What Christian Book Had The Biggest Impact On Your Life?

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shineyourlight

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It's Not My Fault by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

By far the best book ever. It teaches you on how to no longer make excuses in your own life. Everyone has a choice. :) It's wonderful. It changed my mind of thinking and got me out of my own self-pity years ago.
 
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popeye

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It was one of the first mentioned.

I love that book. I tried to make all my kids read it but I guess it was too hard for them because of the language used.

I thought the language was part of the charm...
exactly.
you have to just read it and let the book take you into the story. you can't overwork it or labor over it.(but later you will ponder and ponder) lol.
 
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popeye

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I read that a while back and I liked that one too.
He takes the legal standing of man, from the fall forward,then holds up God's law against the sinner,and seeks conversions on a "mental" level.

I do not know one single person,personally,that received Jesus w/this method.

When I was a heathen,I KNEW i was bound for hell.Ray didn't need to teach me that.

There is a utube vid of a woman owning him on a street corner. He tries that "you have broken God's law" sales pitch on her and she proceeds to show him his own sin. Kinda funny.

No doubt he has hundreds of converts under his belt,and thank God for diverse ministries,but,in witnessing,you will come across pple that HAVE ALREADY been convicted,and pursued by the hounds of heaven for their soul. They are READY "ALREADY" and I can think I really had an anointed word for them,and pat myself on the back for my awesome witnessing abilities,but if we could see clearly,most anything would have "worked" because it was GOD,NOT ME, that arrested them.

Just saying....didn't mean to dump on ole Ray.....he is a good guy for sure.
 
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popeye

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Edit;
Ray does have the formula for those that are outside Jesus,and think they are "good pple"
 
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JesusistheChrist

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Edit;
Ray does have the formula for those that are outside Jesus,and think they are "good pple"
So, you're basically disagreeing with your own previous post? Yes, there are people who are ready to receive Christ via repentance in that they've already been convicted of their own sin and their own need for a Saviour, but God's law definitely plays a vital part in convicting the self-righteous and that's not merely on a "mental" level as you suggested.
 

posthuman

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Page 1.

It was one of the first mentioned.

I love that book. I tried to make all my kids read it but I guess it was too hard for them because of the language used.

I thought the language was part of the charm...
((looks again))

I'm open to reading The Purpose Driven Life, though I'm skeptical of Rick.

No single piece of Christian literature has impacted me very largely, but of course Pilgrim's Progress by John Bunyan was very intriguing. I also very much liked The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis.
thanks Gramps! sorry, Khatru.
i was skimming the first time i went through this thread, and i guess i misssed it because it wan't underlined, like the other titles in Khatru's post.

"i stand, corrected"
- D.E.E.
 
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not to be missed a small paperback to last an eternity comes with a caution that "it could change your life" viz A Travel Guide to Heaven - will you like it when you get there for permanent residence or will it just we hell for you - check it out here - wincam
 
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Its a personal revival and discipleship work book: Seeking Him by Nancy Leigh Demoss & Tim Grissom =)
 

Dan58

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"The Late Great Planet Earth" by Hal Lindsey

An oldie for sure, but I was just a non-believing kid when I first read this book, and the prophecies surrounding Israel in the last days got me to thinking that the bible might actually be true. That impact on me is why it was memorable.
 

Budman

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He takes the legal standing of man, from the fall forward,then holds up God's law against the sinner,and seeks conversions on a "mental" level.

I do not know one single person,personally,that received Jesus w/this method.

When I was a heathen,I KNEW i was bound for hell.Ray didn't need to teach me that.

There is a utube vid of a woman owning him on a street corner. He tries that "you have broken God's law" sales pitch on her and she proceeds to show him his own sin. Kinda funny.

No doubt he has hundreds of converts under his belt,and thank God for diverse ministries,but,in witnessing,you will come across pple that HAVE ALREADY been convicted,and pursued by the hounds of heaven for their soul. They are READY "ALREADY" and I can think I really had an anointed word for them,and pat myself on the back for my awesome witnessing abilities,but if we could see clearly,most anything would have "worked" because it was GOD,NOT ME, that arrested them.

Just saying....didn't mean to dump on ole Ray.....he is a good guy for sure.

I like Ray's method because most people think of themselves as "good" (comparing themselves to others like Hitler, for example) and thus, good enough to get to heaven on their own merits. Ray takes them through the Law to show them that they are not good at all. That even their "good" works are filthy to God. That those works are, in fact, a subconscious attempt to "bribe" God.

He shows them where they stand as sinners before The Almighty. They stand condemned, storing up God's wrath against them, day after day.

He shatters the illusion that God is some kindly old fellow with a long, white beard, who will judge their good deeds against the bad ones, and allow them into heaven via a sliding scale.

Believe it or not, most people I witness to believe that very thing. That God should send people like Hitler to hell, but not them because they aren't so bad.

There is no pat "formula" for witnessing. Different approaches work for different people.
 
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JesusistheChrist

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I like Ray's method because most people think of themselves as "good" (comparing themselves to others like Hitler, for example) and thus, good enough to get to heaven on their own merits. Ray takes them through the Law to show them that they are not good at all. That even their "good" works are filthy to God. That those works are, in fact, a subconscious attempt to "bribe" God.

He shows them where they stand as sinners before The Almighty. They stand condemned, storing up God's wrath against them, day after day.

He shatters the illusion that God is some kindly old fellow with a long, white beard, who will judge their good deeds against the bad ones, and allow them into heaven via a sliding scale.

Believe it or not, most people I witness to believe that very thing. That God should send people like Hitler to hell, but not them because they aren't so bad.

There is no pat "formula" for witnessing. Different approaches work for different people.
Amen.

I've spoken to Ray in the past and I also used to use the law regularly in my street preaching days and it was very effective in putting an end to any thoughts of self-righteousness and in preparing the hearts of sinners to embrace the Saviour, Jesus Christ.
 
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not to be missed a small paperback to last an eternity comes with a caution that "it could change your life" viz A Travel Guide to Heaven - will you like it when you get there for permanent residence or will it just we hell for you - check it out here - wincam
btw the author is Anthony DeStefano - published by Bantam and in USA by Doubleday - ISBN 0-553-81564-4 - wincam
 
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Tintin

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Amen.

I've spoken to Ray in the past and I also used to use the law regularly in my street preaching days and it was very effective in putting an end to any thoughts of self-righteousness and in preparing the hearts of sinners to embrace the Saviour, Jesus Christ.
I think Comfort does a good job, but it's not my style of sharing God's Word. Also, I can't help thinking he should first establish that there is a God and then lay down his arguments. Because people aren't going to fear eternal punishment in a place they don't believe exists, for something they don't believe they've done. I did find it funny when he interviewed the evolutionist anthropologist (in Evolution versus God). She made some hilarious remark about, "not normally talking with creationists because her doctor said it raised her blood pressure" or something to that effect. Can't have your conscience pricked now, can you, lady?
 
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JesusistheChrist

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I think Comfort does a good job, but it's not my style of sharing God's Word. Also, I can't help thinking he should first establish that there is a God and then lay down his arguments. Because people aren't going to fear eternal punishment in a place they don't believe exists, for something they don't believe they've done. I did find it funny when he interviewed the evolutionist anthropologist (in Evolution versus God). She made some hilarious remark about, "not normally talking with creationists because her doctor said it raised her blood pressure" or something to that effect. Can't have your conscience pricked now, can you, lady?
I'm not a Comfort-ian and I last spoke to Ray about 15 years ago, but some of Ray's teachings have definitely had long lasting and positive effects on my life...contrary to popular opinion. Lol.
 

Jenizona

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I read through this thread to catch up, planning to list that very book. In 1976 I was pleasing my wife by attending church with her instead of bass fishing on Sundays, and since I was a businessman was expected to take on leadership roles, the pastor ignoring my excuses and protests, paying a high price of neglecting my hobby. I wasn't even saved, knowing almost nothing about the Bible. Even so, I was put teaching high school Sunday School, mostly just reading the prepared lesson plans for So. Baptists. It would have been more appropriate for me to be a student. I was then asked to also lead the Training Union class at night. The group chose to study The Pilgrim's Progress, by Paul Bunyan, written over three centuries ago. We had a really old edition, hard to read, requiring a lot of study to lead. By the time we finished there were more people wanting to "rededicate" or be saved and be water baptized than the pastor could remember in all his years there.

I was awe struck. "Could the Bible actually have such a message in it? I was driven to read the Bible cover to cover. During that first pass through I discovered the answer is Yes. Within weeks I was standing at the pew, white knuckled hands clamped on the back of the pew in front of me, broke down and yielded to that knocking at my door, and was born again Jan 6, 1976.

There's now a free audio of it, easy to enjoy.
Paul Bunyan had a big, blue ox named "Babe," and is one of the beloved characters from American folklore lol. Pilgrim's Progress was written by John Bunyan. :cool:
 

Jenizona

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Other than the Bible, the most influential book in my life has been Og Mandino's The Greatest Salesman in the World. Oddly, you can sometimes find this small paperback in the "business" section of bookstores. Although applicable to all areas of life, it is definitely a Christian book.

A quick read, it takes only a few hours in one sit-down, or a day or two if you take your time. I have said for years, "If I did everything that book said, it would fix everything in my life." Easier said than done! If you have one problem area in your life that you are particularly worried about, odds are that one of the sections of this book addresses it. It is the most comprehensive distillation of "how to live" that I have ever seen, folded into a charming fictional tale told by Og Mandino. I highly recommend it.
 
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I am reading, "Good or God" by John Bevere right now and it's absolutely wonderful :)
 

Jenizona

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Here's another good one, I just posted it on another thread! Thanks for reminding me, shineyourlight! This book may have honestly saved my life at one point. It therefore deserves a post in the "Books that have had the biggest impact on your life" thread! Since without it, I may not even be here today!:cool:



Boundaries and control are totally different. Boundaries are what you set up ON YOURSELF, and control is what you do to others.

For example, "If you continue to see him, I will move out." These are boundaries. You are saying what YOU will do. The other person has free choice.

"Don't leave the house, don't use the internet, don't go out with your friends." These are examples of attempting to control someone else.

I got this info from the Christian book, Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life , by Christian psychologists Henry Cloud and John Townsend.
Great response and great book.
 

Magenta

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Other than the Bible, the most influential book in my life has been Og Mandino's The Greatest Salesman in the World. Oddly, you can sometimes find this small paperback in the "business" section of bookstores. Although applicable to all areas of life, it is definitely a Christian book.

A quick read, it takes only a few hours in one sit-down, or a day or two if you take your time. I have said for years, "If I did everything that book said, it would fix everything in my life." Easier said than done! If you have one problem area in your life that you are particularly worried about, odds are that one of the sections of this book addresses it. It is the most comprehensive distillation of "how to live" that I have ever seen, folded into a charming fictional tale told by Og Mandino. I highly recommend it.
Good morning Jeni! :) Before I even read this post of yours (I was reading the one from you below about boundaries when...) I thought of Og Mandino's other book, one I have read a couple of times and highly recommend to others:

The Greatest Miracle in the World. What an amazing book!