Satan has my wife!
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.In the past few months, since I have left my destiny in the hands of Almighty God, so much has happened.
Today I stand here ready to go to the police station to file a missing person report, yet I am so at peace with the world. God has sent me a countless number of friends and family to keep me strong through this storm, and I am eternally grateful to Him and everyone for this.
I am so grateful to God for giving me the opportunity to grow and stretch my faith in Him.
He has shown me light where in the past I would only have seen darkness and misery.
Today I stand here ready to go to the police station to file a missing person report, yet I am so at peace with the world. God has sent me a countless number of friends and family to keep me strong through this storm, and I am eternally grateful to Him and everyone for this.
I am so grateful to God for giving me the opportunity to grow and stretch my faith in Him.
He has shown me light where in the past I would only have seen darkness and misery.
daszed,
Thank you for coming back and letting everyone know your experience with how Great our God is. When we really know God he does show light in our darkness. Though our paths are not easy it is so up lifting to hear how God works in our brothers and sisters circumstances.
I will keep you and those you love in my prayers. I will pray your wife be found and gets the help she needs. Your a good man and God sees it.
Bless you brother
Thank you for coming back and letting everyone know your experience with how Great our God is. When we really know God he does show light in our darkness. Though our paths are not easy it is so up lifting to hear how God works in our brothers and sisters circumstances.
I will keep you and those you love in my prayers. I will pray your wife be found and gets the help she needs. Your a good man and God sees it.
Bless you brother
O
Am sorry but you make a mistake. You wanted making people happy but you never seek God before marrying her. Abraham please her wife to marry her slaves without asking Gods concept but he later seek God when the repercussion came. You are to do the same thing brother, seek God for His mercy upon your family, especially your wife, that God should intervene to make the necessary correction. Go not for divorce but seek God mercy for the sanitization of your family because He alone is the founder of marriage. God bless you. For more info, write me at [email protected].
L
Quit fighting!!! Pray!!! You continue to go to church and be in fellowship and ask the people of the church to pray. There is power in numbers. Don't give up. Your faith may be being tested. Pray, pray and pray!!! Don't argue with her about the kids going to church. If she will not let them just pray......................
Ok ...I am going to need a favour from all my friends here at CC. Many of you have followed me through this these past few months.
Now just out of the blue a prayer circle is being arranged at 8:00 my time which is in less than five hours from now. There is strength in numbers and if I can get as many of you as possible to pray for her safe return and the retreat of Satan from her, I would be eternally grateful. Please, I need the group of people that God has brought into my life to defeat Satan. I love my wife and i want her back.---sin
Now just out of the blue a prayer circle is being arranged at 8:00 my time which is in less than five hours from now. There is strength in numbers and if I can get as many of you as possible to pray for her safe return and the retreat of Satan from her, I would be eternally grateful. Please, I need the group of people that God has brought into my life to defeat Satan. I love my wife and i want her back.---sin
O
Dear Icerveny, yes, prayer i believe is the only way to get victory in this situation. Can i tell you of my story when i was very much psycologicaly abused by my husband for a number of years and even though i was the better person of our relationship at that stage because i was not involved in all the sins of this world, i ended up with a heart that was like a rock from all the disappointment and bitterness because he failed to be the husband i dreamed God would give me. The moment i hardened my hart, sin followed and my husband for the first time realised that his manipulation and deceit he could always manage me with, failed and i decided to get divorced etc. During this time of seperation he started to ask God for help and the more i wandered off in my own sinfull life which nearly killed my own soul, it was prayer and repentance for two years that miraculously brought me back to a man only God could give to me. A leader in our home, righeoutness like i have never seen before and a rock like no woman could have. Amen, He brought out of the worst things that happened in our lives the best you could ever ask for but it came with a price, full serender to God. I speak from experience, my husband accepted my desicion, was humble, gave me so much love as in a friendship love, did not suffacate me because he has the right as my husband to do this or that, and he prayed and he learnt to be patient and seriously, we have been married 16 years. Excuse my English if i have spelling mistakes, it is not my home language...
Hi
Ok I am new here and I come in giving advice possibly where it is not wanted. I have walked many roads in my life most would and could not ever live my story. The roads I have not walked I have walked along side those that were.
Now have any of you people ever heard of Rehab centers, Social workers etc.
The lady at this stage is not going to be forced into churches look at pictures of Jesus let alone pray. You would be suffocating her.
If she is drinking to excess mixing with the wrong crowd you my friend have big problems.
First you have to talk to somebody at AA if you have access to this group. Try talking to the mental care health unit see if you can get her into rehab. She has to do that herself unless ordered by the courts ( In this country anyway)
If she is refusing this you will have to try to gain custody of your children if you could put them with family would be helpful
this will give you time to deal with your own personal issues and worries.
Stand by her. If she is willing be there for her perhaps moving to a new place when she comes out get her away from temptations.
That is when you can start getting her with the church if she is willing to go. But you will have something to work with
You cannot do that now the time is not ripe for her.
She has had problems as a child, fine but she has to learn to move on she has children of her own.
I am sorry if I sound harsh but what you were as a child is one thing what you become is up to you
There are a lot of people had wrecked childhoods torn from their parents watching brothers and sisters killed during wars
Children who were beaten etc by parents. I could go on and on.
I do not wish to offend and hope this is taken the way it is meant. Church and the bible may help you, give words of comfort etc but that is for you. But it is not going to work miracles she is not going to suddenly rise from her drunken state and be healed.
And it is the last thing she wants to hear right now, she may not want to hear it ever again that is up to her. People can live together with one a none believer you know, as long as both parties feelings are respected.
You should actually give this some thought too. She may not want to share your beliefs that could be what she is hiding from.
Look drinkers drink for several reasons:
Moderate drinkers have one in the evening etc
heavy drinkers have a few beers at night go out on weekends for drinks
People who are going through pain of some sort drink to dull it.
People who are really drunks and do not care where they sleep who they mix with would beg borrow or steal for a drink and have no care of who they hurt. And possible will never stop. A lot of these kind cannot live with themselves either when sober.
People who are drinking because they just cannot cope with their lot in life and trying to escape from it.
Now which one is your wife?
I myself if my husband started leaving bibles around, hanging angels everywhere, and talking God and church all the time would possibly take to drinking myself or poison him. ( thank goodness he is too lazy to get out of his own road)
Honestly with what her past has been she does not need this.
Go to church with the children together on Sunday etc but leave it at that if she wants it she will ask for it.
Take care of yourself and most of all the children I hope things work out for you
Hootowl
Ok I am new here and I come in giving advice possibly where it is not wanted. I have walked many roads in my life most would and could not ever live my story. The roads I have not walked I have walked along side those that were.
Now have any of you people ever heard of Rehab centers, Social workers etc.
The lady at this stage is not going to be forced into churches look at pictures of Jesus let alone pray. You would be suffocating her.
If she is drinking to excess mixing with the wrong crowd you my friend have big problems.
First you have to talk to somebody at AA if you have access to this group. Try talking to the mental care health unit see if you can get her into rehab. She has to do that herself unless ordered by the courts ( In this country anyway)
If she is refusing this you will have to try to gain custody of your children if you could put them with family would be helpful
this will give you time to deal with your own personal issues and worries.
Stand by her. If she is willing be there for her perhaps moving to a new place when she comes out get her away from temptations.
That is when you can start getting her with the church if she is willing to go. But you will have something to work with
You cannot do that now the time is not ripe for her.
She has had problems as a child, fine but she has to learn to move on she has children of her own.
I am sorry if I sound harsh but what you were as a child is one thing what you become is up to you
There are a lot of people had wrecked childhoods torn from their parents watching brothers and sisters killed during wars
Children who were beaten etc by parents. I could go on and on.
I do not wish to offend and hope this is taken the way it is meant. Church and the bible may help you, give words of comfort etc but that is for you. But it is not going to work miracles she is not going to suddenly rise from her drunken state and be healed.
And it is the last thing she wants to hear right now, she may not want to hear it ever again that is up to her. People can live together with one a none believer you know, as long as both parties feelings are respected.
You should actually give this some thought too. She may not want to share your beliefs that could be what she is hiding from.
Look drinkers drink for several reasons:
Moderate drinkers have one in the evening etc
heavy drinkers have a few beers at night go out on weekends for drinks
People who are going through pain of some sort drink to dull it.
People who are really drunks and do not care where they sleep who they mix with would beg borrow or steal for a drink and have no care of who they hurt. And possible will never stop. A lot of these kind cannot live with themselves either when sober.
People who are drinking because they just cannot cope with their lot in life and trying to escape from it.
Now which one is your wife?
I myself if my husband started leaving bibles around, hanging angels everywhere, and talking God and church all the time would possibly take to drinking myself or poison him. ( thank goodness he is too lazy to get out of his own road)
Honestly with what her past has been she does not need this.
Go to church with the children together on Sunday etc but leave it at that if she wants it she will ask for it.
Take care of yourself and most of all the children I hope things work out for you
Hootowl
Hi everyone. Well it's been almost six months since I've posted anything here, and it's not to say that God has stopped working in my life, because this whole experience that I'm going through is definitely proof of God's presence.
When I first started here, I was still new to being a Christian. Because of how low I felt in life, I do believe that the Holy Spirit embraced me and gave me hope that everything will be okay, and since then I have been on a divine journey, so I'm here to update all of you that helped me through the beginning to get me where I am now.
Originally I named this thread "Satan Has My Wife", and if I were to start it new today, I would also name it "Satan Has My Wife".
So back on the 27th day of August of 2013, when everything was falling apart, my wife had a trial date for her DUI. She took the bus there, and on her return home she stopped in at her local pub for a drink. There she ran into an older women who she knew from the pub. The woman was there with her son, a fifty year old man who my wife met for the first time on that day, we'll call him "Buddy". So Buddy and my wife got acquainted and she poured out her life story to him. She told him about the drinking and driving charges that she's trying to fight, and she expressed how miserable she was in her marriage, and Buddy convinced her that he could solve all her problems. He told her that he had friends that could clear her charges, and he told her that she was living with a man that didn't appreciate her and didn't treat her the way she should be treated. He offered her a place to get away from home and that he would take care of her until she was ready to go back. So she disappeared and moved in with him and a roommate, in an apartment just a few blocks from home.
At that time I was frantic. She said nothing to her family and just fell off the face of the earth. That's when I had the court order done, to have her found and assessed. But not even the police could find her. A month passed, and no matter what we tried, we couldn't get a hold of her, we had no idea where she was, we were all thinking the worst now and I was talking to the detectives about putting her as a missing person on the news.
The day after I had mentioned that to the detectives, they showed up at my house and told me that they'd found her. They told me that she was living with this guy Buddy and that she seemed happy. They told me that she mentioned to them that was going to file for divorce because she no longer wanted to be with me. I was in shock! But I felt God's peace... I knew that He wasn't going to abandon me now. The detectives still held the court order to have her taken to the hospital, and they did. They said she went peacefully, and upon arrival at the hospital, she left two hours later. Her mother tried to see her, and my wife told the hospital security to get her mother out.
After that I fell for awhile, I actually started believing that God didn't exist. Here I was now with four kids that I was now fully responsible for, I had a full time job, a house that was an absolute disaster, and I was alone. I began falling into earthly temptations, I was trying my hardest to find any woman that would just jump into bed with with me, I was angry at my wife, I was angry at God, I was angry at myself. I know this is going to be hard to believe, but God was there with me, He blocked me from committing any sin that I would later regret. Sometimes I would even look up to the heavens and laugh and say, "you gotta be kidding me!". He would not let me stray.
On October 2nd, my youngest son got sick with the flu. I was instantly reminded of how their mother abandoned us, so I broke the silence between me and her. I texted her phone, I wrote a very angry message and I cursed her actions. Within minutes, I got a return text, and it was Buddy! He was angry at what I wrote to her and he threatened me. Needless to say that most of that conversation didn't go over well, but in the end I felt vented and now I knew the type of person she was with. Towards the end of the conversation, when most of the anger dissipated, he did promise to take good care of her and get her help. I had to let go.
During the month of October, I filed for custody papers because I had no idea what her intentions were, she would visit us randomly, and I was afraid that she would take the kids. I waited for her to show up on one of her random visits to have the papers served to her because I still didn't know where she lived.
Finally on October 31st, she popped by because she wanted to take the kids out. I walked with her, we talked and even though I still didn't agree what she was doing with our lives, I felt bad for her and didn't serve the papers. She was painting the picture that Buddy was now controlling her... he was obsessed with her, he even tattooed her name on himself... she had sold her soul to the devil! She wasn't allowed to go anywhere without his permission, all phone calls that she made were monitored by him, and what I found out much later, when she went home that night, he beat her so bad that she was unable to leave her house for a month.
Early December 2013, my phone rings at 3:30 in the morning, I grab it quick and see her number, when I pick it up I hear her, hes beating me! Help me. I had no idea where she was living at the time, so a called the police. An hour later she had walked to my place. That night I had Buddy arrested.
He spent a month in jail... she spent some time with her family and as soon as he got out of jail, she was back with him. A few weeks ago I spoke to her again and she told me how she now has new injuries, bruised ribs, internal bleeding in her neck and a broken cheek bone which requires reconstructive surgery. I have offered to help her to get out of the situation she is in, but she has to want it ... I can t keep going in to save the day only to have her keep going back. I have told her that if she wants her life back, she needs to go live with family and go through counselling until she gets back on her feet.
My life now is amazing... I have the support of family and friends .. my children are happier than I ve ever seen them. There is only positive energy in my home now. People feel the glow coming from us. There are still days that I feel a little down, but God has given me the strength to keep me on His path and what a glorious path it is. What has transpired in my life is something only a loving God could do!
I'm not happy with what's happening to her, in no way do I think she deserves it. I pray for her daily, and I do know that one day our Lord will also embrace her with His grace, but until then, I leave it all in His hands.
When I first started here, I was still new to being a Christian. Because of how low I felt in life, I do believe that the Holy Spirit embraced me and gave me hope that everything will be okay, and since then I have been on a divine journey, so I'm here to update all of you that helped me through the beginning to get me where I am now.
Originally I named this thread "Satan Has My Wife", and if I were to start it new today, I would also name it "Satan Has My Wife".
So back on the 27th day of August of 2013, when everything was falling apart, my wife had a trial date for her DUI. She took the bus there, and on her return home she stopped in at her local pub for a drink. There she ran into an older women who she knew from the pub. The woman was there with her son, a fifty year old man who my wife met for the first time on that day, we'll call him "Buddy". So Buddy and my wife got acquainted and she poured out her life story to him. She told him about the drinking and driving charges that she's trying to fight, and she expressed how miserable she was in her marriage, and Buddy convinced her that he could solve all her problems. He told her that he had friends that could clear her charges, and he told her that she was living with a man that didn't appreciate her and didn't treat her the way she should be treated. He offered her a place to get away from home and that he would take care of her until she was ready to go back. So she disappeared and moved in with him and a roommate, in an apartment just a few blocks from home.
At that time I was frantic. She said nothing to her family and just fell off the face of the earth. That's when I had the court order done, to have her found and assessed. But not even the police could find her. A month passed, and no matter what we tried, we couldn't get a hold of her, we had no idea where she was, we were all thinking the worst now and I was talking to the detectives about putting her as a missing person on the news.
The day after I had mentioned that to the detectives, they showed up at my house and told me that they'd found her. They told me that she was living with this guy Buddy and that she seemed happy. They told me that she mentioned to them that was going to file for divorce because she no longer wanted to be with me. I was in shock! But I felt God's peace... I knew that He wasn't going to abandon me now. The detectives still held the court order to have her taken to the hospital, and they did. They said she went peacefully, and upon arrival at the hospital, she left two hours later. Her mother tried to see her, and my wife told the hospital security to get her mother out.
After that I fell for awhile, I actually started believing that God didn't exist. Here I was now with four kids that I was now fully responsible for, I had a full time job, a house that was an absolute disaster, and I was alone. I began falling into earthly temptations, I was trying my hardest to find any woman that would just jump into bed with with me, I was angry at my wife, I was angry at God, I was angry at myself. I know this is going to be hard to believe, but God was there with me, He blocked me from committing any sin that I would later regret. Sometimes I would even look up to the heavens and laugh and say, "you gotta be kidding me!". He would not let me stray.
On October 2nd, my youngest son got sick with the flu. I was instantly reminded of how their mother abandoned us, so I broke the silence between me and her. I texted her phone, I wrote a very angry message and I cursed her actions. Within minutes, I got a return text, and it was Buddy! He was angry at what I wrote to her and he threatened me. Needless to say that most of that conversation didn't go over well, but in the end I felt vented and now I knew the type of person she was with. Towards the end of the conversation, when most of the anger dissipated, he did promise to take good care of her and get her help. I had to let go.
During the month of October, I filed for custody papers because I had no idea what her intentions were, she would visit us randomly, and I was afraid that she would take the kids. I waited for her to show up on one of her random visits to have the papers served to her because I still didn't know where she lived.
Finally on October 31st, she popped by because she wanted to take the kids out. I walked with her, we talked and even though I still didn't agree what she was doing with our lives, I felt bad for her and didn't serve the papers. She was painting the picture that Buddy was now controlling her... he was obsessed with her, he even tattooed her name on himself... she had sold her soul to the devil! She wasn't allowed to go anywhere without his permission, all phone calls that she made were monitored by him, and what I found out much later, when she went home that night, he beat her so bad that she was unable to leave her house for a month.
Early December 2013, my phone rings at 3:30 in the morning, I grab it quick and see her number, when I pick it up I hear her, hes beating me! Help me. I had no idea where she was living at the time, so a called the police. An hour later she had walked to my place. That night I had Buddy arrested.
He spent a month in jail... she spent some time with her family and as soon as he got out of jail, she was back with him. A few weeks ago I spoke to her again and she told me how she now has new injuries, bruised ribs, internal bleeding in her neck and a broken cheek bone which requires reconstructive surgery. I have offered to help her to get out of the situation she is in, but she has to want it ... I can t keep going in to save the day only to have her keep going back. I have told her that if she wants her life back, she needs to go live with family and go through counselling until she gets back on her feet.
My life now is amazing... I have the support of family and friends .. my children are happier than I ve ever seen them. There is only positive energy in my home now. People feel the glow coming from us. There are still days that I feel a little down, but God has given me the strength to keep me on His path and what a glorious path it is. What has transpired in my life is something only a loving God could do!
I'm not happy with what's happening to her, in no way do I think she deserves it. I pray for her daily, and I do know that one day our Lord will also embrace her with His grace, but until then, I leave it all in His hands.
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It is heartening to hear how your home has changed for the better. I pray you can stay focused on God's work in your home and family.
You wife needs prayer that she makes the choice to turn to the Lord and get her life on track. It's good you are protecting your children from their mother's destructive behaviour.
You wife needs prayer that she makes the choice to turn to the Lord and get her life on track. It's good you are protecting your children from their mother's destructive behaviour.
Hello everyone .. It's been just over two years since I last posted here. For those of you who still remember my story and wrote back, you have all been part of my inspiration and trek with my walk with God.
More has happened in these past three years of my life than my whole 40 years on this earth.
I came to you broken, looking for some hope, looking for some truth, and I guess looking for faith, and as Christians, you all played a role in what transpired after that.
For those of you who are curious of what happened after that, read on...
Things with my wife never got any better, no matter what I tried or how hard I tried, so i eventually just gave it to God. Since then He has been in my life, constantly reminding me that He is there.
By nature, I am stubborn, and always try to find reasons for everything, so I must admit that my faith has been a roller coaster, being totally convinced one minute and then second guessing it the next, but He always seems to kick me in the butt when I start falling away.
Anyway, if I were to list all the miracles and signs that the Lord has presented me with, I would be writing for an awfully long time. The highlights are that I ended up meeting a woman who is very spiritual and loves God. Ironically, she too is an alcoholic, three years sober. Her testimony left me in awe and the timing of what happened in her life and how it coincided with what was going on in my life almost seemed like God Himself was creating this perfect union.
I have since moved from the city into a rural town, bought a house twice the size of the one I owned in the city, which is perfect for a blended family of five kids, ages 5- 10, living with us, and an acre of a backyard for their freedom to play.
I also found a church, Pentecostal, three minute drive from where I live, where I have joined the men's group, who accepted me with open arms . In the group, I have learned about bible study, how to pray, just chat, but my favorite small group is one in which we are working towards spiritual freedom.
Today, I just got back from my very first men's retreat, in which the relationship that I already had with these men turned into something I never imagined was possible. I am part of a fellowship, and the glory of God seems so apparent. I observed teenagers in groups, not talking about cars or girls or music or drugs, but they were glorifying God and His son Jesus.
I came out of that retreat realizing that the reason that I've been on this roller coaster ride with my faith is because there is a spiritual battle going on in me, and I now have the awareness and the tools to move on.
I have resolved to completely give up control of my life. I have always planned everything, always had a plan b if plan a didn't work ... I am giving that up and just walk the path that God sets out for me, because all of my planning has never gotten me anywhere, yet The Almighty One has taken me to places that I could only dream about.
More has happened in these past three years of my life than my whole 40 years on this earth.
I came to you broken, looking for some hope, looking for some truth, and I guess looking for faith, and as Christians, you all played a role in what transpired after that.
For those of you who are curious of what happened after that, read on...
Things with my wife never got any better, no matter what I tried or how hard I tried, so i eventually just gave it to God. Since then He has been in my life, constantly reminding me that He is there.
By nature, I am stubborn, and always try to find reasons for everything, so I must admit that my faith has been a roller coaster, being totally convinced one minute and then second guessing it the next, but He always seems to kick me in the butt when I start falling away.
Anyway, if I were to list all the miracles and signs that the Lord has presented me with, I would be writing for an awfully long time. The highlights are that I ended up meeting a woman who is very spiritual and loves God. Ironically, she too is an alcoholic, three years sober. Her testimony left me in awe and the timing of what happened in her life and how it coincided with what was going on in my life almost seemed like God Himself was creating this perfect union.
I have since moved from the city into a rural town, bought a house twice the size of the one I owned in the city, which is perfect for a blended family of five kids, ages 5- 10, living with us, and an acre of a backyard for their freedom to play.
I also found a church, Pentecostal, three minute drive from where I live, where I have joined the men's group, who accepted me with open arms . In the group, I have learned about bible study, how to pray, just chat, but my favorite small group is one in which we are working towards spiritual freedom.
Today, I just got back from my very first men's retreat, in which the relationship that I already had with these men turned into something I never imagined was possible. I am part of a fellowship, and the glory of God seems so apparent. I observed teenagers in groups, not talking about cars or girls or music or drugs, but they were glorifying God and His son Jesus.
I came out of that retreat realizing that the reason that I've been on this roller coaster ride with my faith is because there is a spiritual battle going on in me, and I now have the awareness and the tools to move on.
I have resolved to completely give up control of my life. I have always planned everything, always had a plan b if plan a didn't work ... I am giving that up and just walk the path that God sets out for me, because all of my planning has never gotten me anywhere, yet The Almighty One has taken me to places that I could only dream about.
G
Changed you say. I know exactly what you mean. She is overbearing on you. Be a man. Let her know exactly what family means to you and tell her straight up what her attitude makes you feel. Furthermore, do you have any rules in your home that involve order? The lord is God in my home period. I would not even let her argue it in fact I would interrupt her at her start and say," I didn't ask for you to even argue with me, you rude thing." That's right. You be a man and know that this is your marriage and your life's work as well as hers that you will not allow your wife to walk all over it. Have grace and be calm the entire time but firm. Respect! In most life situations with people you have a pusher and an appeaser. For more serious situations there is help available to you I pray that all is safe in your home.
God bless you and keep you.
God bless you and keep you.