Wife had affair with my best friend.

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Solemateleft

Solemateleft

Honor, Courage, Commitment
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God Bless you brother! Please find strength thru our lord and knowing that the CC forum is praying for you and your kids.
Yes, please seek your pastor asap and be there for your kids.
Unfortunately, it is very likely that your wife's soul is lost and/or that she has a narcissistic personality disorder and that you my friend have done your best. Unfortunately, in doing your best, while she has not - you have become a co-dependent to enable her.
I will pray for you brother - please stay strong for your kids and focus upon building your relationship with christ. Give this burden to the lord and pray for him to help you along your journey to salvation...
God Bless
 
Socreta93

Socreta93

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Why did she marry you in the first place? She obviously cares nothing about you. I'm sorry for what you're going through, you deserve someone better. Biblical you can divorce her and you should. One time I can understand forgiving and giving her another shot. But 5 times including your best friend proves she don't love you. Sorry it seems harsh but it's true.
 
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oldethennew

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it's very sad to realize, that 'neither one' was ever who you thought they were...
wake up and read your Bible, and find the Best Friend that you could ever have...
 
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