I have been married for 25 years and we are separating. This is the hardest thing I have ever done. But with that said it needs to be done. We have things we need to work on, he has depression, gambling problems, doesn't know if he loves me anymore or not and on and on. We will be living in separate cities but not that far from each other. My heart is breaking but I know as I said this needs to be done. We won't be able to go any further without it, whether it be together or apart. I feel like my life is unraveling but there is nothing I can do, I have given it to God. My husband is a in-believer. This will be a financial burden on us both so that is even more to deal with. But we cannot go on like we are. We have decided to talk to each about 3 times a week and face to face once a week. We are continuing to see counselors. Does anybody have advice?