Actually, yes. It's a good question. I'm glad you quoted my original post because I'd forgotten the context in which I framed the multitude of issues. He goes after me about everything but now he's got a new thing to chew on. As a matter of fact he just got done yelling at me for having a different opinion than his. I'm in counseling. According to her, he's toxic and he's a narcissist. I'm a bit nuts; I am like the emotional equivalent of a person one might find in a burn unit. Still, I'm learning boundaries but would like examples of how a good Christian would behave.