We started in Pentecostal and so-called "nondenominational" churches, which are basically a denomination that prides itself on being disconnected with the rest of the body of Christ. We were lied to, saw terrible things going on, could not get any help in a church with 10 pastors.
So, (This is for you, Deut!) we made a radical turn and started attending an Evangelical Free church, which was a breathe of fresh air! The pride and pretension was gone, people were so caring and helpful, that was when I was very disabled, but I didn't have an RA diagnosis or on meds. The pastor had a PhD in preaching, and he was so solid theologically. And inspiring. I played with the worship team, and the youth group was great, with a young guy leading who was into hockey, which was my 2 boys sport! It was a great church.
Hubby got transferred to Alberta, and the nearest EVFree was far away. We went to an Alliance church with incredible music and lousy preaching. I never talked to anyone in 2 years. I tried to attend a woman's Bible study during the week, but it was up a long flight of stairs, which I couldn't do. The secretary told me,"Too bad, you won't be able to go." In very sarcastic tones.
I walked away from that church and God. I stopped reading my Bible for 2 years, till God told me to read 5 Psalms a day. I did that for 2 years. We started having marriage issues, got a flier to our door about a series on marriage. It was a small Southern Baptist Church, and the preacher could preach, and he knew theology and the Bible. I became the music director, led a music team. We stayed there 5 years, till the pastor got thrown from a horse, broke his leg. I think he must have hit his head. He could not preach anymore, and he became spiritually abusive to many long time members in the church. So we left.
Some of my friends and family were at a North American Baptist church, with an incredible outreach program, and a pastor who could preach! Another one with a PhD in preaching. He would preach a deep sermon for me and the many retired missionaries and pastors. My best friend was from Peru, thick Hispanic accent. She would find all these other layers in his sermon. He also taught prayer, reading the Bible to the whole church. I was always supportive of that. Then we retired and moved to BC.
We found a small Baptists of Westetn Canada, and it fit our needs. My husband was bored and retired, the church renovated the kitchen, and he was there from 8-5 daily, he knows a lot of trades. This church leans very Reformed, and all the people who preach are Amillennial, which is the best eschatology!
So Baptist, in a word! Lol