I very well know that in a non christian nation, my rights are not superior to any one elses, but I do have the right to proclaim my conscience and resist when that right is suppressed.
Now regarding rights, on this Christian forum according to its rules you dont have the right to propagate your humanistic anti Christian views...after all this is Christian forum not Forum for Humanism.
Again, American legal principles aren't anti-Christian views, Crossnote. In fact, I am not anti-Christian, I have several registered Christian people on my friends' list, as you can see from my profile. I also maintain that to speak respectfully on any topic, not inciting hatred, maliciousness, is not unacceptable behaviour. I imagine if the creators of this site were totally averse to having an atheist (which is only part of who I am, by the way) write their views on these threads, one or more of three things would be true:
1. There'd be no option upon sign up to choose the spiritual status "non-Christian"
2. The forum rules would explicitly state "no non-Christians allowed", which would mean I wouldn't be here in the first place, or
3. I'd be banned.
Since neither of these three things are true, I'm still here. Let's take a look at the forum rules:
1. Nothing anti-Christian, or inappropriate for a Christian chat room or forum.
What is "inappropriate for a Christian chat room or forum" is arbitrary and differs between people. Hence why many of the Christians on this forum have agreed with my views, while many have also disagreed with them. I'm sure if the moderators or site administrators
do indeed come across something in the content of my posts that they consider intrinscially "anti-Christian", they'll be sure to let me know. And since theirs is the only opinion which counts on this matter, it is the opinion I will acknowledge. It is
their restrictions I must adhere to, Crossnote, not yours. Your opinion in what is "anti-Christian" is only one opinion among this large community of people, many of whom might not agree with you.
Please do not try to register any blasphemous or offensive nicknames.
I have not done this.
Also please do not engage in any blasphemous, profane, or improper talk, or any talk that is offensive to our Christian community.
Again, this is subject to the discretion of the moderators and owners, because what is "improper, blasphemous, profane or offensive to this Christian community" differs depending on which member of this site you ask.
Also, please don't post any inappropriate links in your chat profile or in the forums, or in the chat rooms (e.g., links to anti-Christian sites, sites with inappropriate content, sites promoting other religions, cults, or doctrines contrary to the Bible).
This, I haven't done.
Also, photos in chat profiles should be with appropriate clothing and not provocative.
I have no photos, so this doesn't apply.
2. No conduct that is offensive or counterproductive to fellowship.
This rule is also subject to the interpretation of the moderators and site owners. What one Christian views as counterproductive may, to another Christian, be a very relevant, interesting, or otherwise beneficial or helpful viewpoint of contribution to discussion. The relative thresholds for "offence", differ between person to person.
We like to welcome all to Christian Chat, but if anyone is not here for fellowship (or for wanting to know about Christianity), but simply for disrupting fellowship, offending people, whatever, then that person is not welcome.
I think it can be simply proved that I am rather instrested and intrigued by Christianity, seeing as I have posted several thought-out, inoffensive threads pertaining to theological questions that I find fundamentally hard to answer -- which you can find on my "created threads" list on my profile. As for fellowship between myself and other members, please feel free to check my profile to see if I have and do connect with other members of the forum, whether they be friends or members whom I converse and debate with on threads.
3. No flooding.
Please don't flood the whole chat screen with your messages.
I do not use the chat frequently, if ever, and if I have, I have not done this.
4. English, please.
Please speak mostly English in the chat rooms so that others can understand you. At least please do not dominate the voice/video chat (or text chat) with conversation in another language.
I speak in English.
5. No worldly music, please.
We don't want to make an absolute rule against all secular music/lyrics, but most most secular music is indeed worldly (against the teachings of the Bible), and we'd really rather have Christian music or lyrics playing (or being sung) when others enter our "Christian" chat rooms!
I have not posted any music.
6. Do not dispute the chat room moderators.
The moderators are there to watch over the chat rooms, promote fellowship, and protect the chat rooms when necessary. Their job is stressful enough. Don't add to their stress by disputing their actions, especially if it involves someone else and not you. For example, if you see a moderator kick someone, and wonder why, don't worry about it. The moderator probably knows something you don't. Have some trust in the moderators, appreciate them, and respect their oversight of the chat rooms.
Also please don't be making posts in the forums about someone else's ban. It doesn't help!
And please understand that we don't have the time or energy to talk to a hundred different people (or even a dozen different people) about somebody else's ban. Leave it between that person and the moderator, please!
I haven't had any infractions or bans, and as far as I know, I've done nothing to question the authority of the moderators of the site.
7. Please do not ask us how to become a moderator.
Sorry we don't accept requests to be a moderator; it is by invitation only.
I haven't done this.
8. Please do not register more than one chat nickname.
Registering multiple usernames is prohibited. Each person should have only one single identity in the chat rooms and the forums. Also if you want to change your username, understand that we have to delete your current account and let you register a new one (so you'll lose all data, though any forum posts will remain with the old username but with usertitle "Guest"). If you're not already a supporter of the site, we charge a $5 fee for such requests.
Nor this.
9. Please do not hang out where you do not belong.
Please do not use the Teens chat room unless you are between 13 and 19 years old. And please do not use the Singles chat room unless you are single and 18 or older. (The other chat rooms are for general fellowship and are open to all.)
Nor this, though I have replied to one or two threads in the teens and young adults forums where young people were posing questions to all members. If that is something that is not allowed, then please let me know and I'll refrain from doing it.
10. Please let the moderators moderate.
The chat room moderators are just that: moderators. (They are not just monitors). Please allow them tomoderate (i.e., change topics, steer topics, or move discussions to other rooms).
I haven't had any run-ins with moderators, so this doesn't apply.
11. Please do not attempt to charter a room for your own official scheduled event/Bible-teaching/Prayer-meeting/etc.
No one should think that they can officially charter one of our chat rooms for their own special event without permission/authorization from the Admin of this site. We make this rule for two reasons: (1) we don't want just anyone setting themselves up as an official teacher of the Bible here and making it seem officially organized by us; and (2) the rooms are meant for open chat, and no room should be controlled by any particular person (except as authorized by the Admin of this site).
Again, I rarely use the chat function, and when I do, I certainly don't do this.
12. Please do not plant/spread seeds of suspicion and mistrust about CC fundraising.
Please don't go around creating a cloud of mistrust and suspicion concerning fundraising on ChristianChat.com It takes a lot of hard work, and money so people have a place for chatting, fellowship, ministry, and discussion. Creating a cloud of mistrust and suspicion makes our task more difficult. It's inconsiderate, and inconsistent to consume free of charge, the product of someone's hard work, if you go around telling others how they can't be trusted, or if you go around raising a cloud of suspicion about them.
I've never questioned the fundraising practices of this site.
13. No unauthorized advertising or soliciting or recruiting.
Please come to our chat rooms and forums for fellowship, not to try to advertise anything (not even in private messages to our chat room visitors) or recruit people for anything. By "anything" we mean anything -- web sites, chat rooms, forums, facebook groups, churches, groups, doctrine, etc.
Also, please understand that many users have joined our chat rooms to try to solicit donations for their own charity (or some other Christian charity). There are so many charities people claim (e.g., orphanages in India, food for Africa, etc.) and we have no way to verify these things. And besides, people don't join our chat rooms to be solicited, so please refrain.
Regarding other sites, understand that we've had too many cases of new and existing chat sites -- even Christian sites -- trying to piggyback on our site. If you are trying to build up your own online fellowship (chat site or forum or facebook group or skype group whatever), leeching off of another online fellowship (by trying to recruit its users) is not the way to do it. Whether the recruiting is done directly or indirectly, the result is the same, and we reserve the right to enforce our rule.
Example of directly using CC to recruit members.
1. While on CC using any method of communication on CC to inform them of your site or online fellowship/teaching/ministry group or venue.
Example of indirectly using CC to recruit members.
1. Adding someone you met on CC to a social networking friends list, adding them as an instant messenger contact, or communicating to them through email, and then informing them of your site or online fellowship/teaching/ministry group or venue.
I've never done this.
14. Admins, mods, and team members from other Christian chats/forums must seek our permission.
Team members from other Christian chat/forum sites (admins, moderators, "ministry teams", etc.) do NOT have the God-given right to be in ChristianChat.com without the knowledge and consent of the CC admin team. In our experience, such Christian chat/forum "ministry" sites whose teams are in our site ultimately become very piggybacked on CC (their teams recruiting or inviting CC members, either directly within CC, or indirectly outside of CC) -- and in almost every case, in denial about it. Typically such groups also begin to appoint CC members as their moderators, resulting in even more of a recruiting team and greater piggybacking on CC. Moreover, in our experience such groups also begin to empower banned ex-CC-members as their moderators, resulting in even more challenges for Christian Chat, when such sites staffed or partially staffed by malicious ex-CC-members are piggybacked on Christian Chat.
Please understand that people who are trying to build up their own group will likely have some very spiritual sounding philosophy about why they and their teams have this God-given right to be in our site without our consent. It is quite convenient for such persons to have such philosophies, since having their teams in our site naturally builds up their own site. We shouldn't be put in a position to have to say anything about such matters to fellow Christians, but unfortunately many Christians -- including our "friends" -- have put us in such a position. Hence, this policy.
Please note that this policy is not in reference to any long established Christian chat sites, as we've always had a good relationship with other established sites, and there's mutual respect for each other's work. This policy is more in reference to new sites/groups which are often very ambitious about building up their own group/site and which naturally become piggybacked on our site when their owners, admins, mod teams, etc., are all within our site without our consent.
I've never done this.
15. Addressing idle chatters with repeated expressed financial crises.
We've observed some users suffering repeated financial crises (partly) due to their idleness in chat/forums. Their serial idleness leads to financial crises. Some people feel compelled to assist financially after the user informs others of the crisis. Assistance can do more harm than good because it enables continued idleness. Users can become open to potential financial scams.
We reserve the right to remove such users for their own good, for the protection of users, and to reduce the workload for the leadership of CC. We encourage such users to seek assistance from a local church/ministry and be accountable to such. Also reference 1 Tim 5:9-10 and 2 Thess 3:6-10.
Note: We may occasionally update or add to these rules.
I've also never done this.
As far as I can tell, I'm not breaking any rules by being here; discussing civilly (though sometimes debates do get heated); having friends and maintaining contact with members; nor by any of the other actions I've undertaken on the site. And again, if I am mistaken, then it is up to the moderators and owners to reprimand me and make it clear that they consider something I have done to be against the rules of the site. If such a thing occurs, I will be happy to redress my behaviour.