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"Emotional relationship"
Everyone assume it's a sexual affair, but he says there is no physical contact.
I don't know how far this "affair" has gone.
Nor do I want to know,
If it has progress to the point of sexual fantasies of the other woman than he has committed adultery with her in his heart and should do as you say and cut all ties.
However I want to point out that we have deep spiritual and emotional bonds with our family,
If it's just a deep friendship than there is no need for guilt.
Be honest...take away Satan's weapons.
Either way you and your wife probably should go to marriage counseling because there is something more going on or the other woman would not be able to replace your wife in your affections.
If you feel guilty it should be for the hurt you caused your wife, not guilt about honoring your vows to cherish your wife and forsake others.
I am married too and I would want to meet the woman.
Maybe I am just strange.
He knows his wife. He should be able to pray and see what the right choice should be.
Everyone assume it's a sexual affair, but he says there is no physical contact.
I don't know how far this "affair" has gone.
Nor do I want to know,
If it has progress to the point of sexual fantasies of the other woman than he has committed adultery with her in his heart and should do as you say and cut all ties.
However I want to point out that we have deep spiritual and emotional bonds with our family,
If it's just a deep friendship than there is no need for guilt.
Be honest...take away Satan's weapons.
Either way you and your wife probably should go to marriage counseling because there is something more going on or the other woman would not be able to replace your wife in your affections.
If you feel guilty it should be for the hurt you caused your wife, not guilt about honoring your vows to cherish your wife and forsake others.
I am married too and I would want to meet the woman.
Maybe I am just strange.
He knows his wife. He should be able to pray and see what the right choice should be.
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I talk a mean game. I often tell people I want to hit/slap/punch them, but I don't really mean that. I'm not really violent.
That said, I've been married for 35 years. If my husband ever laid this load of manure on me, he'd be a eunuch!
I have seen some pretty bad rationalization in my life. (I've worked in drug rehab, so I've seen it big time.) This is the biggest pile of manure I've ever seen. (And I've seen the manure pile of a circus, so I know big steamers.) Shame on you. You're old enough to know better than this. You're talking like you're still in high school. And what? We're supposed to talk you off this ledge? You got yourself there. REPENT and then seek God's will. You don't even realize yet how full of it you are, so you really need to get this straight with God, because he's the only one going to teach you how full of it you are.
That said, I've been married for 35 years. If my husband ever laid this load of manure on me, he'd be a eunuch!
I have seen some pretty bad rationalization in my life. (I've worked in drug rehab, so I've seen it big time.) This is the biggest pile of manure I've ever seen. (And I've seen the manure pile of a circus, so I know big steamers.) Shame on you. You're old enough to know better than this. You're talking like you're still in high school. And what? We're supposed to talk you off this ledge? You got yourself there. REPENT and then seek God's will. You don't even realize yet how full of it you are, so you really need to get this straight with God, because he's the only one going to teach you how full of it you are.
If your just corresponding with this woman who's in another state, and its nonphysical, it should be very easy to end it. Just text or email her and tell her your uncomfortable with it. Tell her your happily married. Or tell her your wife found one of her notes to you and insisted you end all communication immediately. If her feelings are hurt, that's tough, she should have known better than to get involved with a married man, and so should have you. She's probably just a lonely person looking for companionship anyway. Next time, give it up before taking it up. I suspect you lead her on just to let her down, and its not nice to play with someones emotions like that. But you both should have known better in the first place.. jmo
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Thank you to all for the feed back and support.
I have sent her an email explaining as to why this needed to end.
I have blocked all her contact to and will stand strong with the grace of God to over come this.
The new me starts now / today / Amen
I'll pray for her well being and recovery from this and will have to deal with any fallout if it comes back to haunt me and I pray it don't.
Any additional posts are welcomed.
May God bless each and everyone of you my sisters and brothers in Christ.
I have sent her an email explaining as to why this needed to end.
I have blocked all her contact to and will stand strong with the grace of God to over come this.
The new me starts now / today / Amen
I'll pray for her well being and recovery from this and will have to deal with any fallout if it comes back to haunt me and I pray it don't.
Any additional posts are welcomed.
May God bless each and everyone of you my sisters and brothers in Christ.