Paul never felt compelled by Christ? Or confronted daily or in 2 Corinthians?
For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died;[SUP]15 [/SUP]and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.
BTW, going back to the Christian, we are told that it is God which worketh in us both TO WILL and to do of His good pleasure. So the spiritual Christian -- walking in the Spirit -- has already handed over his will to God the Holy Spirit.
So yes, the love of Christ does indeed constrain us (or control us) because He loved us first. This has absolutely no bearing on the subject, which is the free will of mankind in general and God as Sovereign over the universe.