Why do men listen to women, in the world.

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Kerry

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1 Samuel 25:2

2 And there was a man in Maon, whose possessions were in Carmel; and the man was very great, and he had three thousand sheep, and a thousand goats: and he was shearing his sheep in Carmel.
3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.
4 And David heard in the wilderness that Nabal did shear his sheep.
5 And David sent out ten young men, and David said unto the young men, Get you up to Carmel, and go to Nabal, and greet him in my name:
6 And thus shall ye say to him that liveth in prosperity, Peace be both to thee, and peace be to thine house, and peace be unto all that thou hast.
7 And now I have heard that thou hast shearers: now thy shepherds which were with us, we hurt them not, neither was there ought missing unto them, all the while they were in Carmel.
8 Ask thy young men, and they will shew thee. Wherefore let the young men find favour in thine eyes: for we come in a good day: give, I pray thee, whatsoever cometh to thine hand unto thy servants, and to thy son David.
9 And when David's young men came, they spake to Nabal according to all those words in the name of David, and ceased.
10 And Nabal answered David's servants, and said, Who is David? and who is the son of Jesse? there be many servants now a days that break away every man from his master.
11 Shall I then take my bread, and my water, and my flesh that I have killed for my shearers, and give it unto men, whom I know not whence they be?
12 So David's young men turned their way, and went again, and came and told him all those sayings.
13 And David said unto his men, Gird ye on every man his sword. And they girded on every man his sword; and David also girded on his sword: and there went up after David about four hundred men; and two hundred abode by the stuff.
14 But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal's wife, saying, Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to salute our master; and he railed on them.
15 But the men were very good unto us, and we were not hurt, neither missed we any thing, as long as we were conversant with them, when we were in the fields:
16 They were a wall unto us both by night and day, all the while we were with them keeping the sheep.
17 Now therefore know and consider what thou wilt do; for evil is determined against our master, and against all his household: for he is such a son of Belial, that a man cannot speak to him.
18 Then Abigail made haste, and took two hundred loaves, and two bottles of wine, and five sheep ready dressed, and five measures of parched corn, and an hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs, and laid them on asses.
19 And she said unto her servants, Go on before me; behold, I come after you. But she told not her husband Nabal.
20 And it was so, as she rode on the ass, that she came down by the covert on the hill, and, behold, David and his men came down against her; and she met them.
21 Now David had said, Surely in vain have I kept all that this fellow hath in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that pertained unto him: and he hath requited me evil for good.
22 So and more also do God unto the enemies of David, if I leave of all that pertain to him by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.
23 And when Abigail saw David, she hasted, and lighted off the ass, and fell before David on her face, and bowed herself to the ground,
24 And fell at his feet, and said, Upon me, my lord, upon me let this iniquity be: and let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak in thine audience, and hear the words of thine handmaid.
25 Let not my lord, I pray thee, regard this man of Belial, even Nabal: for as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him: but I thine handmaid saw not the young men of my lord, whom thou didst send.
26 Now therefore, my lord, as the Lord liveth, and as thy soul liveth, seeing the Lord hath withholden thee from coming to shed blood, and from avenging thyself with thine own hand, now let thine enemies, and they that seek evil to my lord, be as Nabal.
27 And now this blessing which thine handmaid hath brought unto my lord, let it even be given unto the young men that follow my lord.
28 I pray thee, forgive the trespass of thine handmaid: for the Lord will certainly make my lord a sure house; because my lord fighteth the battles of the Lord, and evil hath not been found in thee all thy days.
29 Yet a man is risen to pursue thee, and to seek thy soul: but the soul of my lord shall be bound in the bundle of life with the Lord thy God; and the souls of thine enemies, them shall he sling out, as out of the middle of a sling.
30 And it shall come to pass, when the Lord shall have done to my lord according to all the good that he hath spoken concerning thee, and shall have appointed thee ruler over Israel;
31 That this shall be no grief unto thee, nor offence of heart unto my lord, either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my lord hath avenged himself: but when the Lord shall have dealt well with my lord, then remember thine handmaid.
32 And David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, which sent thee this day to meet me:
33And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.
34 For in very deed, as the Lord God of Israel liveth, which hath kept me back from hurting thee, except thou hadst hasted and come to meet me, surely there had not been left unto Nabal by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.

A women that was smart and a man that was not.
 
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jkalyna

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Sorry but your wrong, The only thing that God see's is the cross and those who have faith in it. Jesus is God's sacrifice for man and the only one He will accept.
That's true, I was thinking about something else writing this, if I really wrote what I think about it, it wouldn't be christian to post. :)
 
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jkalyna

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1 Samuel 25:2

2 And there was a man in Maon, whose possessions were in Carmel; and the man was very great, and he had three thousand sheep, and a thousand goats: and he was shearing his sheep in Carmel.
3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.
4 And David heard in the wilderness that Nabal did shear his sheep.
5 And David sent out ten young men, and David said unto the young men, Get you up to Carmel, and go to Nabal, and greet him in my name:
6 And thus shall ye say to him that liveth in prosperity, Peace be both to thee, and peace be to thine house, and peace be unto all that thou hast.
7 And now I have heard that thou hast shearers: now thy shepherds which were with us, we hurt them not, neither was there ought missing unto them, all the while they were in Carmel.
8 Ask thy young men, and they will shew thee. Wherefore let the young men find favour in thine eyes: for we come in a good day: give, I pray thee, whatsoever cometh to thine hand unto thy servants, and to thy son David.
9 And when David's young men came, they spake to Nabal according to all those words in the name of David, and ceased.
10 And Nabal answered David's servants, and said, Who is David? and who is the son of Jesse? there be many servants now a days that break away every man from his master.
11 Shall I then take my bread, and my water, and my flesh that I have killed for my shearers, and give it unto men, whom I know not whence they be?
12 So David's young men turned their way, and went again, and came and told him all those sayings.
13 And David said unto his men, Gird ye on every man his sword. And they girded on every man his sword; and David also girded on his sword: and there went up after David about four hundred men; and two hundred abode by the stuff.
14 But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal's wife, saying, Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to salute our master; and he railed on them.
15 But the men were very good unto us, and we were not hurt, neither missed we any thing, as long as we were conversant with them, when we were in the fields:
16 They were a wall unto us both by night and day, all the while we were with them keeping the sheep.
17 Now therefore know and consider what thou wilt do; for evil is determined against our master, and against all his household: for he is such a son of Belial, that a man cannot speak to him.
18 Then Abigail made haste, and took two hundred loaves, and two bottles of wine, and five sheep ready dressed, and five measures of parched corn, and an hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs, and laid them on asses.
19 And she said unto her servants, Go on before me; behold, I come after you. But she told not her husband Nabal.
20 And it was so, as she rode on the ass, that she came down by the covert on the hill, and, behold, David and his men came down against her; and she met them.
21 Now David had said, Surely in vain have I kept all that this fellow hath in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that pertained unto him: and he hath requited me evil for good.
22 So and more also do God unto the enemies of David, if I leave of all that pertain to him by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.
23 And when Abigail saw David, she hasted, and lighted off the ass, and fell before David on her face, and bowed herself to the ground,
24 And fell at his feet, and said, Upon me, my lord, upon me let this iniquity be: and let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak in thine audience, and hear the words of thine handmaid.
25 Let not my lord, I pray thee, regard this man of Belial, even Nabal: for as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him: but I thine handmaid saw not the young men of my lord, whom thou didst send.
26 Now therefore, my lord, as the Lord liveth, and as thy soul liveth, seeing the Lord hath withholden thee from coming to shed blood, and from avenging thyself with thine own hand, now let thine enemies, and they that seek evil to my lord, be as Nabal.
27 And now this blessing which thine handmaid hath brought unto my lord, let it even be given unto the young men that follow my lord.
28 I pray thee, forgive the trespass of thine handmaid: for the Lord will certainly make my lord a sure house; because my lord fighteth the battles of the Lord, and evil hath not been found in thee all thy days.
29 Yet a man is risen to pursue thee, and to seek thy soul: but the soul of my lord shall be bound in the bundle of life with the Lord thy God; and the souls of thine enemies, them shall he sling out, as out of the middle of a sling.
30 And it shall come to pass, when the Lord shall have done to my lord according to all the good that he hath spoken concerning thee, and shall have appointed thee ruler over Israel;
31 That this shall be no grief unto thee, nor offence of heart unto my lord, either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my lord hath avenged himself: but when the Lord shall have dealt well with my lord, then remember thine handmaid.
32 And David said to Abigail, Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, which sent thee this day to meet me:
33And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.
34 For in very deed, as the Lord God of Israel liveth, which hath kept me back from hurting thee, except thou hadst hasted and come to meet me, surely there had not been left unto Nabal by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.

A women that was smart and a man that was not.
I ddn't find the verse about the smart women, please which one is it. TY
 
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jkalyna

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I have heard this also, but I'd be hesitant to elevate Adam too high remembering that he sinned being NOT deceived unlike Eve.
Just like Esau gave away his birthright or was it Jacob for STew, oh yeah it's good, but the saying to a mans heart is through his stomach pouch. Maybe Adam just couldn't wait till dinner, and sold mankind for a piece of fruit, and thought the serpent was lying.
 
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jkalyna

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A little off topic, but women always think twice about food, weight issues, but men had fought according to the news, over a piece of bread, ended in jail, even the police beat someone up for a snickers bar. lol Got to watch next time walking out of the pizzaria if any guys are around don't want to get the pizza taken home by them.
 
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jkalyna

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Sorry but your wrong, The only thing that God see's is the cross and those who have faith in it. Jesus is God's sacrifice for man and the only one He will accept.
Really wish it was that way. People's head's get twisted up with things, like new age, and other things, so what could you say about this, I claim John 17, when Jesus prayed, "Keep them from the evil one". YOur RIGHT without Jesus there is no HOly Spirit, no conviction of right and wronge, conscience dosn't bother some, and as the scriptures say, people become unhuman, animalistic without feeling, , relentless, Jesus is the only way, the truth and the Light. I'm going to Thank HIm today for making me his own, and many others his own.
 

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From a Christian perspective, God created Man, and created women for Man.
Since the fall what happened to Man, in the world it seems Man was created for her, women
Eve swayed Adam into committing the worse so to say, crime of becoming an accomplice to satans deceptive mind.
It you read the thousands of times, the girlfriend, of wife, or other, would tell the opposite sex, the male, to commit murder, vandalism, theft, robbery, lies, all kinds of evils, and he does it. Because of man's disobedience in the Garden of Eden, he was cast out.
What makes man to be under the authority, and feet of women to commit such evil.
There are those in prisons, for doing just that, cast out from society, into a life of chains.
How low has man really become, as an animal. You could train a dog, to attack, to be aggressive, vicious, against others, as the women is it's master, Have men lost their masculinity and authority since the fall, since Adam was in charge of the land, and all things. Or has the curse come upon not only man's physically, as God said, man will toil, and work with the sweat from his brow, until he returns back into the DUST of the earth, and because of the curse, has it also affected his mind, and broken his authority, masculinity, and leadership. Speaking about the world, not believers. Any insight, why
men have or become as puppets in the hands of worldly women. It looks like men have become as an animal under the command of it's master, the women. What do you think?

Dear me, I don't know where you've been love, but it ain't been in the REAL world!

What one sided tripe you've come up with!

In just about EVERY country in the world TODAY, it is generally always women who get abused by men (in one way or another), NOT the other way around!
 
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Because men are whipped and wrapped around their little fingers! HAHAHAH! :)
 
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jkalyna

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Heard that before. I wouldn't want to control a man, that's like withcraft. :) :) :) :) :)
And that is really funny, but don't get whipped, christians are not to be in bondage, maybe it's because it says in the bible, we have power because of long hair. LLLOOLLLLLLL so if a guy grows his hair long then he has power??????
 
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Kerry

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Well I know if I mess up. I get spinach for supper and a cold bedroom. But, if Do whats right and not by her standard but by God's. I get country fried steak and homemade mashed taters and a fudge brownie and a hot bedroom.

Wives submit to your husbands, Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church.
 
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jkalyna

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Well I know if I mess up. I get spinach for supper and a cold bedroom. But, if Do whats right and not by her standard but by God's. I get country fried steak and homemade mashed taters and a fudge brownie and a hot bedroom.

Wives submit to your husbands, Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church.
You got a wonderful wife. A wife is a blessing from the Lord. May the Lord Jesus Be with you always.
 
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jkalyna

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It has been interesting and will be waiting for more reasons. Wrote this to make a point, that a women without Christ, could be just as evil as Jezebel. Those who do not know who she was, she was queen Jezebel who upon her orders killed many prophets, and Elijah was the only one left, hiding in fear. God told him not to be afraid, and go back, and this is what happened to her. Elijah you know was a prophet, and taken alive with in an chariot of Fire.
He told Jezebel who was full of hatred towards the prophets and the people of God, she used profanities against God. Elijah said, that the dogs will eat her, and only her skull will remain.
Then he said, throw her out the window, and as he said it was done, only the skull of her remained. There was no honor, no respect unto an Almighty God, and it was returned unto her back, what she sowed, she reaped. You would think a Queen would be buried in all HOnors, and somewhere that only a queen would be, but to mock a holy God, in his vengence it was given to her what she dished out to others. Today as I mentioned in the original thread and here that women can be evil, and lead even the kind hearted people into doing something that would end them in prisons for life, by trying to get even by using a man to do so. So the answer to this is just the same as Samson and Delilah, where God told him not to mix with strange women, the lure of a women's femininity caused and could cause a lot of destruction, just as Bathsheba taking a bath, on her porch, as DAvid watched. He killed Uriah her husband. It all is wrapped up in temptations, we have a right to be beautiful, and God has designed us so, but temptations to do something evil, is just a lure from satan, and many have fallen into this trap. Thanks for sharing. I do like to impart a sense of humor though, it's just me. :)
 

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I ddn't find the verse about the smart women, please which one is it. TY

3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb. 1 Sam 25:3
 
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jkalyna

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3 Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb. 1 Sam 25:3
TY 4 helping me find it. I will say this, A women that feareth the Lord, is truly beautiful, for within Jesus is altogether lovely, and pricelessly beautiful. Though this was about the worldly women, Proverbs 31 says, The Law of Kindness is in everything she does

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Lol. Did the Holy Spirit really say that? Have you been told ALL?
 
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jkalyna

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Proverbs 31

These are the wise sayings of King Lemuel of Massa,taught to him at his mother’s knee
2 O my son, whom I have dedicated to the Lord, 3 do not spend your time with women—the royal pathway to destruction.
4 And it is not for kings, O Lemuel, to drink wine and whiskey. 5 For if they drink, they may forget their duties and be unable to give justice to those who are oppressed.
6-7 Hard liquor is for sick men at the brink of death, and wine for those in deep depression. Let them drink to forget their poverty and misery.  8 You should defend those who cannot help themselves. 9 Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless, and see that they get justice.
10 If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems! 11 Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs. 12 She will not hinder him but help him all her life. 13 She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. 14 She buys imported foods brought by ship from distant ports. 15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plans the day’s work for her servant girls.
16 She goes out to inspect a field and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard. 17 She is energetic, a hard worker, 18 and watches for bargains. She works far into the night! 19-20 She sews for the poor and generously helps those in need. 21 She has no fear of winter for her household, for she has made warm clothes for all of them.
22 She also upholsters with finest tapestry; her own clothing is beautifully made—a purple gown of pure linen. 23 Her husband is well known, for he sits in the council chamber with the other civic leaders. 24 She makes belted linen garments to sell to the merchants 25 She is a woman of strength and dignity and has no fear of old age.
26 When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says. 27 She watches carefully all that goes on throughout her household and is never lazy. 28 Her children stand and bless her; so does her husband. He praises her with these words: 29
“There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all!”  30 Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesn’t last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall be greatly praised. 31 Praise her for the many fine things she does.
These good deeds of hers shall bring her honor and recognition from people of importance.
 

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jkalyna

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Lol. Did the Holy Spirit really say that? Have you been told ALL?
no it's my thread you could make a thread of your own what ever you choose to.
 
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It's not hard to figure out why a man would listen to a woman. Women have what men want. Affection, company, sex, companionship, etc. which just doesn't come from another man. No way no how. I can't think as far as killing or stealing if a woman told me to do so though. Although the beginning of mankind there was no reprocussions for killing another person I'm sure. Back then there was nothing wrong with killing another person either, meaning before the commandments. Then I'm sure it was viewed as wrong. Also who ever could deliver the hardest blow could walk away with another man's possessions with no legal reprocussions.
 
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jkalyna

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It's not hard to figure out why a man would listen to a woman. Women have what men want. Affection, company, sex, companionship, etc. which just doesn't come from another man. No way no how. I can't think as far as killing or stealing if a woman told me to do so though. Although the beginning of mankind there was no reprocussions for killing another person I'm sure. Back then there was nothing wrong with killing another person either, meaning before the commandments. Then I'm sure it was viewed as wrong. Also who ever could deliver the hardest blow could walk away with another man's possessions with no legal reprocussions.
YOUr the winner! You said the right thing, lol. 5 STars for you, well I didn't know, from my point of view, I'm not a man, but your really right. WINNER ***** :) :) lol
and your funny too. lol