Jenny, probably if you warn the little one that you'll send her home after she misbehaves, she'll do it again. Once. See, if you follow through, I suspect that the next time she's warned to settle down, she'll do so, since she probably adores being at your home. Likely she'll really grow to appreciate the structure as well; most people really aren't happy running completely wild.
Hope she ends up following Jesus one day because she eventually meets Him in your home
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