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Ugh!!
I sometimes wish i could just strangle some people in this world!!!
Knowing we are struggling right now, it seems my wonderful hubby would rather us DROWN and not think of ways to get a second job!! Omg seriously?? And he just plays on his phone as a distraction from our problems. I’m sorry but this marriage is NOT one sided and I refuse to be the only person trying to BETTER oneself!
There. Rant over. I can’t post this on Facebook cause family will get onto me and I have no one else to vent too. Cause only a few people know what we are dealing with and I am not about to air out my dirty laundry for the whole damn world to read.
Sometimes you just gotta rant and let the pressure go before things get nasty.
I sometimes wish i could just strangle some people in this world!!!
Knowing we are struggling right now, it seems my wonderful hubby would rather us DROWN and not think of ways to get a second job!! Omg seriously?? And he just plays on his phone as a distraction from our problems. I’m sorry but this marriage is NOT one sided and I refuse to be the only person trying to BETTER oneself!
There. Rant over. I can’t post this on Facebook cause family will get onto me and I have no one else to vent too. Cause only a few people know what we are dealing with and I am not about to air out my dirty laundry for the whole damn world to read.
Sometimes you just gotta rant and let the pressure go before things get nasty.
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Sometimes he doesn’t follow through with what he says he’s gonna do. Many times I have to like nag him to get anything done, and sometimes he even forgets too. 2 things this man does that irritates me.. 1) he plays on his phone ALL the time. It might as well be glued to his hand. 2) he’s always on Minecraft.. yes friends, my hubby who is a grown adult.. plays a game that kids play these days... Minecraft. And he can play that game ALL. DAY. LONG. -_-
My wife gets mad at me if we're out having dinner with another couple and I look at my phone for even 2 seconds to see what time it is or who sent me a text message etc.. (she always stresses how rude that is). As soon as I look at my phone, I get an elbow to the ribs. lol We went to a retirement seminar on Tuesday evening with another lady she works with and her husband and my wife told me on the way in to stay off my phone during the seminar and I did, but every time I looked over at her friend's husband who was with us, he was playing on his phone. 
That sounds similar to me (when my wife and I first got married). Marriage takes work and sad to say, men can be just like kids at times.
It takes time for some of us to grow up. I've been married for almost 30 years now and it has not been a perfect marriage (there is no perfect marriage) we've had our ups and downs, but we have grown together and learned a lot over the years.
It takes time for some of us to grow up.
I've been married for almost 30 years now and it has not been a perfect marriage (there is no perfect marriage) we've had our ups and downs, but we have grown together and learned a lot over the years.
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That sounds similar to me (when my wife and I first got married). Marriage takes work and sad to say, men can be just like kids at times.
It takes time for some of us to grow up. I've been married for almost 30 years now and it has not been a perfect marriage (there is no perfect marriage) we've had our ups and downs, but we have grown together and learned a lot over the years.
It takes time for some of us to grow up.
I've been married for almost 30 years now and it has not been a perfect marriage (there is no perfect marriage) we've had our ups and downs, but we have grown together and learned a lot over the years.
And I know he can’t stand it when I’m happy, so he’s attacking in other areas.. and household/family/finances is another sensitive spot for me. But like I said... I’m not giving up, I just need to get my hubby onboard with what we need to do.. and not what he wants to do.
