Is their any men that don't cheat?

[Toska]

Don't come to visit Venezuela. We have witnessed too many things in common but THE PROBLEM IS NOT THE GENDER, but the sin spoiling things.

I agree, it is the sin, not the gender.

I am sorry to all who have been cheated on. I pray that you all will find peace with Christ. And, a loving, committed mate, if that is what you are looking for.

God Bless.

 

[Agricola]

This is one of the pics I usually talked about on my posts on Netlog (and other sites)

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No wonder they kicked me off...

P.S.

Of course, you'll find men cheating on.

That is a very powerful picture. And in reply to your comment re-my post, yes I know its nothing to do with gender, which is point I was trying to make.

 

[antonia]

I think that both sexes can cheat especially when the emotional connection is not nurtured, both can seek it elsewhere. I think men feel rejected when their wives refuse to have intimacy with them and they therefore seek it anywhere where it comes more easily, of course some are just greedy.

 

[secularhermit]

This is what I read: "If you have any problems downloadingorif youare not redirected to the download page immediately after placing your order please contact us and we will send you the e-books via email within 24 hrs."

At least I got these lines...



Infidelity, Cheating Wives - Women's Infidelity

 

[secularhermit]

I agree, it is the sin, not the gender.

I am sorry to all who have been cheated on. I pray that you all will find peace with Christ. And, a loving, committed mate, if that is what you are looking for.

God Bless.

Hey!

I was a cheater. It took me time (and pains) to know cheating hurts (even it be emotionally).

 

[ServantStrike]

This was a new area in Jewish thought, with strong influences from the Assyrians and the Romans. With a government that did not allow them to pillage neighboring cities, there were less women to go around.

What's with you and pillaging? Do you just like saying the word or something?

That's twice in one thread.

 

[secularhermit]

@ Antonia

That's true!

Rejection is involved.

Physical and emotional dissatisfacctions are involved (sometimes money and the personal "achievement" that can be bought by using people's money)

Greed and selfishness ARE on this

 

[Toska]

Hey!

I was a cheater. It took me time (and pains) to know cheating hurts (even it be emotionally).

I think they key word here is "was". I am sorry you experienced such a bad time in your life. I am glad that you are where you are now, though. Jesus loves you.

 

[Toska]

What's with you and pillaging? Do you just like saying the word or something?

That's twice in one thread.

Word of the day app?

 

[secularhermit]

Infidelity, Cheating Wives - Women's Infidelity about the author. Men and woman are not being diligent in keeping their hearts in tune with God. The author of her new book reveals the very things that happen to unwary girls and woman. And I must say, she puts no blame on men. Men are guilty as well for being mr. Nice guy. Apparently, " nice " means ignorant. Once you justify yourself and vindicate your lust you have started a path leading to many years of sorrow. Let's pray for the opposite sex and not start fighting. Put off the old nature, which is full of lust. Put on Christ. Amen.

I haven't read the book, but it has a secular approach, at least by this: "[FONT=Arial, Helvetica]If you’re a female, like most other females, prior to cheating on your partner you always proclaimed yourself to be "not the type" who would ever cheat. However, also like most other females, after they have cheated, you're shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can't stop cheating.[/FONT]"

That is not the Christian truth I believe (of course, I could try to read her research).

 

[secularhermit]

@ my best friend TOSKA

Ha! Ha!

Iḿ happy I WAS cheated on. The pain healed me from doing it, but I haven't found a way to apologize those persons I hurt because, as pagan I WAS, I considered unimportant to woo on several girls at the same time.

Those days I was in the religion of the "SELF" (I could do whatever thing that pleased me, without acknowledging I WAS that sinner: Worst than I AM till now).

Jesus also loves me by the people HE SHOWS me are loving, worthy of praise (as deserving their husbandmen they have).

The rest is unimportant: I lived enough.

 

[santuzza]

Is their any men out their who don't cheat ?? Or have any desire too? Before my husband I was cheated on.. Friends and family... They all been cheated on.. It's realy sad actually.. and this is a serious question.

Yes, there are men who don't cheat. My husband is one. Faithful for almost 20 years now. He's a godly man who wants to please God first and me second, perhaps that is why he's been so faithful. Men who cheat are simply self-centered. If more men were God-centered, the cheating would stop.

 

[zaoman32]

Is their any men out their who don't cheat ?? Or have any desire too? Before my husband I was cheated on.. Friends and family... They all been cheated on.. It's realy sad actually.. and this is a serious question.

My ex-wife cheated one me, I've had a couple married women at work get flirty with me, and had to tell another she needed to flat out quite talking to me because she was telling me things no married woman should tell anyone but their husband. So I guess my question is...Are there any women who don't cheat?

I read your thread from yesterday, so I know you got burned, I'm sorry, but don't blame all men because of a few idiots.

 

[mystdancer50]

I hate flirting. Blah. There are married women at my work that flirt all the time. There was even a news article that came out about how our department was like a brothel and they quoted some of the flirty things said by the OM and AA to the guys. Yup. I just refrain from flirting altogether. I am not one who would cheat on my spouse, but I am very moody and so I would not be good wife material due to my crazy emotions and attitudes. I can admit this readily. It is something that God has been working on in me for many, many years. I am definitely not who I was, but I still have a long road ahead of me.

I think that I would be insecure in marriage. Not because I don't trust him or believe that he's a cheater, but because of the feeling that I am unlovable because I know the me that exists inside that only God and I see. Yup. Sorry if this was an overshare.

 

[secularhermit]

I hate flirting. Blah. (...) I think that I would be insecure in marriage. Not because I don't trust him or believe that he's a cheater, but because of the feeling that I am unlovable because I know the me that exists inside that only God and I see. Yup. Sorry if this was an overshare.

Have you seen a grumpy, like that of Snow White? He/she could be loveable (if she/he allows to)

Love is a decision we people endanger to live up. (similar to being an oversharer).

 

[Angela53510]

My husband has never cheated on me in 33 years. He was tempted once, by an ex-best friend of mine, who I had done everything for. A Christian friend helped him resist the temptation and he has never looked at another woman. I know, because he spends a lot of time on-line, and it is usually cars/trucks/houses/sailboats he is viewing, and we are not usually apart.

I have never cheated on my husband in 33 years. I love him dearly, even through the years he did not treat me right. I committed my life to Christ, and Christ does not like adultery or divorce, so I tried to always forgive him and love him. And God has changed him radically in the past few years. It is like we are newly weds!

Praying for the hurt the OP is showing in her post. Adultery is a violation of the marriage vows, and of your safety and love.

 

[Seraphic]

Yes there are.

 

[T_Laurich]

Abraham, Jacob, and David all had multiple wives. All are well-respected men.

Polygyny is actually required in some cases. The practice of the levir makes it an obligation for men whose brother has left a widow without heir to marry her.[Deut 25:5–10] No allowance is given for a man who already had a wife.

Solomon had quite a few and wrote some poetry about it.



It's the reason for it, rather than the ethical foundation to support or detract from the idea.

In the times where them men went off to war and died, it was actually quite practical to have every woman married to a man. Notice that sometimes the Israelites would pillage the women and kill the men of nearby cities as well.
This could make for multiple wives for everyone, simply from a mathematical perspective.

In the modern area, if each man has two wives, then half the men don't have any wife, and this is not a good system on a macro level.

On the first part, I have no clue what you are getting at... The people you listed only strengthen what I said... Especially Solomon...

To the second part I think you are just trying to create an argument... I stated a fact... Not a opinion... If you take a biblical stand on the earth what I said is 100% correct... If you take a nonbiblical view we can argue that... But do not say that the reason is a primitive instinct. And then try to cleverly word it so you appear to be arguing on the basis of reason...

 

[wingman]

Yes....it goes both ways. Just have to find the right person.

 

[biscuit]

Is their any men out their who don't cheat ?? Or have any desire too? Before my husband I was cheated on.. Friends and family... They all been cheated on.. It's realy sad actually.. and this is a serious question.

The stats on women cheating on their men isn't much better. Women are just better at it.