Can't accept my girlfriend's past

  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
stillness

stillness

Senior Member
#181
Jan 28, 2013
1,257
211
63
69
Walk trough the valley
#181
Just reenfocing that controlers are insecure, and your the one in trouble, She is already forgiven. You not being able to forgive her is holding yourself back from being forgiven. "Forgive us as we forgive." In your prssent condition your in trouble
PennEd said:
You CANNOT control the thoughts, words, and actions of other people. It sounds like we should be praying for you, not her.

Drop it. Show her the love of Christ in you. Your act will grow tiresome sooner or later for her. So if you love her move on. If you can't then break up with her NOW. It's not fair for her to be clubbed over the head constantly for her past.
Click to expand...
 
A

Adstar

Senior Member
#182
Jul 24, 2016
7,638
3,656
113
#182
Paulie said:
I would beg for forgiveness if that was the case. She never said sorry and never said she even regrets this happening. Oh, and she is not a Christian.
I fear she's fond of her past.
Click to expand...
What are you doing being yoked with an unbeliever.. An unbeliever who is not repentant for her past sins ? Yes you have feelings for her but the current emotional situation you are in is not going to change while you are with her... Irreconcilable differences at the start of a relationship just dooms a relationship sooner or later..
 
You must log in or register to reply here.