We don't want to hurt people outside the LGBTQA community
The gay rights movement is not about forcing people to accept what we do. We know there will always be people who don't approve of the way we are, and we don't want to force them to change because we don't want them to force us to change. It's about us having the same rights as everyone else. Many people argue we already have those rights. In a way, they're right. The United States Constitution states that everyone is equal, but clearly, we have failed as a country many, many, many times to reinforce that, and that's where the major disagreement begins.
We don't want to force anyone to accept us, but in order to obtain our rights we at least have to clarify to people things about us that they may not know, like the fact that we're just like anyone else but we just happen to love people of the same gender. Or like the fact that we're not all necessarily sexually deviant people. People in general, regardless of sexual orientation, can have very high sex drives. It has nothing to do with their preference.
The gay rights movement has very little in its core to do with religion. We don't hate religious people. Some gay people do, but that's their affair to deal with.
We make mistakes just like anyone else, and this event was a big one on our part. However, understand that this woman was murdered by a man not because of his homosexuality, but because of his violent nature.
As for the LGBTQA people who think that it is okay to discriminate against people based on their beliefs when they are not violent about it, I don't agree with them. Most of us actually really don't agree with them. It's not okay to discriminate on any basis. Everyone is different. We know we can't change people or remove people who are different because then there would be no one left. The world is diverse, and trying to force it to become more uniform is problematic for everyone.
The problem is not gay people, or awareness of gay rights, or homophobia, or anything of the like. It's discrimination, resistance to diversity, of all parties.