The church has torn my husband and I apart

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“Could Christians realize how many times the Lord has ordered their way that the purposes of the enemy concerning them might not be accomplished, they would not stumble along complainingly. Their faith would be stayed on God, and no trial would have power to move them.”

May you experience the closeness of the Lord.
there is the problem for most of us

we just plunge ahead and then turn to God when it all goes south

so true


Senior Member
Feb 28, 2016
the south is a favorite vacation spot for many!!!


Senior Member
Sep 21, 2016
Do not have children with this man. You already know the family is unstable emotionally, mentally and morally. The helm of it is a recovering (maybe) addict and adulterer. The hypocrisy is amazing. They are all invested in following his lead. If you do not comply, you will be targeted. You do not want to be a mom who is suddenly in court, being accused of being unfit, with his family testifying against you. Be a strong woman for your future children. They deserve better than this situation. You have to be aware. You can't just let life happen and then hope for the best. I am sorry that this is so hard. I know you want to wake up and have it somehow be different. You are bright. You see the truth. It is time to grieve. You are gentle as a dove but yes be wise as a serpent. Do not get deceived. Run.