I think you are reading too much into this mix-up with the first dates. Your husband married YOU and loves you! You have both committed you lives to Christ and to each other. You are letting the devil have a field day with your mind. This incident meant nothing to your husband, he said. Forgive him and move forward, letting God guide you both.
Praying for you for healing and reconciliation.
Praying for you for healing and reconciliation.