Why do Atheists Bother?

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Dan_473

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Helping suffering by alleviating hunger by giving food is not the same thing as removing the human ability to suffer at all. Relate the means and the end together, because compartmentalization gives you false correlations of the ends being equally justifiable regardless of the means. That's what I'm saying.

The desire not to suffer unconsensually is innate in all of us. Nobody wants to hunger unless they have decided they will. Nobody wants to be whipped with a bull-whip unless that's your thing.

As for 'how can all of us dying be bad', well, I for one have a desire to survive! Don't you?
"Helping suffering by alleviating hunger by giving food is not the same thing as removing the human ability to suffer at all."

I understood you to be endorsing a morality based on reducing suffering... to me, it sounds like now you want to have some suffering... certain kinds of suffering...






"The desire not to suffer unconsensually is innate in all of us."

I agree with that... the desire to reduce suffering in others is not innate in all of us, I think.








"As for 'how can all of us dying be bad', well, I for one have a desire to survive! Don't you?"

Yes, I also have a desire to survive... but... basing a morality on that desire for personal survival is different from basing it on reducing suffering.
 
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"Helping suffering by alleviating hunger by giving food is not the same thing as removing the human ability to suffer at all."

I understood you to be endorsing a morality based on reducing suffering... to me, it sounds like now you want to have some suffering... certain kinds of suffering...
Taking away the ability to suffer by burning someone's brain is very different from helping someone who is actually suffering eg. giving a hungry person food, not killing anyone, not causing someone physical pain, not being a jerk, not deliberately hurting people, not stealing their money or possessions, not physically or mentally assaulting them, understanding them, letting them know you're there for them, and generally helping people. Wanting to remove the ability to suffer at all by going Dr. Frankenstein on people, is not the same as wanting to alleviate existent suffering.






"The desire not to suffer unconsensually is innate in all of us."

I agree with that... the desire to reduce suffering in others is not innate in all of us, I think.
It is to some degree, in everyone. Some more than others, however, and some in ways that are twisted, for instance, wanting to burn people's brains to stop them having any ability to suffer, or ''putting the witch out of her misery'' by say burning her at the stake.








"As for 'how can all of us dying be bad', well, I for one have a desire to survive! Don't you?"

Yes, I also have a desire to survive... but... basing a morality on that desire for personal survival is different from basing it on reducing suffering.
I don't base my morality off a desire to survive, I continue to live because I desire to survive.
 

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Do you want to suffer unconsensually? That is, would you think it a lovely occurence for someone to come in your house, rape your wife and murder you and your family? I wouldn't, so why would I want to do that to anyone else?
"I wouldn't, so why would I want to do that to anyone else?"

To me, this sounds like a moral standard built on not doing to others what you don't want done to yourself.
 
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"I wouldn't, so why would I want to do that to anyone else?"

To me, this sounds like a moral standard built on not doing to others what you don't want done to yourself.
A teaching that existed thousands of years before Jesus was around mate. It's pretty obvious, and has been to people for ages. It's one facet of a moral standard built on empathy, coming from the desire for a world that's better than this one, a desire for less suffering for myself, therefore a realization that others' suffering is just as unpleasant as mine is.
 

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There are many reason I don't take part in such activities. In some case its empathy for the victims or the children they leave behind, in other cases I don't want a criminal record or I don't want to spend a life in jail.. I'd much rather spend it with my family.

I don't see how god comes into any of that.
"I don't see how god comes into any of that."

To me, it doesn't prove there's a god... it does mean to me that without any god, things are only wrong if you think they are...








"I'd much rather spend it with my family."

That's why I prefaced it with "if I thought that it would lead to greater overall happiness."
 
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To me, it doesn't prove there's a god... it does mean to me that without any god, things are only wrong if you think they are...
That's precisely what ColinCat was trying to explain. As a matter of fact, things are only wrong if we think of them as wrong. So what purpose is there in having concepts of right and wrong to begin with if it all comes down to opinion? As ColinCat stated, his sense of right and wrong is based off of the outcomes of his action and his emotions.

I've been up all night and I'm starting to get a headache, so I'll go into more detail about morality later on.
 
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I've been up all night and I'm starting to get a headache, so I'll go into more detail about morality later on.
That's what you get for staying up all night doing immoral, atheist things.
 
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There are many reason I don't take part in such activities. In some case its empathy for the victims or the children they leave behind, in other cases I don't want a criminal record or I don't want to spend a life in jail.. I'd much rather spend it with my family.

I don't see how god comes into any of that.
were you brought up in a vacuum ....just because you don't see something does not not mean it does not exist... you did not suddenly stumble upon morality....it does not ooze out from you because of some chemical reaction...we learn these things because they are practised in our society everyday......both good and evil...that is like saying a child growing up having never heard speech will one day by some chemical reaction suddenly learn language and speak...
 
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were you brought up in a vacuum ....just because you don't see something does not not mean it does not exist... you did not suddenly stumble upon morality....it does not ooze out from you because of some chemical reaction...we learn these things because they are practised in our society everyday......both good and evil...that is like saying a child growing up having never heard speech will one day by some chemical reaction suddenly learn language and speak...
Ermm.. At what point did I say that my morals appeared out of a chemical reaction?

Sounds like your arguing with someone else.
 

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Do you want to suffer unconsensually? That is, would you think it a lovely occurence for someone to come in your house, rape your wife and murder you and your family? I wouldn't, so why would I want to do that to anyone else?
So as I gather from this, the general argument is:

1. I don't want to suffer without giving my prior consent
Therefore, I should not make others suffer without them giving their prior consent

Seems like a non-sequitur - "I don't want to suffer without giving consent" is not logically equivalent to "I shouldn't make others suffer without my consent," so obviously there needs to be at least one intermediary step in the argument. Could you elaborate a little bit more?
 
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A teaching that existed thousands of years before Jesus was around mate. It's pretty obvious, and has been to people for ages. It's one facet of a moral standard built on empathy, coming from the desire for a world that's better than this one, a desire for less suffering for myself, therefore a realization that others' suffering is just as unpleasant as mine is.
scripture teaches ...he created the world and everything in it...so how could the teaching be around before him??? and that is the concept borne from him...
 
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That's precisely what ColinCat was trying to explain. As a matter of fact, things are only wrong if we think of them as wrong. So what purpose is there in having concepts of right and wrong to begin with if it all comes down to opinion? As ColinCat stated, his sense of right and wrong is based off of the outcomes of his action and his emotions.

I've been up all night and I'm starting to get a headache, so I'll go into more detail about morality later on.
you may think it is wrong for someone to kill you ....someone may think it is wrong not to kill you...who's wrong is right and who's wrong is wrong??? since both are justified in their opinion.....and his sense of right and wrong is based off of the outcomes of his action and his emotions.
 
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Ermm.. At what point did I say that my morals appeared out of a chemical reaction?

Sounds like your arguing with someone else.
the statement is general and would include all who think morality does not come from God's teaching...you should read more of the thread to fully understand the discussion because we are all chemical based...so whether you know it or not the end result is either you believe morality comes from God's teaching or a chemical reaction in your brain.....know what you are discussing....
 
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So as I gather from this, the general argument is:

1. I don't want to suffer without giving my prior consent
Therefore, I should not make others suffer without them giving their prior consent

Seems like a non-sequitur - "I don't want to suffer without giving consent" is not logically equivalent to "I shouldn't make others suffer without my consent," so obviously there needs to be at least one intermediary step in the argument. Could you elaborate a little bit more?
If you can't empathize, that's your issue, not mine.

If I don't like being forced to suffer without consent, it stands to reason that others feel similarly. I can think of not one person in history who enjoyed to suffer without their prior consent. Can you? Do you know anyone on planet Earth who walks around shouting ''Hey, I don't want to be murdered, raped or pillaged (no consent given) but I wouldn't mind being murdered, raped and pillaged!!''

If I don't like it, why would anyone else? Why would I want to do it to anyone else if it's not beneficial in any way?
 
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scripture teaches ...he created the world and everything in it...so how could the teaching be around before him??? and that is the concept borne from him...
Because Genesis came around 3600 years ago, but religion has been around long before that. The Hindus taught ''don't do to others what you wouldn't like done to you'' more than a thousand years before the first pages of Genesis were even written.
 
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you may think it is wrong for someone to kill you ....someone may think it is wrong not to kill you...who's wrong is right and who's wrong is wrong??? since both are justified in their opinion.....and his sense of right and wrong is based off of the outcomes of his action and his emotions.
It may be a while before I respond to this. I spent about 35 minutes typing up a very detailed response and it was all deleted when I accidentally backed out of the page. I'll try to respond to this eventually. If the topic moves on before then, I'll send you a PM. If I forget and you want to hear what I have to say, just send me a PM.
 
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Because Genesis came around 3600 years ago, but religion has been around long before that. The Hindus taught ''don't do to others what you wouldn't like done to you'' more than a thousand years before the first pages of Genesis were even written.
By your estimation
Genesis came around 3600 years ago
man was created in the genesis...your belief is that religion came before man?
 
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It may be a while before I respond to this. I spent about 35 minutes typing up a very detailed response and it was all deleted when I accidentally backed out of the page. I'll try to respond to this eventually. If the topic moves on before then, I'll send you a PM. If I forget and you want to hear what I have to say, just send me a PM.
fair enough...
 

Red_Tory

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Why would I want to do it to anyone else if it's not beneficial in any way?
It can be beneficial in many ways, to both the person inflicting the suffering and the person sustaining it. There are many instances in which suffering is necessary to obtain a good (or avert an evil), and there are also cases in which people are unable to give consent. For instance, if a surgeon were to perform a painful yet necessary operation on the sole infant survivor of an orphanage fire, that might be said to be "inflicting suffering without prior consent."

It isn't a failure to empathize per se, but rather a recognition that placing emphasis on suffering itself in a moral system ultimately places the cart before the horse. Do you think it would make more sense to consider actual well-being as an appropriate metric as opposed to suffering (or pleasure)?