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1. The label wasn't unwarranted. It was necessary to understanding the true motive of the post.
2. The label wasn't presumptive. It was based on the very clear evidence she provided within all of her first post.
3. I was never nasty to the poster in anything I said.
However, lots of posters (including yourself) were rather nasty to me.
The irony of this is quite amusing.
2. The label wasn't presumptive. It was based on the very clear evidence she provided within all of her first post.
3. I was never nasty to the poster in anything I said.
However, lots of posters (including yourself) were rather nasty to me.
The irony of this is quite amusing.
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I didn't read the entire thread... but judging the OP at face value ... if she really means what she says... not faking her devotion to her husband. There is a biblical way, in the right context, that this kind of behavior is correct. Think objectively and let me know what you think of the following verses.
Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
1 Peter 3:6
like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
^^^ Don't ignore God's word. If she is being honest and putting God above her husband... then she is acting like a Godly woman. Her behavior inspires and convicts me because I know my future wife will depend on me like this.
I didn't read the entire thread... but judging the OP at face value ... if she really means what she says... not faking her devotion to her husband. There is a biblical way, in the right context, that this kind of behavior is correct. Think objectively and let me know what you think of the following verses.
Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
1 Peter 3:6
like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
^^^ Don't ignore God's word. If she is being honest and putting God above her husband... then she is acting like a Godly woman. Her behavior inspires and convicts me because I know my future wife will depend on me like this.
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Then you are going against the bible. You are raising a man to the status of perfect and holy God... or perhaps you are lowering God to the status of a sinful man. Either way the degree of submission is not biblical.
And since this seems to border on or even cross the line of sexual fetish of dominant/submissive that takes it even further into wrongness. Even in your signature it would suggest this.
So whether i look at it biblically, where you are elevating sinful man to the status of perfect God, or the fetish aspect, which would indicate a troll, i still see nothing right.
And married to God? We are His adopted children, grafted into his family. So you view yourself as having married your adoptive father?
And since this seems to border on or even cross the line of sexual fetish of dominant/submissive that takes it even further into wrongness. Even in your signature it would suggest this.
So whether i look at it biblically, where you are elevating sinful man to the status of perfect God, or the fetish aspect, which would indicate a troll, i still see nothing right.
And married to God? We are His adopted children, grafted into his family. So you view yourself as having married your adoptive father?
Mary you are funny 
I'm just exhaustified with all the ax-grinding males.
Despite the fact that our culture is suffering from a significant lack of fathering....
Despite the fact that like 50% of babies are now born out-of-wedlock...
Despite the fact that more women attend churches than men...
Despite the fact that there are lots and lots of honorable, God-fearing women in the world...
the men still have to grind their axes on and on about how WOMEN should be behaving.
These men don't hold EACH OTHER accountable for behaving like men, but they sure will go after women who don't seem to fit their particularly self-indulgent interpretation of scripture.
I can give you examples from these boards: When a MAN will post regarding the troubles in his marriage, the vast majority of responses he will receive will be from WOMEN.
When people create posts about the ROLE OF A HUSBAND, there are few/to no real responses from men. However all the men come out to play when the issue is what a wife should be doing.
Oh...and these same men can't be bothered to actually read with any level of discernment, nor apologize when they are clearly wrong. (For example, YOU never actually apologized to me for the things you implied in your posts to me).
It's just disheartening.
Why are women held to such a standard by the men in here, but these men can't bear to examine themselves using the same standard?
(Sirk, Tintin, and the other balanced men in here, forgive me for the rant).
I'm not being hypocritical. I was expressing my feelings. I made no claims that women are somehow superior or more virtuous.
I'm sorry you cannot recognize and empathize with frustration when you see it.
I'm sorry you can't bother to be kind when someone is clearly hurt.
Hopefully, people will be kind to kind to you when you are frustrated and hurt.
I'm sorry you cannot recognize and empathize with frustration when you see it.
I'm sorry you can't bother to be kind when someone is clearly hurt.
Hopefully, people will be kind to kind to you when you are frustrated and hurt.
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man you're sixteen....Mary is pretty much right on
and my all time favorite...which I haven't actually seen on this particular forum is that it is the woman's fault if she is raped or if a man cannot help but lust after her or if a man has wandering eyes...it's the woman's fault...always
from what I know, a woman can dress in a burlap bag that reaches the floor and put another one over her head and still be blamed by men for tempting them
I'm not kidding
and my all time favorite...which I haven't actually seen on this particular forum is that it is the woman's fault if she is raped or if a man cannot help but lust after her or if a man has wandering eyes...it's the woman's fault...always
from what I know, a woman can dress in a burlap bag that reaches the floor and put another one over her head and still be blamed by men for tempting them
I'm not kidding
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I have had both done to me it took my father to help me out of this it is an argument over a woman that is no longer here and is just causing us to sin by being frustrated with each other and continuing in what seems to be an endless debate can we not be grown up enough to stay this is going no where I guaranty you that most the people here will not give up what they think is biblical or right so I encourage all of you plz let it go and let this thread die.
