I think that many ministers spend more time preaching Gods wrath than Gods love. Yes, God will condemn the sinners, but while we are all still living and breathing we still have a chance at eternal life.
Now, my question. God condemns homosexuals. Ok, I agree he does BUT it seems to me that you are making God "look bad" due to your own lifestyle.
I left the church years ago because I was 20 years old, pregnant and no married. I saw how some "Christians" looked at me and talked about me. Instead of encouraging me and praying for me they gossiped. They called me names. I was terribly hurt by them. Didn't set foot in a church for over 5 years. Then, one day I met a minister who happened to be my sons soccer coach at that time. He invited me to his congregation. He told me he was sorry how I felt and how badly I was treated, and that I should pray for those people.
I placed membership at that congregation and have stayed there. I am happy there. He knew my situation, but also told me that he wants to spend time with me in Heaven and wents me there so I should stop being bitter toward others, because in the end me leaving the church was MY decision not theirs.
That simple conversation taught me alot. People are gonna talk, gossip, throw stones and so on...but all I can do is try my best to live a Christian life. I worry less about what others think of me and spend more time trying to work on myself. Not to please others, but to please God. I also repented for my sin. God forgave that I had sex before I was married. That sin was forgotten. So, now I am blessed with a beautiful boy who I am trying to raise in a Godly way. Although sometimes that is a struggle(my kid would argue with a brick wall) I know that God is with me to help me and to guide me.
Ok, enough of my story. What I am trying to say is instead of rejecting God why not take the time to really read the bible and what it really says? No matter your sexual orientation God does love you, but it is your choice on how you want to live.
Also, my OPINION as to why one of the reasons God looks down on homosexuality is with that lifestyle comes fornication, sometimes adulterly, and of course lust. It's like several sins rolled in to one(again my opinion).
Keep in mind I have also commited fornication and lust. Those are two things I struggle with big time so please do not think I am looking down on you or condemning you. I don't want to do that. That is not my intention.
Now, my question. God condemns homosexuals. Ok, I agree he does BUT it seems to me that you are making God "look bad" due to your own lifestyle.
I left the church years ago because I was 20 years old, pregnant and no married. I saw how some "Christians" looked at me and talked about me. Instead of encouraging me and praying for me they gossiped. They called me names. I was terribly hurt by them. Didn't set foot in a church for over 5 years. Then, one day I met a minister who happened to be my sons soccer coach at that time. He invited me to his congregation. He told me he was sorry how I felt and how badly I was treated, and that I should pray for those people.
I placed membership at that congregation and have stayed there. I am happy there. He knew my situation, but also told me that he wants to spend time with me in Heaven and wents me there so I should stop being bitter toward others, because in the end me leaving the church was MY decision not theirs.
That simple conversation taught me alot. People are gonna talk, gossip, throw stones and so on...but all I can do is try my best to live a Christian life. I worry less about what others think of me and spend more time trying to work on myself. Not to please others, but to please God. I also repented for my sin. God forgave that I had sex before I was married. That sin was forgotten. So, now I am blessed with a beautiful boy who I am trying to raise in a Godly way. Although sometimes that is a struggle(my kid would argue with a brick wall) I know that God is with me to help me and to guide me.
Ok, enough of my story. What I am trying to say is instead of rejecting God why not take the time to really read the bible and what it really says? No matter your sexual orientation God does love you, but it is your choice on how you want to live.
Also, my OPINION as to why one of the reasons God looks down on homosexuality is with that lifestyle comes fornication, sometimes adulterly, and of course lust. It's like several sins rolled in to one(again my opinion).
Keep in mind I have also commited fornication and lust. Those are two things I struggle with big time so please do not think I am looking down on you or condemning you. I don't want to do that. That is not my intention.