Basically, a husband MUST consider his wife as an equal in any decision that affects both of them, the wife MUST feel secure about moving anywhere with her husband, especially moving away from family and friends. I not sure if your husband is saved or not, if he is and he is NOT considering you in this move, the Lord Jesus will cut off his prayers and will not hear them, putting him in a rocky position before the Lord. 1Peter 3v7. Basically tell him you're not going to go, because you don't feel secure enough and that if he wants you to go with him he needs to pull up his socks and consider your feeling and thoughts on this matter. If you have lost the friendship in your husband/wife relationship your marriage is on shakey ground...