No there's not any tension. However,there is an annoyance at the serious lack of maturity spiritually,and the common sense and knowledge to see how wrong this junk is. I wasn't rude to you dear,so you don't need to think that. Nor did I judge,I gave an opinion as well,and facts. God would not want us to do such a truly disgusting,disturbing,wrong,self-indulgent, carnal,and fleshly,things. How do we know that? well it's common sense. A man shouldn't look at a woman in a lustful manner through pictures,videos,etc. because that's porn.married or not. What is porn when you define it? lets see here,porn:any picture, or video that shows someone in the nude/a sexual way, or anything that would cause temptation,lust,thoughts,or more.. Weather they're ''doing'' anything in those pics or just naked,it's porn. Therefore,it's wrong,and a sin.