Unconditional love and the church's approach to homosexuality

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Unearthed

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Amen

If a person walks away. we have no way to determine if they are one of Gods sheep or if they are not.

So how can we judge if they were ever saved or not, If they are a prodigal child who will be chastened, or an illegitimate child who will not. A person who had true saving faith vs a person who had mere belief. The list goes on and on and on.

we are not God. so how dare we judge!
I completely agree.
Whether or not you follow Jesus is not determined by whether or not you attend church every Sunday.
 
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I completely agree.
Whether or not you follow Jesus is not determined by whether or not you attend church every Sunday.
No one said anything about whether church attendance or lack thereof has any bearing on salvation.
 

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I will tell you what though. If my salvation were up to Christians? I would have gone Pagan a long time ago. really

Praise God, He is the One who keeps me
Your first sentence is so so true.

Very sad also that Christians shoot their own wounded.
We are called to doctors and nurses to the wounded.

Isaiah 42:1-4

The Servant of the Lord
1 “Behold! My Servant whom I uphold,
My Elect One in whom My soul delights!
I have put My Spirit upon Him;
He will bring forth justice to the Gentiles.
2 He will not cry out, nor raise His voice,
Nor cause His voice to be heard in the street.
3 A bruised reed He will not break,
And smoking flax He will not quench;
He will bring forth justice for truth.
4 He will not fail nor be discouraged,
Till He has established justice in the earth;
And the coastlands shall wait for His law.”

Also in Matt 12:20
 
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SophieT

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I asked a very simple question, which you refused to answer. Perhaps you ascribe to a man-made title or denomination to describe your faith; not me: I follow Christ.

post 1293 in yr response to Bill
JerryInBoston, post: 4600725, member: 306686"]On the one hand you say a man can live his entire life running with the devil and be saved in the last moments of his life. On the other hand you say a man following Christ his entire life who renounces his faith in the last moments of his life was never saved.

Or are you saying that atonement is indeed limited, as John Calvin put it?

that is where Calvin came into the picture...with limited atonement

then, in response to my post wherein I laughed because you introduced Calvin you said


"JerryInBoston, post: 4600732, member: 306686"]Is atonement limited?

I answered in post 1319

SophieT, post: 4601056, member: 303760"]are you a Calvinist?

since you were now introducing limited atonement and it seems defensive of Calvinism

to which you replied in post 1328

"JerryInBoston, post: 4601084, member: 306686"]I'm born again, a follower of Jesus Christ. And you?

so look no further as to who does not answer direct questions. as far as me not answering about limited atonement, you were already diverting posts and not directly responding to others...mostly a back and forth between you and EG of insults and other sundry wastes of time...which seems to happen when people address your diversions so I was not going to play

besides, snarking you are a born again follower of Jesus Christ and then going 'and you?' is just snark. I suppose you will deny that, but its' pretty plain when reading other of your responses to people.

and finally my post 1332

"SophieT, post: 4601142, member: 303760"]are you a Calvinist was the question

you are not helping yourself there fellow. YOU were the one who brought up Calvinsim


and your response post 1340

JerryInBoston, post: 4601180, member: 306686"]I asked a very simple question, which you refused to answer. Perhaps you ascribe to a man-made title or denomination to describe your faith; not me: I follow Christ

since there is no reason to become so defensive when asked if you are a Calvinist, I take it you possibly are. No one said you do not believe in Jesus and the only people I have ever seen become so defensive are actually Calvinists and saying you follow Christ does not mean you are not

it's just really goofy the way you avoid answering direct questions and snark for no reason.

no I do not believe in limited atonement. DO YOU? and ARE YOU A CALVINIST? notice I am not saying you are not a Christian
 
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post 1293 in yr response to Bill
JerryInBoston, post: 4600725, member: 306686"]On the one hand you say a man can live his entire life running with the devil and be saved in the last moments of his life. On the other hand you say a man following Christ his entire life who renounces his faith in the last moments of his life was never saved.

Or are you saying that atonement is indeed limited, as John Calvin put it?

that is where Calvin came into the picture...with limited atonement

then, in response to my post wherein I laughed because you introduced Calvin you said


"JerryInBoston, post: 4600732, member: 306686"]Is atonement limited?

I answered in post 1319

SophieT, post: 4601056, member: 303760"]are you a Calvinist?

since you were now introducing limited atonement and it seems defensive of Calvinism

to which you replied in post 1328

"JerryInBoston, post: 4601084, member: 306686"]I'm born again, a follower of Jesus Christ. And you?

so look no further as to who does not answer direct questions. as far as me not answering about limited atonement, you were already diverting posts and not directly responding to others...mostly a back and forth between you and EG of insults and other sundry wastes of time...which seems to happen when people address your diversions so I was not going to play

besides, snarking you are a born again follower of Jesus Christ and then going 'and you?' is just snark. I suppose you will deny that, but its' pretty plain when reading other of your responses to people.

and finally my post 1332

"SophieT, post: 4601142, member: 303760"]are you a Calvinist was the question

you are not helping yourself there fellow. YOU were the one who brought up Calvinsim


and your response post 1340

JerryInBoston, post: 4601180, member: 306686"]I asked a very simple question, which you refused to answer. Perhaps you ascribe to a man-made title or denomination to describe your faith; not me: I follow Christ

since there is no reason to become so defensive when asked if you are a Calvinist, I take it you possibly are. No one said you do not believe in Jesus and the only people I have ever seen become so defensive are actually Calvinists and saying you follow Christ does not mean you are not

it's just really goofy the way you avoid answering direct questions and snark for no reason.

no I do not believe in limited atonement. DO YOU? and ARE YOU A CALVINIST? notice I am not saying you are not a Christian
Atonement is limited, and it's limited by God to the elect, those that are faithful to God. Atonement is certainly not universal, otherwise there would be no hell and everyone would go to heaven. But not everyone goes to heaven, in fact most people do end up in hell; only the elect few that Jesus said are on the narrow way and go through the difficult gate get to heaven.
 

Magenta

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Atonement is limited, and it's limited by God to the elect, those that are faithful to God. Atonement is certainly not universal, otherwise there would be no hell and everyone would go to heaven. But not everyone goes to heaven, in fact most people do end up in hell; only the elect few that Jesus said are on the narrow way and go through the difficult gate get to heaven.
The gate was not said to be difficult, but narrow, and it is Jesus Who said so, and called Himself the gate.

I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. They will come in and go out, and find pasture. John 10:9

Jesus called His way easy.


Matthew 11:28-30:)
 
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SophieT

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Atonement is limited, and it's limited by God to the elect, those that are faithful to God. Atonement is certainly not universal, otherwise there would be no hell and everyone would go to heaven. But not everyone goes to heaven, in fact most people do end up in hell; only the elect few that Jesus said are on the narrow way and go through the difficult gate get to heaven.
never said atonement was universal in the sense everyone is saved and the Bible does not teach that

HOWEVER, God does say WHOSOEVER will...meaning salvation is for all even though not all will accept Christ

guess I was right then. you are basically talking about Calvinism

of course you can say otherwise if you are not

seems we just hit on another reason you dodge :unsure:
 
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The gate was not said to be difficult, but narrow, and it is Jesus Who said so, and called Himself the gate.

I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. They will come in and go out, and find pasture. John 10:9

Jesus called His way easy.


Matthew 11:28-30:)
You need to read that passage again. Jesus said that for the few that find life, the way is narrow and the gate strait (difficult) .
 

Magenta

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You need to read that passage again. Jesus said that for the few that find life, the way is narrow and the gate strait (difficult) .
I have read the passage as it is written, not how you promote it.
 
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never said atonement was universal in the sense everyone is saved and the Bible does not teach that

HOWEVER, God does say WHOSOEVER will...meaning salvation is for all even though not all will accept Christ

guess I was right then. you are basically talking about Calvinism

of course you can say otherwise if you are not

seems we just hit on another reason you dodge :unsure:
Of course: Jesus is Lord of all, of those that accept Him and of those that reject Him. God so loved the world so that anyone who believes might be saved, and none believe unto salvation but the elect, and the elect are on the narrow way.
 

Magenta

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“No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him, and I will raise him up at the last day."



John 12:31-32 :)

 
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I have read the passage as it is written, not how you promote it.
KJV Matthew 7:13 "Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: 14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it."
 

Magenta

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KJV Matthew 7:13 "Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: 14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it."
Yeah, the word difficult as it applies to the gate itself is not there at all.
 
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Of course: Jesus is Lord of all, of those that accept Him and of those that reject Him. God so loved the world so that anyone who believes might be saved, and none believe unto salvation but the elect, and the elect are on the narrow way.
Calvinisim 101

took awhile, but we finally got down to business

was that really so painful to finally admit it?

have a lovely elected evening ... but then it is already determined how that is going to go :whistle:
 
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“No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him, and I will raise him up at the last day."



John 12:31-32 :)

Ephesians 1:4-5 "as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will,"

Romans 8:29 "For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers."

Acts 13:48. "And when the Gentiles heard this, they began rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord, and as many as were appointed to eternal life believed."

Luke 18:7. "And will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them?"

Titus 1:1. "Paul, a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ, for the sake of the faith of God's elect and their knowledge of the truth, which accords with

Ephesians 1:4. "Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him."

Romans 8:29-30. "For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified."

Romans 8:33. "Who shall bring any charge against God's elect? It is God who justifies."
 
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Calvinisim 101

took awhile, but we finally got down to business

was that really so painful to finally admit it?

have a lovely elected evening ... but then it is already determined how that is going to go :whistle:
You deny that God has the soveign authority to elect who will be saved?
 

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I agree with everything except your last line

Salvation can not be lost. If it can We have conditional life. Not eternal life. and we are saved by works. Not by grace
You are forgetting a couple of things in that statement.

#1 We do not enter into heaven until God gives his final judgement. Baptism in Jesus' name is a guarantee that you will make it, yes, but you must still live up to the expectations of the ten commandments and love thy neighbour, do unto others as you would have them do to you etc etc. The one thing the Holy Spirit tells me over and over is that love is the key to it all. It is what the world is lacking and what is dragging us into such darkness. The absence of love is what causes sin and it is lacking everywhere at the moment.

#2 At the end of our lives we experience something we Catholics call 'the particular judgement' You'd probably know it as near death experience because of all the accounts people who have died and come back have shared. The part that is not so often shared is the visions of damnation because everyone wants to hear about the amazing place that heaven is. I can tell you now that plenty of baptised people have come back with stories showing them they are on the road to hell unless they change.

Eternal life once gained cannot be lost. But we receive it in full after our judgement from Jesus and God the Father. And to obtain it, you must not be a lazy Christian whom gets baptised then spends the rest of their life lukewarm to the gospel and works of faith. Especially in these times. God is cleaning out his house and people are falling away because they are not true believers.

These people will not make it into heaven if they do not change their ways and wake up from their faith slumber. I would have had no hope, even though I am baptised and confirmed as per our tradition, until Jesus came and gave me an illumination of my soul. I cal tell you now that I was on the road to perdition myself because Jesus himself showed me. I've already shared my experience in this thread.
 
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You are confused to apply the word difficult to the gate. It is un-Biblical and indefensible.
Go study the Greek word "στενὴ (stenē)",
which Matthew uses when he quotes Jesus when Jesus describes the gate you must go through to have life, and then get back to me. Or don't, and be forever ignorant as to what the Bible actually says.