20 Things to make your husbad feel special

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christiancollegegirl

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imoss said:
I can already tell you have er beat! knowing you are hard to live with is 1/2 the battle LOL!!! I have an "i'm sorry in advance" t shirt I wear 3 days of the month...
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Can I borrow that shirt?
 
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jose1980

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wow, nice stuff??

and what do you do if he never tells you 'he loves you unless you say it first?', and never realises he never says it? - and if you ask the same question (do you love me?) he gets offended? - is it an ego men have?

what if you feel you have done your best and all you get back is heartache and moaning every night, and would leave the house at night to sleep at a hotel if he realises you are crying?

what if you make a mistake today (something you thought was right and didnt do on purpose or with bad intentions) and never gets another chance to prove otherwise, or gets it with a lot of heartache and suffering?

What if he never sits down to listen to you and try to understand you?

what if he proves you wrong on every point and always affirms he is the right one?

what if you cant share with him the very little stupid things that disturb you(regarding your relationship) even after carefuly chosing the right atmosphere???

-these are things happening yet in a relationship, not marriage-

on the other hand, when all these things are happening, he's always ready to help with any problem as long as it doesnt touch the 'interpersonal relationship' -ie regarding work, church, etc

help!!
 
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jose1980

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adding to above. Yet even after all the pain, you still feel you have the desire to make him the happiest man in the world!!!!

Oh God, how do you describe all this???...

..And at the time when you first met, You both felt the very strong presence of God in your relationship, you had a lot of peace and you knew you had just met your husband!
 
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jose1980

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adding again to above:

He is always the one offended, when you are offended, you are not supposed to be offended!!!

How can all this be described??
 
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iraasuup

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I can 100% relate to you Jose.

But I can't answer it either, I too, am clueless. It makes no sense to me.

I guess we will never understand them!
 
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jose1980

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thanks anyway Irasuup!
 
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oopsies

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imoss said:
I think its interesting in this day and age the high rate of divorce. Everyone is so focused on themselves, their pride and what "they" can GET instead of what they can give in the relationship.
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imoss, I was waiting for someone to answer with that. Thank goodness it came from someone else! ^.^ But you're right, there's no "I," "Me," or "Self" in "love." If I were married, I would do things for my wife that she would like without asking for or expecting reciprocation.
 
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Tisha

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I loved the list I actually do at least half the things on there. I think its a lil selfish to automatically think why should I do anything for him when he won't do the same for me. I do lots of things for my husband to make his day easier like pack his lunch sometimes or get his clothes together he is going to wear to work so he can sleep a little later or match his socks up for him cause he won't do it cause he dosen't like to. I honestly love doing things for him like that he makes me happy when hes happy. But he does things for me if I don't feel like it or if he wants to make something easier for me its a give and take relationship.
 
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Vuyi

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Your experience really shows and these are the small things that most women dont realise are very essential, im not yet married but one thing i can say is that man love to be appreciated and what you sow is what you reap, so if woman would do whats on your list that will drive any man to appreciate his wife anywhere anytime even in the midst of 20 beautiful models and the husband would do anything to make his wife happy and i mean anything.
 
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heaven72883

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Good ones lady Karen I will have to remember those! I think the main thing is always stand beside them no matter what.. even when you know they are WRONG that is the hardest thing to do but I think it will cause less strife in any relatinship
 
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