Yeah, no offense taken XD
But really, these guys support our relationship, but they sometimes show something that seems like it's against us, and it really confuses me sometimes lol. Reminds me of that analogy "You have 99 grams of sugar and 1 gram of cyanide in a bowl." I NEED them to be fully on board for this relationship. They should keep it in check, and they have every right to, but they don't need to cut and harm where it's not necessary, ya know?
Anyway, it's almost over I think. Her mom and I are still trying to talk, but we're avoiding anything to do with parenting, relationships, situations, ect. I will be talking to her dad tomorrow (keeps gettin pushed back rofl), and I believe he is very reasonable, and am probably more willing to do what he says, even if I don't like it. But I'm worried about what he's gonna set up, because as of now, I can't talk about what I listed above (this argument, relationships INCLUDING OURS, and anything "serious"). I really want to TALK to her about this, considering that it happened. I don't want to try to get her to choose sides, I just want to let her know my feelings on this and stuff.
I also had stuff to talk to her about regarding a "serious" long-term conversation, including our future, God, ect. I REALLY want to talk to her about that regardless, but it'll really suck if that ends up being off-limits because of these new rules =(