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My friend called me yesterday and she soundeddevastated. She found out that a guy shehas been seeing is gay. A friend of herstold her so. They are not officiallyboyfriend/girlfriend but they talk regularly on the phone and she sees him atwork. They have not been on a real date becausehe did not asked her on one as yet.
Actually they are both professionals with good payingjobs. He was once married. She is independent and owns her own home. She is hurting because they flirted heavilyand she was hoping “he was the one.” Shewas confident he was interested in her. She has a 4 year old boy from a previousrelationship and the guy spent time playing with the boy.
I think there may have been telltale signs she ignored. He is from a religious background but yet heis a strong supporter of gay rights. Onhis face book page he spoke out repeatedly on gay rights and was very critical ofpeople who were against gay rights. Heposted pictures of gay men kissing and holding hands and talked about their “beautifullove.”
He never admitted or denied that he was gay when she askedhim. He just stopped returning her phonecalls. On his face-book profile he also lefthis sexual orientation/interest blank. Ihave shared comforting scriptures with her and encouraged her to come to thisforum.
Personally I don’t know if he is gay or straight. But if he is gay I think she dodged abullet. What do you think? What else can I do or say to comforther?
Actually they are both professionals with good payingjobs. He was once married. She is independent and owns her own home. She is hurting because they flirted heavilyand she was hoping “he was the one.” Shewas confident he was interested in her. She has a 4 year old boy from a previousrelationship and the guy spent time playing with the boy.
I think there may have been telltale signs she ignored. He is from a religious background but yet heis a strong supporter of gay rights. Onhis face book page he spoke out repeatedly on gay rights and was very critical ofpeople who were against gay rights. Heposted pictures of gay men kissing and holding hands and talked about their “beautifullove.”
He never admitted or denied that he was gay when she askedhim. He just stopped returning her phonecalls. On his face-book profile he also lefthis sexual orientation/interest blank. Ihave shared comforting scriptures with her and encouraged her to come to thisforum.
Personally I don’t know if he is gay or straight. But if he is gay I think she dodged abullet. What do you think? What else can I do or say to comforther?
