help with not being happy and do not know what to do

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jenniferand2

jenniferand2

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new wine thank you for the words of wisdom you are right i do need to do what i feel is the best thing to do I understand that advice is all i can get to help me maybe better understand no my husband wants nothing to do with god I have tried several times to talk to him about GOD and he just shuts me down and refuses to discuss it anymore. He will not even let me talk about GOD with out getting attitude from him.
 
Dan_473

Dan_473

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ok, I get your situation now...

different people have different reasons to either stay and try different approaches... or go.

but... I can say what I'd do if

my spouse had cheated on me

and

I found I was usually misarable around them,

I would start packing.

may the lord be with you!
 
C

chancer

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jenniferand2 said:
I have been with my husband for a total of 20 years on and off I have been with him sense 2003 with out any breaks in our relationship. He used to make me happy i thought for a while now he has been very mean all the time and complains about everything and I feel like no matter what i do I can not please him and What i do is never right. He is also getting more and more obnoxious about people and how he hates certain people and He gets to a point where I do not want to go out in public with him.. I am not looking for judgment I am looking for advice I am 43 years old and have invested most of my adult life to him and he has beat me down to almost nothing not in a physically but emotionally. My question is do I leave him like I want to or do I just deal with the crap and hang in there. I have a friend who had the same situation and her husband never got better and he passed away. I do not want to waste the rest of my life with some one so miserable and hateful but I am afraid I am so broken that no one will ever want me again. please help me
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Hi, I'm sorry to hear about this. Seems a very difficult situation, I won't advise you, but I will pray for you. Dear Lord thank you for my sisters honesty, and in her vulnerability I pray you would meet her. Her heart is hurting Lord and she needs your touch. I pray your Spirit would move in her husbands and address his heart issues. Lord we know that people become because of internal and past issues. We ask that you would move in these areas and grant my sister peace, and tender loving care in abundance. Lord do something profound in both there lives, and plz do it now.

In Hesus name amen.
 
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chancer

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Jesus* ............
 
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