Spending eternity in heaven

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rawrmonster

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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
 

mystdancer50

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I used to think that, too. :) I used to say, "Man. Really? Praising and worshiping for all eternity?" But, then I entered into a true love and worship relationship with Him and it's not that bad. It's actually amazing and awesome! Here's why:

Think about our relationship with Christ now. He talks with us and He even jokes with us and He guides us and teaches us and He delights in us and we, in turn worship Him and talk with Him and on some days, joke with Him and receive from Him. So, in heaven, do we really think we're suddenly going from a two-way relationship to just worship day and night with no relationship at all? Of course not!

There will be worship (and lots of it) because, truly, how could there not be? When you consider the fact that the mere breath of God on this earth is so exciting and life changing and amazing, think of the difference when we're there, before Him, facing this amazing Creator, this wonderful Savior, feeling His embrace truly and fully, seeing the smile we've only felt Him bestow upon us all these years. I could go on and on and on.

There are times when I still journey into that place of thought that you had and I wonder at the state of my heart. The thing is, we're on earth, a place filled with countless distractions and things that keep us busy. We think, "There is too much going on for me to worship God today. A quick prayer and then off to a movie." In heaven, it won't be that way. Our flesh will be gone. It will no longer be a battle between spirit and soul and flesh. It will be simple and amazing. God is always good. Being there, streets paved with gold, mansions and feasts, and, oh man, seeing Jesus face to face...wow. Just wow.

I have also heard that we will have 'jobs' in heaven, things to do. God wouldn't want us idle. I don't know where in the Bible this is or where I've heard it, but it rings true. God would have us engaged with Him as He has us engaged with Him now. Creating and singing and moving and growing and knowing. :)

As I was writing these things, I thought, "This world is essentially practice. We learn what a relationship with Christ is supposed to be, we see how our cursed and sinful selves make the relationship, and then, in heaven, we will fully realize and see the relationship as it should be." It is practice, but vital practice, as we must be about the Lord's will and work and purpose, and not about the fleshly things that easily draw us away.

I hope I helped a little. I guess, summary time, that I'm saying it is totally normal to feel that way. I think most of us have. Just don't let it lead you away from Him. Seek Him fully. :)
 
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John_S

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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
If you don't want to go to Heaven and you don't want to go to Hell. then where do you want to go?
 
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The_highwayman

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Just remember folks the final destination is not heaven, its the new earth and the new Jerusalem[See Revelation 21]

I believe the callings and gifts we are given now have a lot to do with what we will do for eternity. Paul states in 1 Cor 6.3 we will judge angels. I do believe that praising and worshiping is going to be part of it all, but like others here, I don't see that as the "rest of the story" That may sound really bad and I do not mean for it to.

I think we attempt to apply our own thoughts and minds around God and it is not possible to understand how big he is or what he has planned.
 
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rawrmonster

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I am not saying i would not want to go to heaven, I am more stating that I do not understand how people would want to do the same thing for the rest of eternity. Eternity is hard to grasp because we have never experenced it our selfs. I do not have a relationship with christ. I have spent most of my life telling my self how much i hated him for things that happend in my life. I no longer hate god because i realize that people have free will and my anger was misplaced, but that does not really mean that i love god. This is the reason i feel i have a hard time grasping the concept of heaven. I just dont understand how to start loving god, or how to start a relationship with someone you do not know.
 

mystdancer50

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How would you start a relationship with someone, a person at your work, say? By talking to them.

So, you're on the right track. You start by reading His word. You find a church home, a place that is Biblically sound, and start attending. You begin to talk with godly people and ask your questions, much like you're doing here. And, eventually, you'll find that you will desire to talk to God and get to know Him personally because He is so wonderful, you just can't help yourself. :)

Ultimately, you'll love Him. God is so good that He doesn't make loving Him a prerequisite. He loves us when we don't love Him. He opens the door for us to come to Him, even when we cannot comprehend how or why or what it means. :)

I recommend reading John. Start there. That is one of the best places to see how awesome Jesus really is. :D
 
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didymos

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(...) I just dont understand how to start loving god, or how to start a relationship with someone you do not know.
Relax, take your time... ;)


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chubbena

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Yes it can be very boring in the new heaven and new earth. There will probably be no Super Bowl, no NBA, no Hollywood, no I-whatever, no Ferrari or Lamborghini.
What one will have, and cannot have in this world, is peace and true love. Not everyone's taste I know. Yes no Battlefield or Call of Duty for you.
I'm kind of excited though. If technology were a gift from God, I can imagine how advance it will be in the new earth. For that anticipation alone, I know it won't be boring.
 
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Thaway

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First of all, it’s impossible for any of us to fully understand what life is like outside of the experience we are having now. That is like trying to explain e-mail to a gnat. The bible does describe the afterlife, and it always does so as great for the believer and horrible for the unbeliever. So our choice is “happy” or “sad.” That is an easy choice.

The specifics of what we will be doing and what we will be feeling are somewhat meaningless to us now because it’s a radically different experience. But I do encourage you to study what the bible has to say on this.

Personally, I love God and can’t think of anything better than worshiping God in Heaven for all of eternity. How can that be? It’s simple…when you know and love God there is no second best. He is THAT good.

If you can’t understand how I could possibly think that, then “seek and ye shall find.” Seek out the Lord and you will find Him. Once again, it’s simple. Just close your eyes, bow your head, and start talking to God, out loud (preferably when no one else is around to hear you). Read the bible, go to church, listen to/watch sermon, and pray often (silently when others are around, in most cases). He will take it from there. He always does.

God is good dude…there is nothing else in the universe worth your time or attention if you have not found God yet.
 
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overcomer2

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Well, I hate to burst your bubble but that praising and worshiping is what you'll be doing. I am smiling:eek: because I remember the 1st time my preacher discussed this same topic. I thought how boring. Okay but first we can not fathom true worship. It will be so spectacular that you won't want to stop. Also he will be your all in all. He will be the love like a wife or the love like a husband or the like a mother or best friend or brother. You get what I'm saying.

Just right now, fall in love with him. You won't want anyone or anything else in all creation but to be with him. I promise. You will never want to take your eyes off him the glory will be so satisfying.
 
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WomanLovesTX

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I have also heard that we will have 'jobs' in heaven, things to do. God wouldn't want us idle. I don't know where in the Bible this is or where I've heard it, but it rings true. God would have us engaged with Him as He has us engaged with Him now. Creating and singing and moving and growing and knowing. :)

As I was writing these things, I thought, "This world is essentially practice. We learn what a relationship with Christ is supposed to be, we see how our cursed and sinful selves make the relationship, and then, in heaven, we will fully realize and see the relationship as it should be." It is practice, but vital practice, as we must be about the Lord's will and work and purpose, and not about the fleshly things that easily draw us away.

I hope I helped a little. I guess, summary time, that I'm saying it is totally normal to feel that way. I think most of us have. Just don't let it lead you away from Him. Seek Him fully. :)
I agree with this world is practice. Here is a hint what our job may be: Rev 5:10 And hast made us unto our God kings and priests: and we shall reign on the earth.

I believe Yeshua came to tell us about the coming Kingdom of God on earth. As with all Kingdoms, there is a King and their is people and there is laws. Yeshua is the King of Kings and Lord of lords and many will serve in His Kingdom here on earth. Praise and worship will also be part of our living in this new utopia. Some "enter" the kingdom and some "inherit" the kingdom. I hope this encourages you and others to really dig deep into the scriptures and see for yourself what your role in the Kingdom will be.

Me? I want to be involved in getting all the aborted babies into the arms of women who could never have a child. I think the Kingdom on Earth is going to have lots and lots of babies. (Silly? Does it hurt to pray for this job?)
 

Huckleberry

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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
I'd rather spend eternity cleaning toilets in Heaven (if there are toilets) than doing anything in hell.
 
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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
Imagine Handel's Messiah magnified a thousand- or million-fold. That's probably more on par with what praise in heaven will be like.

I'm with you, though. Praise and worship in heaven as uninteresting and boring as it is in most churches I've visited would not be much to look forward to.
 
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Kerry

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Traveling at the speed of thought is boring, Man forget the ferrari. Anyways, if you will keep reading that Bible (I Hope its a KJ). The throne of God will be transferred to Earth. We, the ones taken in the rapture and all those who died in Christ, will receive glorified bodies. The ones that live through the trib do not and they continue to marry and have children and we will rule over them and Angels as heirs to the throne. We have become joint heirs with Jesus. So it is going to be anything but boring.
 
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Kerry

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A ferrari, get a grip God rides on four Cherubims. Ferrari never seen that speed. (Ezekiel).
 
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megaman125

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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
The whole notion that all you're going to do in heaven is bow down and sing songs is an unbiblical teaching of religion. Don't buy into it, there's no reason to.
 
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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
God doesn't want us to even try to make any type of image in our mines about the Heavenly Realm because we will not understand it. Most likely we will start adding our earthly nature to it and that will be committing Idolatry, because we will be worshiping it. But you can compare the feeling that you'll have once you enter into this realm. Like Jesus will sometimes uses the phrase starting it off by saying," the Kingdom of Heaven is like". He was trying to describe the emotional feelings that a soul will have in this realm that is full of life. The realm of the dead it is like the emotional feeling that a person will receive when they get the news that they are going to be fired from a job and will not be able to support their family that needs this income. But the Heavenly Realm it is like when a soul receive the good news of them winning the big jack-pot. These realms are in the same realm, but one level is at a more higher level than the other, and the lowest level is where the souls will be feeling scare and depress because God is not with them.

Luke 16:25 “But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony.

Daniel 12:2 Multitudes who sleep in the dust of the earth will awake: some to everlasting life, others to shame and everlasting contempt.
 
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Sanashankar

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I have just picked up a bible today for the first time in a really long time. As I started reading I had the thought that I do not want to spend my life in hell (weeping and gnashing of teeth, eternal pain, sadness), but if I really think about it spending an eternity worshiping and praising a god doesn't sound all that appealing ether. I would like to know your opinion on the subject. Maybe I have this thought process because it was not till really recently that I have softened my heart towards god.

Thanks in advance for reading :D
We cant just praise and worship God just because we are scared whether God will burn and fry us in hell. That is not worship. Worshiping is from inside, for that we have to know God, his love, his plan, his son Jesus Christ and what he did for us. Reading bible is to know God. Understanding him is a way of worship. Talking to God is a way of worshiping. Thanking God for what he has given, even if it for 10 seconds is worship. Overcoming the temptations and surrendering ourselves to the chastisement of God is worship. Using the intelligence God has given, for the right thing is worship. Telling about God to someone who does not know who God is, its worship By doing all these u show that u love and obey God.

God punishes his children for disobeying him, like any parent does, because he wants us to be like him and stop doing the wrong things. God will not punish us for not sitting somewhere and praising and worshiping him by mouth.
 
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MikeTwomey

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Heaven = Unity with God

Hell = Separation from God
 
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Kerry

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wait ,wait ,wait. There is no temptation in Heaven.