How can a mother hate her own child so much??

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EarnestQ

EarnestQ

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EarnestQ said:
Look up "Borderline Personality Disorder" and see if it sounds like your mother. If not that, there may be other disorders that better describe her.

There is clearly something wrong with her. It will probably help if you get a better understanding of it.

It may not change things but it might answer the how of your question, and keep you from feeling so guilty.
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Also, if this is new behavior on the part of your mother, there may be something wrong in her brain. The personality of someone I know changed significantly. It turns out that she had a brain tumor. Since surgery, she has been returning to normal.

If she has always been this way, look up Borderline Personality Disorder and similar problems.
 
jenniferand2

jenniferand2

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Fenner said:
I know you've got a lot going on Jennifer. I don't want you to get mad at me for asking this but did you have an addiction at one time? I'm just wondering if your Mom is really fearful about you with the kid's for some reason .

I'm not asking that to be rude. Whatever is going on I pray your Mom can open her heart or change her ways and stop being cruel.
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no never had an addiction thank God.. never any problems really my bf at the time now husband can be an not so nice guy at times but that was all...nothing worse then I saw growing up with my dad thats for sure...
 
Fenner

Fenner

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jenniferand2 said:
no never had an addiction thank God.. never any problems really my bf at the time now husband can be an not so nice guy at times but that was all...nothing worse then I saw growing up with my dad thats for sure...
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Im sorry for what you're going through. It really stinks.
 
Fenner

Fenner

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jenniferand2 said:
no never had an addiction thank God.. never any problems really my bf at the time now husband can be an not so nice guy at times but that was all...nothing worse then I saw growing up with my dad thats for sure...
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Im sorry for what you're going through. It really stinks.
 
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bestbefore1973

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jenniferand2 said:
My mother does everything she can do keep my daughter away from me.. she lies, she makes me look crazy.. my mother never calls me ever unless she wants to know where the child support is..not my birthday not Christmas nothing.. she always talks bad about me to everyone. Like I am a huge mistake low life. If I was on fire she would probably pick pocket me and walk away..how can a mother hate their own daughter so much. I don't get it.. it hurts me so much.
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Who knows the hearts of people, the more you try to work out the why's the more questions you're left with.
 
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