Ever OK to hit spouse?

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greatkraw

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Maddog said:
Well, I certainly wouldn't advocate hitting if she didn't deserve it. However, you've misrepresented what I've actually said. Again.

It's not necessarily a question purely about whether she deserves it or not. It's about what's best for her and the rest of the family, and that can only be left to personal judgment on a case by case basis.
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Maddog, is it ok to hit your wife if she is half a meter taller than you???
 
MahogonySnail

MahogonySnail

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What sort of hitting are you talking about maddog, a girly slap, wooden spoon, proper punch, knee to the stomach, judo throw?
 
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Maddog

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MahogonySnail said:
What sort of hitting are you talking about maddog, a girly slap, wooden spoon, proper punch, knee to the stomach, judo throw?
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Something that causes no lasting injury (eg. the open handed strike as James Bond does with his women). Before now, I've suggested it should be the physical equivalent of shouting at them, especially when it is deemed that that physical contact will do more good than getting into a shouting match.
 
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Mordred

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flozzzy said:
my parents used to hit eachother and get into seriouly crazy shouting matches, and it really destroys the children. i mean, seeing your mum and dad turning into animals at the age of 5 really affects you. i think if people can just TRY speak calmly and think alot b4 they say things it would help alot.
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Thank God for British.
 
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Mordred

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MahogonySnail said:
What sort of hitting are you talking about maddog, a girly slap, wooden spoon, proper punch, knee to the stomach, judo throw?
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you forgot punch to the ovaries, because you know....
 
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wwjd_kilden

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can't he just find a fulltime Sub? (someone who is willing to submit to anything, all the time)
 
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Maddog

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wwjd_kilden said:
can't he just find a fulltime Sub? (someone who is willing to submit to anything, all the time)
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What do you mean? There are some things that one must not do - that one is morally bound to resist - even if it is requested by an authority.
 
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dannychedid

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NEVER NEVER NEVER x 100000
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Maddog said:
What do you mean? There are some things that one must not do - that one is morally bound to resist - even if it is requested by an authority.
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but if a man is allowed to beat his wife, it is HE who decides when/ why to beat her.... so maybe he will beat her for doing something she was right to do according to God...
 
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Mordred

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I beat cowards who hit women.
 
MahogonySnail

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Something that causes no lasting injury (eg. the open handed strike as James Bond does with his women). Before now, I've suggested it should be the physical equivalent of shouting at them, especially when it is deemed that that physical contact will do more good than getting into a shouting
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So you get your ideas from a fornicating fictional British assassin?
 
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Maddog

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MahogonySnail said:
So you get your ideas from a fornicating fictional British assassin?
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No, that was simply a convenient example of the kind of hitting I'm talking about (ie. one not intended to cause any injury or lasting pain).

I explained my reasoning for my views earlier in the thread.
 
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imoss

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Maddog said:
Well, I certainly wouldn't advocate hitting if she didn't deserve it. However, you've misrepresented what I've actually said. Again.

It's not necessarily a question purely about whether she deserves it or not. It's about what's best for her and the rest of the family, and that can only be left to personal judgment on a case by case basis.
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Ok, so you dont hit her when she deserves it & you dont hit her when she doesnt deserve it. so i guess we are agreed then that you dont hit her. So thankful that you've finally come around!! Perhaps you will be blessed with a long lasting marriage after all! Goes to show you there is hope for these forums that sometimes others input does change minds... Praise the Lord for softening your heart!
 
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Maddog

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wwjd_kilden said:
but if a man is allowed to beat his wife, it is HE who decides when/ why to beat her.... so maybe he will beat her for doing something she was right to do according to God...
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Maybe he will. What's your point?
 
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Maddog

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imoss said:
Ok, so you dont hit her when she deserves it & you dont hit her when she doesnt deserve it. so i guess we are agreed then that you dont hit her. So thankful that you've finally come around!! Perhaps you will be blessed with a long lasting marriage after all! Goes to show you there is hope for these forums that sometimes others input does change minds... Praise the Lord for softening your heart!
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Are you deliberately misreading/misinterpreting what I'm saying, or do you genuinely not understand what I'm getting at?
 
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Maddog

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MahogonySnail said:
Is she allowed to hit you back?
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In the name of discipline? Generally, no as I don't think that's her role, though I'm hesitant to rule it out completely because there's always some kind of extenuating circumstances that may justify it.
 
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FixYourWeave

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I like to hit pinata's
 
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