When one person accuses that isn't scriptual. When it comes to rebuking or correcting someone elders go to an individual. Not just one person. It is to be done with two or more people. Not approving if something is fine. I'm certainly not as big on Halloween as I ised to be but I don't throw it in the faces of others. That can create harsh feelings.
Hello Elizabeth
Are you speaking of the proper order of Christian conduct within the rules of engagement when a brother or sister offends us or the Lord we serve beginning with this as the first step in
Matthew 18:15
If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault,
just between the two of you.
If they listen to you, you have won them over.
I was more speaking collectively as a body, together what the Church allows simply to not cause harsh feelings in trying to bring people to Christ.
It is one thing before someone knows God within their heart and soul.
Yet it is another when afterward being born again once we know him intimately.
The problem being after people have been brought to Christ, yet still continue in complacency continually transgressing God and then using God's own words against him by justifying themselves which effectively keeps putting Christ back on the cross.
People justifying sin using excuses like, we all fall short, all things are permissible etc etc.
I don't believe these words were written to provide the followers of Christ with excuses to remain as they are, but are instead a statement of fact and that their is a means to remedy our fallen situation...Obedience to Christ.
Ya know what I mean?
Jesus handled the ones that knew better vastly differently than the ones who didn't...right?
And the bible says once we know better...we then have no excuse.