Well my husband is covered in Tattoos, an X-MMA fighter, biker and he is a Pastor/ Mentor to gangs, bikers and people that have struggled in the prison system. To those type people my hubby is approachable. They have a camaraderie similar to the military, believe it or not. I guess if you didn't know my hubby you would think he was a very mean looking person. Like a bad guy. He is actually a Pastor and drug counselor. He is an amazing speaker. Its so funny because when we go somewhere in a huge crowd I always make him walk in front of me because people part like God Parted the sea lol. He is also a man of few words to people that he dont know, (Guess you could say he is cautious) Funny how your everyday people he is cautious with. HAHA unless they are bikers or come from the streets. In that case he is very approachable. See God's vision was for my hubby has always been to help these people that didn't want to be approached by your typical book driven doctor or therapist. For some reason there is an unspoken trust between bikers, gangs and fighters. So when it comes to my friends or people I know, since I am the nerdy one, they are all either intimidated or afraid of him. I dont even notice most of the time. Usually about 5 months into my new friendship, my new friend finally builds up enough confidence to ask me this question- Why doesn't your husband like me??? I am like, uh, huh?? So I have to go get my hubby and ask him, Hey honey, so and so friend doesn't think you like them. He says, well its because I don't. Then we all start laughing. This happens to me a lot. Sometimes people that I become friends with, as time passes, I will say to them- isn't it pretty sad people judge a book by its cover, (because of my husbands tattoos and looks). The friend totally agrees. Its so funny cause almost all of my husbands tattoos are about his battle with God and demons. The closer you get to God the more you have to fight. He is Gods warrior. He is such an amazing person. I love him so much. SO the compliments I receive are not always genuine until they get to know him.
and and he is blessed to have a wonderful wife too...who loves him dearly