Thank you for your kindness. I have pushed so hard to make my marriage work. I love my husband and he knows I do. I have prayed every day to improve what we have and my husband has fought growth the entire time. I just want to move forward and have growth in a positive way. He is a good person but with me he seems to be defiant and refuses to give anything. He is honest and admits it as well. I feel very frustrated. I know reading my post may sound like I am being insensitive but I have left so much out. I don't want to insult my husband and I don't want to make him sound like an evil person but basically, he has said he would rather divorce than work on things.
I don't think he is being honest actually, because you don't go from 'I want to be intimate' to 'I want a divorce'
I think you might already know this, which is why you asked him questions instead of going along with him after the movie...you are looking for truth and do not find honesty in his actions
I don't 'hear' you tearing your husband down...your husband is being evasive and doesn't want you 'digging'
I am sorry you are going through this. I would pray and just ask God to bring to light whatever is going on so you know the truth and can make decisions based on facts