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Sirk

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atwhatcost said:
Aphasia. Might want to look up the word, since clearly you have no understanding of tat either.

You're bad attitude? When do you have a good one? (I actually know that answer, but you won't hear it.)

My bad attitude? Some days I have it. Some I don't.
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This is why I appreciate you. You're direct. I think direct is good.

I regards to the OP....we teach people how to treat us. How did you teach your husband to treat you before you were married? How do you teach people treat you in general? I've found that insecurities give people license to walk on you. Say what you mean and mean what you say! In my view, one of the biggest problems in marriage are due to the fact that most people suck at taking care of themselves....spiritually, emotional and physically. We try to find our significance in a person instead of Jesus.
 
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ember

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In my view, one of the biggest problems in marriage are due to the fact that most people suck at taking care of themselves....spiritually, emotional and physically. We try to find our significance in a person instead of Jesus.
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That is really so for many if not most

We can never find our significance in another person...they will disappoint us over and over as we will to them

however, if both introduce Jesus into the marriage, then it totally will turn the tide

we are all fallen and only the love of God elevates us...to know Him and He is all about relationships and restoration but He is also about freedom in Him and does not want us held captive

anyway....
 
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MollyConnor

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#23
If you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior and he has not, then it's okay to divorce this man. Unfortunately it seems that he is too involved with the world to see the ultimate truth. I suggest you let him go and move on with your life. You are not deciding to give up on your marriage, he did when he chose to cheat on you and watch porn.

And I suggest you leave him as soon as possible because if you have a child with this man, it will just complicate everything!
 
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