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LittleBit1987

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Hubby needs to get more involved in this process besides getting angry and refusing to help. He's going to have a rude awakening once the baby arrives and starts crying in the middle of the night. You might want to get him a copy of 'Diaper Changing for Dummies'.
Im sure someone will give us a copy of that...

but if not then I will.

Im praying for him as well... he's just not himself lately and my hormones are crazy as it is..

I just need to talk to god about this tonight.
 
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CaptainGoat

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Okay... time to vent.... >_<

I give up on everything.... but cooking this baby and being a momma.... I give up looking for cars....

I give up fixing the nursery up....

I give up keeping my own house clean...

i give up cooking....

I give up making my OWN husband happy.

Everything I do.... apparently ticks him off.

I have pregnancy hormones.... what does he expect me to do??? :(

Im just tired of this... and i need prayer... and I need help.. from my own lazy husband who doesnt want to do anything till baby gets here.

sigh...... ::cries to self::
Things will be OK. Relax... Just dont cook the baby! Plan a nice holiday. Tenting is fun?
 
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LittleBit1987

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Things will be OK. Relax... Just dont cook the baby! Plan a nice holiday. Tenting is fun?
If it wasn't a million degrees outside already I'm sure we would tent.

And I HAVE to cook the baby for a little while longer.. I've got 3 months till my baby is due! >_<
 

Desertsrose

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Hugs, littlebit!!!

Sometimes the pressures of life hit us and everything seems so overwhelming.......I'm sure we all relate. So many times I want to just cry, and sometimes I let go and do.......as I cry out to Him through my tears.

If I lived close, I'd come over and give you a real hug!!!

It's amazing how the Lord is always the answer. His grace helps us make it through the trials of life. He's the God of all grace.....which is His power within us to persevere and endure as we entrust ourselves to Him.

God bless you!
1 Peter 5:10-11 After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you. To Him be dominion forever and ever. Amen.
 

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Im sure someone will give us a copy of that...

but if not then I will.

Im praying for him as well... he's just not himself lately and my hormones are crazy as it is..

I just need to talk to god about this tonight.
Your husband may just be feeling a little overwhelmed by the changes of having a baby and maybe a little afraid of the greatly added responsibility of being a father. I'm sure he'll come around. :)
 

Desertsrose

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hey, friends! today marks 3 months since my sweetie and i got married, and i realized i never shared a pic with yous lol. so here are 2 of them. i apologize in advance is it comes out upside down or large. lol!

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Hi Melita,

What a beautiful couple!!! Congrats on your wedding - you both look so happy! :)
 

Desertsrose

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You know P....

Its funny you posted this, cause I have an actual 3D/4D shot of my baby....

ill get an updated one this coming week... but this is what he looked like about a month ago.. ^_^
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And just think... he has grown SOOOOOO much since this sonogram was taken last month...

How far along is lil'bit in the sonogram?
 
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CaptainGoat

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If it wasn't a million degrees outside already I'm sure we would tent.

And I HAVE to cook the baby for a little while longer.. I've got 3 months till my baby is due! >_<
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Ooh. A baby. Nice! I dont remember being born but my youngest brother does. My mum thought he was joking until he described every detail of the room in the hospital. I remember being in the pram where I cried because I couldn't sit up to look out. The prams were claustrophobic. Then I remember my first words. I was 5 months old. II said three words very clearly and then nothing until the normal age of talking!
 
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ROSSELLA

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Swiggity Swag, the Nightmare Stag. (Points to anyone who can tell me where that's from.)
 
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toinena

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Melita: Lovely pictures! You look so great together!

Littlebit: oh, dear. You and your husband should feel blessed and excited about this new life. Easier said than done with warm weather and hormones going wild and husband going cold. Hang in there. Pray and be open about your feelings and your expectations of the baby and your husband's part taking

Personal update: I am soooo happy to be back home! I am not going to cross the ocean for at least five years! If I don't go on a transatlantic cruise! That is still my dream. Well. Home! Real voltage in the plugs! My own toilet, bed, shower.... And the welcome I received from my dog ❤️
 
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Jennie-Mae

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Okay... time to vent.... >_<

I give up on everything.... but cooking this baby and being a momma.... I give up looking for cars....

I give up fixing the nursery up....

I give up keeping my own house clean...

i give up cooking....

I give up making my OWN husband happy.

Everything I do.... apparently ticks him off.

I have pregnancy hormones.... what does he expect me to do??? :(

Im just tired of this... and i need prayer... and I need help.. from my own lazy husband who doesnt want to do anything till baby gets here.

sigh...... ::cries to self::
Poor Laura,

the hormones are very much like the man downstairs, they will make you feel like dirt and make you judge everybody else. I know, I've been there:p.

As for husband? Reckon the poor feller is paralyzed by the thought of a new boss checking in. Don't expect too much from him now, after all he's just a man...wasn't that what the late miss Tammy said?;).

I'll be praying for you:).
 

p_rehbein

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Im sure someone will give us a copy of that...

but if not then I will.

Im praying for him as well... he's just not himself lately and my hormones are crazy as it is..

I just need to talk to god about this tonight.
 
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hey, friends! today marks 3 months since my sweetie and i got married, and i realized i never shared a pic with yous lol. so here are 2 of them. i apologize in advance is it comes out upside down or large. lol!

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Hey, Melita... I have to say you are a lot prettier than I thought u were based on your avatar.. :rolleyes: Congratulations!! :D
 
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Im sure someone will give us a copy of that...

but if not then I will.

Im praying for him as well... he's just not himself lately and my hormones are crazy as it is..

I just need to talk to god about this tonight.
Sorry u guys are having a rough time. I have a feeling its some kind of trial that God's laying on u guys right now. Don't ask me how I know, I just feel it.
 
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LittleBit1987

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Sorry u guys are having a rough time. I have a feeling its some kind of trial that God's laying on u guys right now. Don't ask me how I know, I just feel it.
Gabe, you have known me for quite sometime... and we both know im not a fighter.

I HATE fighting.... so I've been doing good by not starting any fights with my hubby... even though he may deserve it... but I won't start a fight. I'd rather just let it go... and the lord knows the situation.

We both have had testing weeks from work... so it's understandable.

And yes I agree 100% with you on us being tested... I just hope we passed....
 
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Gabe, you have known me for quite sometime... and we both know im not a fighter.

I HATE fighting.... so I've been doing good by not starting any fights with my hubby... even though he may deserve it... but I won't start a fight. I'd rather just let it go... and the lord knows the situation.

We both have had testing weeks from work... so it's understandable.

And yes I agree 100% with you on us being tested... I just hope we passed....
Oh I didn't think you guys were fighting or anything. I just mean all the pressure u guys are under right now. They say that God purifies us like gold through a fire. Maybe thats whats happening. I'm just saying that I think it will all blow over soon enough :)
 
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LittleBit1987

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Oh I didn't think you guys were fighting or anything. I just mean all the pressure u guys are under right now. They say that God purifies us like gold through a fire. Maybe thats whats happening. I'm just saying that I think it will all blow over soon enough :)
I sure hope so...

my hubby just wasnt in the mood for company yesterday... and apparently one of our mutual friends showed up unannounced yesterday... and he didn't like that.

But we are berter this morning so today is a new day, and we will be glad and rejoice in it :)