I personally adhere to Reformed theology (Calvinism), however rather than argue, please allow me to provide some light-hearted humor regarding both sides of the debate. Enjoy!
Question - How many Arminians does it take to change a light bulb?
Answer - Only one, but the light bulb has to "want" to be changed first.
Question - Should a Calvinist change an Arminian's light-bulb?
Answer - There's no need to, because Arminians haven't noticed how dark it really is.
Calvinists don't change light bulbs, only God can change light bulbs. We believe in monergistic light-bulb changing, so God gets all the glory.
Question - How do you confuse a Calvinist seminary student?
Answer - Give him a multiple-choice exam.
Question - What do you call an Arminian killer whale?
Answer - Free Willy.
Are Arminians predestined to believe in free-will, and does anyone choose to be a Calvinist?
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