@Corban my post wasn't meant against you.
My point was against a certain type of men that usually starts these threads, and how the threads themselves progress, as people get bolder and bolder.
What I pointed out as problem, is the disorderly desire of some to lord over women that they aren't married to. I believe it's out of place, and that's what the thread often boils down to: some want to not just discuss, but rather affect female believers here. I suppose, that's just my opinion... Of course. But there is not one Scripture that tells men to assert authority over women they aren't married to. Unless they are her pastor/elder in church (in which case he has a certain place to say certain things), or her dad (if she lives under her dad's roof still).
I believe it's a lot better for men to build their character, and their qualities and ability to lead will be naturally recognized by THEIR OWN wife without them needing to threaten with Scriptures to achieve it, they just need to keep being their wise selves and follow Jesus - the rest happens on its own. As a married woman, I can attest to this.
From that perspective, I find it odd that some strange men from online forums or YouTube or other places come and try to assert themselves, wanting to command women here, yet he isn't our husband, or our pastor. I disagree when a man teaches what dynamics should be going on in our marriages, when they are not married. It was said in the Bible for a reason that a bishop, who does have some say over the congregation, needs to be married. Yet one will not see a bishop insert himself between husband and wife in this way, one rather might hear sermons with Biblical recommendation on mutual love and submission, and giving example with his own marriage.
These people are acting out of place and out of order, and in fact trampling the husbands in an unruly way. Not everyone who says something on the matter does it. But often, that's what it comes down to. I hope I explained myself better.
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