My husband never tells me who he is voting for. Except in the last election, when I became a rabid convert to Harper and conservativism, really, anything to stop Trudeau 2.0. Then he admitted he had always voted conservative. Which I think I probably had figured out.
You people really need to convert to a parliamentary democracy. We don't have to go through all this horrifically long year of campaigning. We just take what the parties offer, and vote for the local candidate, who of course is running for one of the many parties. (20 last election, I think!)
So much simpler, IMHO!