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Demi777

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Re: My parents don’t believe in our relationship because of the age difference, need

It hasn't changed my perception of you. I still think you're amazing and smart and all that.. but it does have me a bit worried because guys that age who take an interest in someone your age umm... is sort of a red flag... but I will say no more. Just keep it in mind.
I dont take interests in guya my age so that would make me something aswell?
 

zeroturbulence

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Re: My parents don’t believe in our relationship because of the age difference, need

I dont take interests in guya my age so that would make me something aswell?
No, that's great. It has to do with something else that's age-related, but not age itself... but I said I wouldn't say more so I won't :)
 
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Re: My parents don’t believe in our relationship because of the age difference, need

I dont take interests in guya my age so that would make me something aswell?
I see many red flags, but you have already made it clear you won't listen.

Sometimes people have to learn the hard way. I hope yours is a soft landing.
 

notuptome

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Re: My parents don’t believe in our relationship because of the age difference, need

I see many red flags, but you have already made it clear you won't listen.

Sometimes people have to learn the hard way. I hope yours is a soft landing.
Do you see the obvious contradiction here in this thread? The OP is 38 and is concerned about what his parents think about his relationship with a 26 y/o woman. Then we have a 17 y/o who is immune to what people think about her relationship with an older man.

On one hand we have an adult who acts with trepidation and on the other a child who acts with impunity.

For the cause of Christ
Roger