helped me when I lost my grandpa last year. You both are in my prayers