What being gay means to me

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Being gay I feel is a blessing god has granted me , understanding we are all equal is so important to me I'm equal and have the same rights as everyone else for anyone struggling with whether god loves gay people please answer this, god is male masculine and men and women say they love him and god loves men and women then are the people who say they love god somehow gay then? I feel god is trying to unite us through what I just said, that we have nothing to fear from each other only to gain from each other through love .
 

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That's a very sick and twisted view of people loving God. I'd venture to say comparing people's love for God to being a homosexual love is horrible. Your attitude is one that ignores the bible to justify your sin. It could even be said you mock God and the bible by your words.
Does that mean if your father loved you it's gay love? Incest?
What you clearly don't know is love is not a single meaning. Love can be between family, friends, parents/children, spouses, God. These are not all the same definition of love. In fact in the original language much of the NT was written in love had multiple words, defining various types of love. It is on English that we use one word to describe various components of love.

But, frankly, this post disgusts me. And not because you claim to be gay, but that you twist and pervert love so heinoussly. And you defile what it means to love God by comparing it to an act God called an abomination. A sin more offensive to Him than most others.
You are a sick person.
 

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Being gay I feel is a blessing god has granted me , understanding we are all equal is so important to me I'm equal and have the same rights as everyone else for anyone struggling with whether god loves gay people please answer this, god is male masculine and men and women say they love him and god loves men and women then are the people who say they love god somehow gay then? I feel god is trying to unite us through what I just said, that we have nothing to fear from each other only to gain from each other through love .
The bible says homosexual sex is a sin, just like fornication and adultery. Try again.
If you like homo sex, that's your business, leave me and God out of it.
By the way, God never said anything about everyone being equal. Read the bible sometime, there are plenty of people God saw as greater than others.
 
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Your twisting what I just said to justify what you feel is right. God says I'm not a mistake if one person was gay id say something but there is millions of people who are gay now that doesn't happen by chance...sorry you feel I'm a sick person and can I say what you just said I know Jesus wouldn't have said that to be honest with you he wouldn't have said that ... Listen I've been called worse names in my time... Believe me why should I feel the need to justify my love to anyone yet I feel as though I have to and I know you will list off a load of scriptures of how I'm doomed and all that listen I've heard it all before man, I'm speaking from the heart
 
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We are all equal in the eyes of god.. listen I have been blessed truly blessed in my life to love the people I love and feel loved back don't limit god or his love look I'm glad it's Jesus I answer to and not most of the people who have only negative comments to say here, try having love, compassion in your heart. I'm not the enemy here I'm your brother! Don't you see god is trying to communicate to the modern world it's just upto us to listen. Like I said if I'm doomed for loving someone then you have a very narrow view on god's love and grace. And if God knows all the stars by name I'm sure he knows the simple fact Michael over here is gay ,I mean come on ,god's love for us is beyond our comprehension
 
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Your twisting what I just said to justify what you feel is right. God says I'm not a mistake if one person was gay id say something but there is millions of people who are gay now that doesn't happen by chance...sorry you feel I'm a sick person and can I say what you just said I know Jesus wouldn't have said that to be honest with you he wouldn't have said that ... Listen I've been called worse names in my time... Believe me why should I feel the need to justify my love to anyone yet I feel as though I have to and I know you will list off a load of scriptures of how I'm doomed and all that listen I've heard it all before man, I'm speaking from the heart
Listen the bible says God hates the sin, but loves the sinner. Practicing homosexuality is a sin, but regardless he loves you. You can't know what you don't have. That means, you may know about Christ, but practicing that lifestyle shows you don't really have a relationship with him, thus you can't know what his love is for you. I hope some day you come to know him as your personal Lord and Savior so that you know the true meaning of love.
 
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God doesn't hate there is no hate or fear in the word love, I know I'm loved but how can you say I'm not in a personal relationship with him the very hairs on my head are numbered, his thoughts towards me are countless as the sand on the seashore, look I know it's a deep issue to mention and I respect what ye are saying, sin is sin, it's not of god, but I'm of god if God said I'm to be gay then I'm gay there's no arguing with it, it's a desire not a choice to desire a relationship with a fellow man to desire to be loved isn't to be frowned upon God wants me to be happy too.
 
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God doesn't hate there is no hate or fear in the word love, I know I'm loved but how can you say I'm not in a personal relationship with him the very hairs on my head are numbered, his thoughts towards me are countless as the sand on the seashore, look I know it's a deep issue to mention and I respect what ye are saying, sin is sin, it's not of god, but I'm of god if God said I'm to be gay then I'm gay there's no arguing with it, it's a desire not a choice to desire a relationship with a fellow man to desire to be loved isn't to be frowned upon God wants me to be happy too.
In the Garden of Eden God created Adam and out of Adam he created Eve. He then told them to multiply. God created men and women to have children and multiply. God did not create you to be gay because if he did then two men or two women would be able to conceive children naturally and their parts and the reproductive organs would fit and work properly and obviously they don't. By you saying God created you to be gay is a lie from the pit of hell
 
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A lie from the pit of hell ! Wow that's a unique one I haven't heard before lol, listen shur the Bible was inspired by god man wrote it , bring honest I don't believe everything in the Bible there I said it.. men are influenced too easily, I feel sorry for your narrow viewpoint really I do, just so if anyone who is gay too and reading this you are loved by god I guarantee it... And another thing the church on this earth as a whole is corrupt you just have to look at what happened here in my country , how can the church justify a starving child and there's the church with all this wealth it's full of hypocrites to be fair and the pope coming here to Ireland in a few months wanting to go to wash prisoners feet so he said yet he won't answer any questions about gay people or our rights ahere give me a break .. I know I'm in the minority on this issue that's ok I'm used to it... But the church as a while hasn't been a good example to follow at least the earthly church .
 

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Your twisting what I just said to justify what you feel is right. God says I'm not a mistake if one person was gay id say something but there is millions of people who are gay now that doesn't happen by chance...sorry you feel I'm a sick person and can I say what you just said I know Jesus wouldn't have said that to be honest with you he wouldn't have said that ... Listen I've been called worse names in my time... Believe me why should I feel the need to justify my love to anyone yet I feel as though I have to and I know you will list off a load of scriptures of how I'm doomed and all that listen I've heard it all before man, I'm speaking from the heart
Millions of people in rebellion against God.
 

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Why do you think you are gay? Is it for feelings you have? Is it for the teachings of the earthly ones and the influence of the worldly? Is it for something someone has told you? Is it for some other reason?
 

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Being gay I feel is a blessing god has granted me , understanding we are all equal is so important to me I'm equal and have the same rights as everyone else for anyone struggling with whether god loves gay people please answer this, god is male masculine and men and women say they love him and god loves men and women then are the people who say they love god somehow gay then? I feel god is trying to unite us through what I just said, that we have nothing to fear from each other only to gain from each other through love .
The Homosexual act is an abomination to God.. It is evil to call it a blessing.. And it is a terrible thing to say that Men who love Jesus are lusting over him with perverse disgusting desires.. Woe to you for bringing your filthy disgusting teachings in here..
 

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A lie from the pit of hell ! Wow that's a unique one I haven't heard before lol, listen shur the Bible was inspired by god man wrote it , bring honest I don't believe everything in the Bible there I said it.. men are influenced too easily, I feel sorry for your narrow viewpoint really I do, just so if anyone who is gay too and reading this you are loved by god I guarantee it... And another thing the church on this earth as a whole is corrupt you just have to look at what happened here in my country , how can the church justify a starving child and there's the church with all this wealth it's full of hypocrites to be fair and the pope coming here to Ireland in a few months wanting to go to wash prisoners feet so he said yet he won't answer any questions about gay people or our rights ahere give me a break .. I know I'm in the minority on this issue that's ok I'm used to it... But the church as a while hasn't been a good example to follow at least the earthly church .
The sins of others does not justfy your own degenerate lusts for other men..
 
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I'm gay because God made me this way it's more than a feeling it's a desire.,.. it's not lust I feel connected to my feminine side and my masculine side i don't believe the world made me gay I feel God made me gay.
 

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I'm gay because God made me this way it's more than a feeling it's a desire.,.. it's not lust I feel connected to my feminine side and my masculine side i don't believe the world made me gay I feel God made me gay.
When did you start desiring to be gay? When did you start to believe that you were made gay?
 
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Growing up your not interested in anything ya don't know what ya want. but I always liked the male body look it's a mystery to me you or I don't know if God made me this way or not ... I'll ask him one day for sure he will probably laugh at me and say love is unconditional that he's always loved me
 

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Growing up your not interested in anything ya don't know what ya want. but I always liked the male body look it's a mystery to me you or I don't know if God made me this way or not ... I'll ask him one day for sure he will probably laugh at me and say love is unconditional that he's always loved me
Indeed as a child we do not know or consider such things. Even for normal sex, these things are not known as a child. I think you answer rightly, but then I think by your own answer saying that you do not know really if God made you gay or not, which is a good answer, that you were not made gay.

I wonder how the male body can be a mystery to you seeing that you possess a male body? I wonder also then at your previous comment about your "feminine side". I wonder then, why, or at what point, did you feel feminine and not rather masculine as God made you a male?
 
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Being gay I feel is a blessing god has granted me , understanding we are all equal is so important to me I'm equal and have the same rights as everyone else for anyone struggling with whether god loves gay people please answer this, god is male masculine and men and women say they love him and god loves men and women then are the people who say they love god somehow gay then? I feel god is trying to unite us through what I just said, that we have nothing to fear from each other only to gain from each other through love .
Here is why you truly have a mental illness. You don't understand that this kind of love and sexual feelings/desires are completely separate. You have jumbled them into a perverted mess.

 
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Lol it's a mystery god knows why just for us to not judge or run down people our job here is to love ,I'm a strong believer in love, love is very precious to us all it's a free gift many of us take for granted I feel very strongly toward masculinity I'd say I'm a male with female needs if that makes sense !! I'm gay! I can't explain that to you its difficult... But hey if me being so honest helps someone struggling at a point in there lives shur isn't that what life is about giving love freely then I endorse that I just don't like people gay bashing..
 
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Thanks for the love way to build a brother up there pal cheers.
 
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