The Logic of Gay Marriage Equality

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shard, i'm sorry if you've already answered this, but would you vote yes to legalizing gay marriage or no?

he got banned, he wont be answering your question lol
 
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Why was Shard banned??


Hm. I missed a lot while I was out.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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The issue is recurring because an ever growing number of people are rejecting the morality of the moral lawgiver (e.g. God) yet enough people still do recognize the morality of the moral lawgiver that a tug-of-war has developed.

Much of our body of laws is based on Judeo-Christian morality. You're flat wrong to deny it. And stating a body of people that engage in immoral activity aren't going away is not a valid justification for declaring their immorality moral or therefore legal though you can do so if you can find the power to do so.

With enough power, those that reject the moral lawgiver for their own statistical normality have even taught bad is good and good is bad and that there is no God and persecuted everyone that believed differently as state atheists did in the 20th century a form of political government that resulted in the democide of 262 million people (ref: Rummel) and the destruction of a large body of Christian artifacts and archeological treasures.

If you had actually read the thread, you would see the Christian position and the logic behind their position IS clearly stated. Since it IS clearly stated,you either did not read all the posts in the thread or you did not discern it afterwards.

Your position appears to be that of a secularist statistical normalist... a position that leads away from God and his morality into deception and finally degeneration as history reveals and exactly as we argued throughout this thread.


I find it difficult to understand why this has become a recurring issue in the USA, I see the news reports about how it's allowed and then disallowed etc...

Putting aside all the arguments about right or wrong the reality is the gay community isn't going away and as someone else pointed out the laws of our countries do not run parrallel to christian beliefs and so believing in love and tolerance we need to work a way to co-exist without compromising oursleves.....that's the tough part.

Not to widen the discussion to laws in other countries but in the UK we have civil unions, gay couples get the legal rights of a married couple and the acknowledgement of their relationship that they rather bizzarely seem to almost obsessively crave....and as a result the christian community does not compromise in it's vews and avoids getting into the argument of violating people's rights by refusing to marry gay couples etc...

It isn't perfect and there are problems with it but for the most part this issue doesn't make the radar over here....to be honest I don't see it's a diffcult problem to solve and it seems to be a case where the USA is making a problem for itself by trying reconile an issue to the constitution that wasn't prevelant in society when the document was written.

Whenever I see this in the news I fail to see the logic in it, no logic on either side.
 
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Ricke

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What is written in Scripture is air tight and iron clad.
God's Word is Forever " Yea, and Amen". Today we see a lot of this going on where people are afraid to take a stand, but would rather play Patty cake with The Devil. Out of Sympathy.
 
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Well, Jesus did say this kind of thing would happen: brother against brother, false prophets and false doctrines, everyone believing what makes them feel better instead of what's right, having all the knowledge in the world, but being foolish and stupid none the less.
 
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SantoSubito

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What I was attempting to say in America , most especially where I live(The Bible Belt) for every main line Christian Religion Church (I.E. Catholic, Lutheran, Presbyterian etc) there are least 40 Churches of Bible teaching faiths.
Thats because there are a ton of tiny "Bible" churches. The Catholic Church usually builds large churches to serve one large group of people.

I know that The RCC and Anglican Church Dominate England. I know because I was on Bible blog site in London, and The British People talked about it everyday, and the falling away over there. The Muslims are now flooding into Great Britain at an alarming rate.
The Church of England is in a state of falling away, but the Catholic Church in England is actually quite strong and growing.

I am not riduculing any certain Mainline Church, what I am saying The Young people especially want to go to a church with a lot of young people their age,
Not necessarily true. My church has the largest and most vibrant youth group and population of young people in town, and yes it is Catholic.

and most of your Bible Based Churches appeal to the young which is the Future of any Church.
Once again thats really not true. I hear so many kids in High School bashing fundamentalist "Bible" churches all the time, and they aren't secular kids most of them are Christian (Baptist in particular).

Sorry if I offended anyone, but I came out of One of Those "Dead and Dry" churches I know what I am saying....
No offense, but in this situation you really don't know what you're saying. Keep in mind i also live in the Bible Belt.
 
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HumbleSaint

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True...

This is where the bible confuses me though, what really warrants as judging? Because it seems to be defined differently by everyone..

The Bible warnes against hypicritical judgement. But if your read Romans 1 you will see that God gave these homosexual people over to a reprobate mind. So if the Bible says it is so then me emphasising it isn't my own judgement, but God Almighty.
 
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charisenexcelcis

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God decreed four social structures: family, faith, economy, and government. Each of these were given certain limitations and powers. It is the governments role to enforce such moral codes as are neccesary for the survival and prosparity of society and to protect those who have been placed under its authority. The issue of homosexuality is a moral one. The question is whether it is for God alone to judge, or whether it falls within the purview of government. Is homosexuality harmful to society? Is there a reasonable cause for the government to interfere? Given that homosexuals rank high in every negative statistic, from mental health to suicide to violence to physical health, I believe so. Does that mean banning homosexuality? I'm not so sure. I do not believe that homosexuality should be taught in public schools as a normative lifestyle nor should it be given special rights or protection. Homosexuals should not be allowed to recruit from the young. Concerning marriage, it is a family structure established by God. It is not the marriage license that makes you married, but the covenant that is made with God. Government does not establish marriage, only recognizes it and recognises certain legal rights and responsibilities. As such, the government does not have the right to change it's definition. If the government declared that two men or two women can marry, it would no more a marriage than if I was to marry a rock.
 
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charisenexcelcis

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One quick note about Shard, it may be neccesary for him to be banned from CC, but it is not cause for celebration. Rather that we should continue to pray that God will strengthen his faith and his walk.
 
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Do you really not think that the hate and discrimination that the lgbt community goes through most likely one of the reasons they have higher rates of depression, suicide etc? Most homosexuals do not try and influence others to be gay, the ones that do represent them badly.

Letting lgbt people get married is not a special right. They are just asking to be treated as human, which we are.
 
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One quick note about Shard, it may be neccesary for him to be banned from CC, but it is not cause for celebration. Rather that we should continue to pray that God will strengthen his faith and his walk.
Why was he banned? What did he do??
 
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JohnKnox

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One quick note about Shard, it may be neccesary for him to be banned from CC, but it is not cause for celebration. Rather that we should continue to pray that God will strengthen his faith and his walk.
I wonder if the "banned" label is applied also to people who delete their own account. Sometimes this seems to explain events better than someone being kicked off.
 
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paul1149

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Matthew, I don't know if this speaks directly to your point or not, but though I do not favor a theocracy, in which church and state are united, in my view Biblical principles still must interface with our social institutions, and part of the church's role, individually and corporately, is as a prophetic voice to the culture.

The root issue is whether we remain a nation that honors God. We certainly did
when we were founded. Congress opened with a three hour prayer meeting; its
first major legislation, the Northwest Ordinance, authorized using the Bible as
a textbook in public schools. There was a wall of separation between church and
state, in that there was no official denomination (thank God - though at the
time there still were official denominations in some of the individual states),
but religion had a honored, preeminent place in the public square.

If I didn't have the word I can see how the humanist argument would sound good.
But the word and the Spirit give discernment that enables us to separate loving
the sinner from hating the sin, something the world can't understand.

Unfortunately, we as a nation have been choosing to abandon God, if not spit in
His face. There are consequences to that, and they are not going to be fun. But
I believe that the challenge they will present will be an opportunity for great
revival in the church.

By the way, every one of those parallels you draw in your initial post (incest,
bestiality, pederasty, etc) have their advocates among humanist leaders. It goes
all the way back to the Margarete Sanger crowd, and includes Kinsey with his
fraudulent reports on human sexuality.
 
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charisenexcelcis

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Do you really not think that the hate and discrimination that the lgbt community goes through most likely one of the reasons they have higher rates of depression, suicide etc? Most homosexuals do not try and influence others to be gay, the ones that do represent them badly.

Letting lgbt people get married is not a special right. They are just asking to be treated as human, which we are.
There are other groups that are as hated and do not have those statistical anomalies. I believe that some of it is from exterior sources, but that it is mostly ontological. If they do not recruit from the young, then they should have no problem with that issue.
 
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I'm sorry this may make me sound a little bit stupid but er, I don't know what ontological is.. So I don't know what problem you mean they wouldn't be having??
 
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charisenexcelcis

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I'm sorry this may make me sound a little bit stupid but er, I don't know what ontological is.. So I don't know what problem you mean they wouldn't be having??
I mean that it is intrisic to the lifestyle, the natural result of homosexuality. Understand that while I believe that the government must protect us from others, it cannot protect us from ourselves. That is why I do not think that banning homosexuality is correct, but that certain steps are appropriate in their role as the protector of society and individuals.
 
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I don't get what you mean by intrisic to the the life style. I looked up the definition and I don't get what you mean. I'm sorry =/
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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That plays a minor role only. Most authentic Christians understand they have a scriptural God-given responsibility to love these people while resisting their immorality, grab for political power, and the deception/propaganda they are under and expouse. I show love to the homosexuals in my circles but they understand what I believe and why I believe it.

Secular society accepts their lifestyle and sides with them in their fight for the equality of a grossly immoral position to be viewed exactly as moral as a marriage between a man and a woman as Shard (a new believer) argued for. I believe he's representative of the secular position.

So the real reason they suffer from such high rates isn't because of hate and discrimination but rather because of the very immorality they practice and the deception they are under. They have cut themselves off from the moral lawgiver and the fruits of a holy life. That is the reason for the lack of peace, self-control, etc...

But you completely missed the obvious and parroted the deception that isn't the reason. We resist the evil of the evildoer while loving the evildoer. The real problem with the evildoer is their evil. There are spiritual, psychological, and even physical problems to living a life of gross immorality apart from the moral lawgiver (e.g. God)! '


Do you really not think that the hate and discrimination that the lgbt community goes through most likely one of the reasons they have higher rates of depression, suicide etc? Most homosexuals do not try and influence others to be gay, the ones that do represent them badly.

Letting lgbt people get married is not a special right. They are just asking to be treated as human, which we are.
 
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charisenexcelcis

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I don't get what you mean by intrisic to the the life style. I looked up the definition and I don't get what you mean. I'm sorry =/
I mean that these problems are largely the results of homosexuality.