here again are Paul's 'notes' on tongues. there is nothing in them to suggest they will stop or should be stopped. in fact, he says do not stop them. and again, those scriptures are ignored while folks pat each other on the back with their HUMAN reasoning
I would say I feel sorry for you, but I actually am more concerned for those whom you forbid to drink of the Holy Spirit
Spiritual Gifts in Paul’s Letters
Romans 12:6–8
6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your[
a] faith; 7 if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; 8 if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead,[
b] do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.
1 Corinthians 12:7–10
7 Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. 8 To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit, 9 to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, 10 to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues,[
a] and to still another the interpretation of tongues
1 Corinthians 12:28
28 And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues.
Ephesians 4:11
11 So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers