The Tzniut, Wives and Head Coverings

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# 8. (And you might want to look up that word effeminate biblically. It's really not a sin for women to be that. It's not really even a sin for men either. One thing for sure, it's really not about clothing or mannerisms. It's about something else entirely. So, just sayin', you're really not good at this, so might want to study what you're talking about.)
Then answer my question directly, is it sin for a man, who may not be homosexual, to wear women's clothing? Are there not cross dressers and drag queens that wear women's clothing, that are not necessarily homosexual? Answer directly, yes or no.
 

Locutus

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. Are you aware that even the passage of Onan, which does not contain a "thou shall" or "thou shall not", sufficiently reveals that all forms of contraception are wicked?
Onan has nothing to do with "all forms of contraction" - he spilled his "seed" because he did not want to give his deceased brothers wife a child.

Gen 38:8 And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother.

Gen 38:9 And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.

Gen 38:10 And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.

The above practice of "raising up seed to a dead brother" became the basis for Levirate Marriage as spelled out in:


Deu 25:5 If brethren dwell together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her.

Deu 25:6 And it shall be, that the firstborn which she beareth shall succeed in the name of his brother which is dead, that his name be not put out of Israel.

Don't give up yer day job....
 

posthuman

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How am I not? I am of Sephardi descendance, going back to the Jews that were expelled from Spain and settled in Colombia, where my family is from. There exists a family tree in my family tracing back to that line. So if it is a matter of actual lineage, I am indeed of that line that comes from Abraham. However, I am also a Gentile, because I was raised in Protestant churches, and born here in America, among Gentiles and as a Gentile. So I am many things, and glad to be many things, but in my knowledge, I understand that the Law is not abolished, as many of your Protestant churches incorrectly teach.
technically, unless your ancestry is wholly Hebrew, that'd make you mixed - like a Samaritan. only even less Jewish, because your bloodline is likely much more mixed.

did the people of Christ's day consider Samaritans to be "Jews" ?
what did that woman at the well say about that?
 
Apr 23, 2017
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This is inaccurate. In the Mishnah it's considered modest, but not a command. It's not a command of biblical origin.

Because someone does something in the Old Testament doesn't determine law. That is purely nonsensical. Much of what Abraham and his
descendants did was simply culture.
That isn't quite so, and I gave an example with respect to the passage of Onan, which reveals that contraception and masturbation are sin, hence the term "onanism", which reveals a sin that was not given as a "do not...". And there is wisdom behind this passage, because in just a few verses of scripture, as opposed to creating an entire series of commands of "do not..." related to all the forms of contraception that exist, even to this day that did not exist back then, this little passage covers it all. So yes, certain stories reveal traditions that must be kept to this day, one of which is the head covering, hence why Paul explained it and demanded it... it is obligatory. I have a study on the story of Onan here Onan, and the Sins of Contraception and Masturbation | Wisdom of God .
 

Desertsrose

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That isn't quite so, and I gave an example with respect to the passage of Onan, which reveals that contraception and masturbation are sin, hence the term "onanism", which reveals a sin that was not given as a "do not...". And there is wisdom behind this passage, because in just a few verses of scripture, as opposed to creating an entire series of commands of "do not..." related to all the forms of contraception that exist, even to this day that did not exist back then, this little passage covers it all. So yes, certain stories reveal traditions that must be kept to this day, one of which is the head covering, hence why Paul explained it and demanded it... it is obligatory. I have a study on the story of Onan here Onan, and the Sins of Contraception and Masturbation | Wisdom of God .

Hi Chris,

So because you say so it is so?

It is true that the Mishnah does not require it. It's a form of modesty, not a command. But even so, you're misapplying what Paul said in the NT. In the final analysis the woman's hair was given to her as a covering.


So many here are giving you great scriptures and Godly wisdom that you simply choose to ignore.

You may want to read and study Galatians. It's one of the best contrasts of following law and following grace in the NT.

Didn't Jesus say that if you are under law you have to obey it all.
And if you miss in one part you've broken the whole law?

So you condemn yourself by your own words. You say this group of laws we obey and this group of laws we don't have to obey. You are condemning yourself by coming back under the law.

 
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Hi Chris,

So because you say so it is so?

It is true that the Mishnah does not require it. It's a form of modesty, not a command. But even so, you're misapplying what Paul said in the NT. In the final analysis the woman's hair was given to her as a covering.


So many here are giving you great scriptures and Godly wisdom that you simply choose to ignore.

You may want to read and study Galatians. It's one of the best contrasts of following law and following grace in the NT.

Didn't Jesus say that if you are under law you have to obey it all.
And if you miss in one part you've broken the whole law?

So you condemn yourself by your own words. You say this group of laws we obey and this group of laws we don't have to obey. You are condemning yourself by coming back under the law.

It does not matter who says it is so, whether me or John Doe, it is in the scriptures. If natural hair was itself the head covering that Paul conceded with, he would not then have offered another option to shave the woman if she so choose not to cover her head, for a woman with a shaven head is another symbol of marriage spoken of in the Law,

if you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you may take her as your wife. Bring her into your home and have her shave her head, trim her nails (Deuteronomy 21:11-12 [NIV])

if indeed not covers her head a woman, and let her be shaven. If it is moreover shameful to a woman to be shaven or have short hair, let her cover her head. (1 Corinthians 11:6 [INTERLINEARIZED])*

So there are two options for a married woman, either wear the head covering, or shave your head. Because either of these are symbols of marriage, that a woman is "off the market". This is what Paul instructed the assemblies to do. If you do not do it, then you are in disobedience,

But if anyone thinks to be contentious, we do not have such a custom, nor the assemblies of God. (1 Corinthians 11:16 [ABP])
 
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Onan has nothing to do with "all forms of contraction" - he spilled his "seed" because he did not want to give his deceased brothers wife a child.

Gen 38:8 And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother.

Gen 38:9 And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.

Gen 38:10 And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.

The above practice of "raising up seed to a dead brother" became the basis for Levirate Marriage as spelled out in:


Deu 25:5 If brethren dwell together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her.

Deu 25:6 And it shall be, that the firstborn which she beareth shall succeed in the name of his brother which is dead, that his name be not put out of Israel.

Don't give up yer day job....
The Law states that a brother-in-law is at liberty to refuse to perform a Levirate duty,

However, if a man does not want to marry his brother’s wife, she shall go to the elders at the town gate and say, “My husband’s brother refuses to carry on his brother’s name in Israel. He will not fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to me.” (Deuteronomy 25:7 [NIV])

Hence why the Law does not require the death of a brother-in-law that refuses to give seed to his sister-in-law, but rather, gives her relief,

Then the elders of his town shall summon him and talk to him. If he persists in saying, “I do not want to marry her,” his brother’s widow shall go up to him in the presence of the elders, take off one of his sandals, spit in his face and say, “This is what is done to the man who will not build up his brother’s family line.” That man’s line shall be known in Israel as The Family of the Unsandaled. (Deuteronomy 25:8-10 [NIV])

As such, the punishment of death inflicted on Onan was not because he refused to give seed, but because he still had sex with her, yet spilled his seed, hence contraception, which then became wicked and worthy of death. This is no different than "freeloading", taking advantage of a service, yet not paying for it. The same with contraception, which is engaging in sexual gratification without giving seed, which is nullifies the main purpose for the sexual act, for it is not just for enjoyment, but for reproduction, hence why the completion of every sexual act finishes with a man discharging "seed" that is intended to go into a woman.

Sexual gratification is a great pleasure that God has given man, but it must be done properly as he intended, otherwise it becomes wicked.
 
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I hold to the head-covering position and believe that feminism has much to do with the modern church abandoning the practice, along with the influence of women ministers and other post-modern issues. However, I do not see this as disobedience if one does not want to veil themselves, although I am still studying our the issue.
 
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I hold to the head-covering position and believe that feminism has much to do with the modern church abandoning the practice, along with the influence of women ministers and other post-modern issues. However, I do not see this as disobedience if one does not want to veil themselves, although I am still studying our the issue.
In case you didn't see the link, I have a study on this issue here The Tzniut, Wives and Head Coverings | Wisdom of God .
 

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Since the Law has not been abolished, neither has head covering, aka the tzniut that wives must wear, which is a symbol she is married, hence why Paul says, "it is a symbol of authority over her head". For when a woman becomes married, she comes under the authority of a husband, due to the curse against Eve when she transgressed, "your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you". As such, when Rebekah first saw Isaac, who she was going to marry, she "veiled" herself, which is the tzniut. However, if a wife does not want to wear a head covering, then she must shave her head and remain shaven, because in addition to the head covering, a wife with a shaven head is another symbol of marriage, hence "...if you see any captive woman, you may take her as a wife. You shall shave her head...". If a wife does neither of these, then she is in disobedience to the commands of God, and not only her, but also those who approve.
Ok concerning women that don't know they are in violation of the Tzniut I have a simple question
is there transgression Pesha , Avon,or Cheit ?
Just wondering .
Bill
 

Dino246

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It does not matter who says it is so, whether me or John Doe, it is in the scriptures. If natural hair was itself the head covering that Paul conceded with, he would not then have offered another option to shave the woman if she so choose not to cover her head, for a woman with a shaven head is another symbol of marriage spoken of in the Law,
Actually, while you are quoting Scripture, most of what you are advocating is not in Scripture, or is either clearly fulfilled or set aside. You are arguing for your interpretation of the Scriptures, especially in the case of Onan.
 
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Actually, while you are quoting Scripture, most of what you are advocating is not in Scripture, or is either clearly fulfilled or set aside. You are arguing for your interpretation of the Scriptures, especially in the case of Onan.
Everything I have said is in scripture, now whether you want to believe or not, that is up to you. "God will judge the sexually immoral", as it is said somewhere, which includes sins of contraception and masturbation, which are contrary to the intention of why God created sex, so these are "sins", aka missing the mark of intention, against the body. If you want to continue doing such practices, then so be it,

Let the one who does wrong continue to do wrong; let the vile person continue to be vile; let the one who does right continue to do right; and let the holy person continue to be holy." (Revelation 22:11 [NIV])
 
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Reading this makes me think back to when I visited a Synagogue in Glasgow
... visiting men had to cover their heads ... there was no such rule for women
so, how did this whole "women are to cover up" enter Christianity?

PS are ALL of your clothes made from one fabric only? (no piece of clothing of mixed fabrics?)
"'Keep my decrees. "'Do not mate different kinds of animals. "'Do not plant your field with two kinds of seed. "'Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material"
 

Locutus

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I hold to the head-covering position and believe that feminism has much to do with the modern church abandoning the practice, along with the influence of women ministers and other post-modern issues. However, I do not see this as disobedience if one does not want to veil themselves, although I am still studying our the issue.
Pity there isn't a mouth covering law..
 
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Reading this makes me think back to when I visited a Synagogue in Glasgow
... visiting men had to cover their heads ... there was no such rule for women
so, how did this whole "women are to cover up" enter Christianity?

PS are ALL of your clothes made from one fabric only? (no piece of clothing of mixed fabrics?)
"'Keep my decrees. "'Do not mate different kinds of animals. "'Do not plant your field with two kinds of seed. "'Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material"
Of course, the command against shatnez. I affirm obeying this command in the study of the tallit with the tzizit, for the tallit cannot be woven of mixed fabrics, inclusive of all other garments, The Tzitzit, the Command to Wear the Fringes | Wisdom of God .
 

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How was she not cursed? She was,

1. Subsequently going to die.
2. Subsequently going to bear children in pain.
3. Subsequently going to have to "submit" to her husband, where to this day even wives have to remain silent in the assemblies.

Sounds like a curse to me. Not only was she cursed, but also her husband, and also the serpent.
Do you know that all these things you are saying is not of grace but of law? Grace is the power of Holy Spirit to make us a new generation of Spiritual beings that laws have no power over. The law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus is our ruling. Follow life found only "in Him".
 

Locutus

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There's a command against William Shatnez???
 
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Ok concerning women that don't know they are in violation of the Tzniut I have a simple question
is there transgression Pesha , Avon,or Cheit ?
Just wondering .
Bill
Is not all sin also iniquity?

Whosoever committeth sin commmitteth also iniquity; and sin is iniquity. (1 John 3:4 [DRB])

So even whatever is consider least of the commands, relating to "lesser" sins, must be stopped, in order to come to full obedience.
 
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What difference is there in copy/paste as opposed to typing out the entire verses letter by letter? What does it matter? I know of the scriptures speaking of the tzitzit and even have an entire study on it The Tzitzit, the Command to Wear the Fringes | Wisdom of God . As such, this isn't something I just came up with as you surmise I did. Do you want me to highlight the entire verse? Sure, it makes no difference. Instead of finding fault in everything that I do,

These people are grumblers and faultfinders; they follow their own evil desires; they boast about themselves and flatter others for their own advantage. (Jude 1:16 [NIV])

You should start obeying the Law that you have discarded, and are trying to find ways to discredit the truth concerning it.
I'll show you the difference with what you did right here.

You're point is I am this:
These people are grumblers and faultfinders

Which, of course makes you so much superior, because, hey, I'm doing it wrong, and you are perfect.

(BTW, Jude doesn't have chapters. It's short enough not to use chapters.)

BUT, in context,
[FONT=&quot]3 Beloved, although I was very eager to write to you about our common salvation, I found it necessary to write appealing to you to contend for the faith that was once for all delivered to the saints. 4 For certain people have crept in unnoticed who long ago were designated for this condemnation, ungodly people, who pervert the grace of our God into sensuality and deny our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]5 Now I want to remind you, although you once fully knew it, that Jesus, who saved[c] a people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed those who did not believe. 6 And the angels who did not stay within their own position of authority, but left their proper dwelling, he has kept in eternal chains under gloomy darkness until the judgment of the great day— 7 just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire,[d]serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of eternal fire.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]8 Yet in like manner these people also, relying on their dreams, defile the flesh, reject authority, and blaspheme the glorious ones. 9 But when the archangel Michael, contending with the devil, was disputing about the body of Moses, he did not presume to pronounce a blasphemous judgment, but said, “The Lord rebuke you.” 10 But these people blaspheme all that they do not understand, and they are destroyed by all that they, like unreasoning animals, understand instinctively. 11 Woe to them! For they walked in the way of Cain and abandoned themselves for the sake of gain to Balaam's error and perished in Korah's rebellion.12 These are hidden reefs[e] at your love feasts, as they feast with you without fear, shepherds feeding themselves; waterless clouds, swept along by winds; fruitless trees in late autumn, twice dead, uprooted;13 wild waves of the sea, casting up the foam of their own shame; wandering stars, for whom the gloom of utter darkness has been reserved forever.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]14 It was also about these that Enoch, the seventh from Adam, prophesied, saying, “Behold, the Lord comes with ten thousands of his holy ones, 15 to execute judgment on all and to convict all the ungodly of all their deeds of ungodliness that they have committed in such an ungodly way, and of all the harsh things that ungodly sinners have spoken against him.” 16 These are grumblers, malcontents, following their own sinful desires; they are loud-mouthed boasters, showing favoritism to gain advantage.[/FONT]

In context? You are the one who doesn't believe in what Christ did, but are still pretending you keep the law. You are the perverting God's grace into sensual desire. (Why else must women dress like that, but you don't have to dress any which way?) You are the one rejecting authority. You are the one blaspheming. (Not God's will. MY will!) You're the hidden reef at the love feast, feeding yourself, waterless cloud, fruitless tree, wild waves, and wandering stars. You are the grumbler, malcontent, and loud boaster.

Amazing what context does, isn't it?
 
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Then answer my question directly, is it sin for a man, who may not be homosexual, to wear women's clothing? Are there not cross dressers and drag queens that wear women's clothing, that are not necessarily homosexual? Answer directly, yes or no.
Is this a sin?
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