In my 603 I cited numerous passages that teach that God hates, despises, abhors or loathes sin and sinners alike to wit:
Lev 26:30; Deut 25:16; Job 12:21-22; Ps 5:5-6; 11:5; 15:1-5; 73:18-20; 95:10-11; 106:40; 119:113; Prov 3:32; 6:16-19; Jer 16:5; Lam 2:6-7; Hos 9:15; Dan 12:2; Nah 1:14; Mal 1:2-3; Rom 9:13, etc.
In this post I will quote a few companion verses that harmonize with the above and teach that God's love is conditional, sacrificial, moral and eternal in nature. And this biblical fact would also flat-out contradict NR interpretation of Jn 3:16 because if God loves each and every person in the world regardless of spiritual-moral status, then that love must be unconditional in nature, for the ground of such love must be found in the giver's own nature, which is what the vast majority of non-Reformed believe.
Since there are a great number of passages in scripture that qualify God's love, e.g. Ex 20:5-6; Deut 5:9-10; 7:9-11; 2Sam 7:15; 2Chron 6:14; Ps 103:11, 17-18; Prov 8:17; Jer 16:5; Hos 2:4; Neh 1:5; Dan 9:4-5; Rom 8:28, etc., I will quote only three from mouth of Jesus Christ himself.
John 10:17
17 The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life — only to take it up again.
NIV
Unconditional love can never find its ground, basis or reason in its object; for by definition the basis for such love must found in the giver himself. But here in this passage Jesus plainly and unequivocally states that the basis for his Father's love for the Son (the object) is found in his own faithful obedience. Next:
John 14:21
21 Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him."
NIV
Again, a crystal clear statement of the nature of the Father and Son's conditional love toward his disciples. The Father and Son both love their chosen, covenant people; for they are the only ones who can love God. The world cannot love God, which is why it also cannot obey Him. All the world can naturally do is hate God and his Christ (Jn 7:7). Now, we can understand fully why Christ did not pray for the world in John 17. He did not pray for those who hate him -- for those who love the world -- for those who are OF the world -- because Christ and Father both hate those who are OF the world. Lastly:
John 15:10
10 If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love.
NIV
Once again...Jesus is telling his disciples that to remain in His love requires their obedience -- the same kind of obedience that always kept Jesus in his Father's love.
Volumes could be written about the heresies in NR theology. Paul was right when he said "a little bit of leaven, leavens the whole lump (Gal 5:9)"! NR theology is false on numerous and significant points. It's as false as Non-Reformed interpretation of Jn 3:16 that teaches the heresy that God loves each and every person in the world unconditionally -- a teaching that wickedly maligns God's thrice holy character. Since God loved his only begotten Son on the condition of his obedience, then what would possess any vile, wicked, unrighteous mortal to believe God would lower his high, exalted, impeccable, pure, unblemished, flawless, incomparable moral standard to accommodate evil-doers whose very hearts are the corrupt, polluted fountainheads of evil? This heresy is analogous to saying that God loves evil! I would not want to be in the shoes of anyone on Judgment Day who believes this heresy.
May God help all you non-Reformed to come to your senses before it's too late!