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People should be aware that it is best not to engage in personal fights here. I thought the following might be helpful to disengage from those who bait you and it is also a reminder that we do have an obligation to restrain from the desire to get one over on another person. There is no need to score points here as we all agree that we all have the right to speak as provided for in the Constitution, so, with that in mind, here are are some little helpful ways to keep from making things personal as we express our opinions.
Projection: a person who doesn’t like your point of view may say, ”I don’t think you like me.”. That's a personal poke and obviously not about the op
Other ways to become too engaged and end up being the person you really do not want to be, is to try to explain to someone that you are not doing what they are accusing you of doing. In other words, if you are accused of being rude and you know you are not rude, just pass it off. Ad hominum attacks are all too frequent in these forums.
Be careful of generalizations. As has been pointed out a good number of times in this thread alone, not all police are bad and not all people of any group are prejudiced and all people do not need to apologize to rioters and give in to them.
These are just some simple things that I want to keep in mind and they might be helpful to new members who have not had the experience of how argumentative certain threads here can be. The news forum is especially a forum in which people take sides and sometimes extreme sides.
I am posting this for myself as much as anyone else.
Projection: a person who doesn’t like your point of view may say, ”I don’t think you like me.”. That's a personal poke and obviously not about the op
Other ways to become too engaged and end up being the person you really do not want to be, is to try to explain to someone that you are not doing what they are accusing you of doing. In other words, if you are accused of being rude and you know you are not rude, just pass it off. Ad hominum attacks are all too frequent in these forums.
Be careful of generalizations. As has been pointed out a good number of times in this thread alone, not all police are bad and not all people of any group are prejudiced and all people do not need to apologize to rioters and give in to them.
These are just some simple things that I want to keep in mind and they might be helpful to new members who have not had the experience of how argumentative certain threads here can be. The news forum is especially a forum in which people take sides and sometimes extreme sides.
I am posting this for myself as much as anyone else.